The things I miss about sex

sophia jane

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It's been almost two years for me, and mostly I haven't missed sex because I've been so depressed and wrapped in self-loathing. But now, I'm better (so so much better) and I'm finding my libido again (woo-hoo).
Anyway....the sex drive returning has made me think a bit about sex and, specifically, the little things I miss.
Here are a few:

the taste of skin
eye locking during penetration
the rush of good kissing way before the clothes come off
the line of skin above the pubic bone
a good bite on a random body part


So, what about y'all? Let's talk about sex. :)
 
Smelling and touching her hair.

The slow, gentle tug as clothes become loosened.

That first feel of her breasts through her shirt.

Her hand wandering back between us.

That soft sigh and little grunt when I kiss and nip at her neck.

Yes . . . let's, indeed.
 
If I had to miss anything about sex, if I wasn't getting any, would be the cumming. Fuck all that foreplay horseshit. I'd miss the cumming.
 
sophia jane said:
It's been almost two years for me, and mostly I haven't missed sex because I've been so depressed and wrapped in self-loathing. But now, I'm better (so so much better) and I'm finding my libido again (woo-hoo).
Anyway....the sex drive returning has made me think a bit about sex and, specifically, the little things I miss.
Here are a few:

the taste of skin
eye locking during penetration
the rush of good kissing way before the clothes come off
the line of skin above the pubic bone
a good bite on a random body part


So, what about y'all? Let's talk about sex. :)

My first partner(male) is blind so I haven't had the eye contact I wonder what that is like....
oh and i miss orgasms. Ive been haveing regular sex about once a week now but i haven't came in a couple of months....(sad face)
 
Its been a couple of months, for me. I spend, literally, all my time at work or working-away-from-the-office. No time to meet anyone.

What I miss most?

I think I miss the snuggling the most. I'm much larger than the women I date (6'6"), so I can, literally, wrap my arms around a girl when we're sleeping. And post-coital sex-me-down is good stuff.
 
I miss...

Bodies still clothed, pressing against each other with urgency
Hard kisses that catch me by surprise
A growing erection felt through jeans
Skin on skin contact
That perfect moment when just the head pops in
Spooning
 
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CeriseNoire said:
I miss...

Bodies still clothes, pressing against each other with urgency
Hard kisses that catch me by surprise
A growing erection felt through jeans
Skin on skin contact
That perfect moment when just the head pops in
Spooning

Oooh those are good ones.

More of mine-
a nip of teeth while kissing
the weight of a body on top of me
being pushed up against a wall
 
sophia jane said:
Oooh those are good ones.

More of mine-
a nip of teeth while kissing
the weight of a body on top of me
being pushed up against a wall

Oh, that's a favorite of mine too. I really do miss that :(
 
CeriseNoire said:
Oh, that's a favorite of mine too. I really do miss that :(

Unbridled passion.

Need, desire, coming to the fore with no care for anything other than mutual satisfaction.

Clawing, groping, heated sighs and groans of yeanring . . . .
 
A few of my favorites:

Kissing (a lot).

Undressing each other.

That first touch of skin.

Sucking and licking all over.

69

first penetration.

post-coital snuggling.

Waking up and doing it again. ;)
 
Hearing her gasp as I find her clit. The curves of her asscheeks. The fine hair just above her ass. The after taste of her cunt. The feeling of warm water cascading between us in the shower. Her teeth scrapping against my tongue, and vice versa. Her calling me up later in the day telling me she's still sore. Watching her eyes close just as my cock entered my mouth. Feeling her cunt clamp around my finger. Feeling her on top of me. Pushing my cock in all the way - to the hilt. And so much more.
 
ms.read said:
My first partner(male) is blind so I haven't had the eye contact I wonder what that is like....
oh and i miss orgasms. Ive been haveing regular sex about once a week now but i haven't came in a couple of months....(sad face)
You've just reminded me of a girlfriend I had. She was very strongly far-sighted-- couldn't focus close up, when we were fucking... it gave her this helpless look... :devil:
 
Joe Wordsworth said:
Its been a couple of months, for me. I spend, literally, all my time at work or working-away-from-the-office. No time to meet anyone.

What I miss most?

I think I miss the snuggling the most. I'm much larger than the women I date (6'6"), so I can, literally, wrap my arms around a girl when we're sleeping. And post-coital sex-me-down is good stuff.


Awww, my heart just melted -you big'ol softie! :kiss:

I'm a lucky, lucky lady in the sex stakes and the longest I go without is a few days. The longest period of time (enforced) was about 6 weeks and what I missed? skin on skin contact. We stil cuddled and kissed and we still did the innuendo but we didn't touch when naked -it'd have been too much temptation.
 
I've never had sex so I don't know what I'm missing. I'm glad about that because if I did know (though I do have an inkling) I'd have probably offed myself by now.

I'm glad you're feeling better.
 
I miss the knowing glances we'd give eachother in a room full of friends or strangers, that electricity that connected us, the just knowing we'd be entwined in bed soon.

And I miss wearing sexy outfits or trying on loungerie in the changeroom while he watched and the store attendant hovered near to be sure we were behaving in there.

And I miss the feel of fingers running over my slit and a hot tongue tickling over my nipple.

*Sigh* only 2.5 months for me. Welcome back to your libido, I'm sure she missed you :)
 
Skin.

That blissful state of being, after intense lovemaking, when everything is just right.

The evidence of our passion marked on my skin . . . and aching the next day, in all the right places, and her knowing look, because she did that to me.
 
Nirvanadragones said:
The evidence of our passion marked on my skin . . . and aching the next day, in all the right places, and her knowing look, because she did that to me.
totally usually miss this most

but not right now
 
My wife and I currently live 400 miles apart. As cliched as it sounds, the thing I miss the most about sex is spontaneity. We can't just smile and move close; one of us has to drive six hours first.

That, and my utter inability to have phone or cybersex with her (or anybody, I hazard). I guess I'm too self conscious (which is odd, because I'm not bothered by such things when we're physically together), because I always wind up waxing comical.
 
Oblimo said:
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That, and my utter inability to have phone or cybersex with her (or anybody, I hazard). I guess I'm too self conscious (which is odd, because I'm not bothered by such things when we're physically together), because I always wind up waxing comical.


wax on. wax off. :D
 
sophia jane said:
It's been almost two years for me, and mostly I haven't missed sex because I've been so depressed and wrapped in self-loathing. But now, I'm better (so so much better) and I'm finding my libido again (woo-hoo).
Anyway....the sex drive returning has made me think a bit about sex and, specifically, the little things I miss.
Here are a few:

the taste of skin
eye locking during penetration
the rush of good kissing way before the clothes come off
the line of skin above the pubic bone
a good bite on a random body part


So, what about y'all? Let's talk about sex. :)


Hello, SJ! Very happy to hear about your recovering libido!

And always happy to talk about sex.

I love the warmth of his skin against mine.

I love the feel of his big hands touching me.

I love being enveloped in his strong arms.

:rose:
 
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