The Sheltering Tree

Spenser41 said:
OK folks. Saw the retirement center and it was awesome. Very very nice and works with her budget. The main thing was to get her come and see it. After talking with her tonight, she has agreed to at least go and look. I am hoping she will like it. If she does that we have a plan. Only thing is, there is a 5-6 month waiting list. But at least we have a plan.
I will let you know how it goes.


Be thinking of you....when are you taking her to see it?
 
Spenser41 said:
OK folks. Saw the retirement center and it was awesome. Very very nice and works with her budget. The main thing was to get her come and see it. After talking with her tonight, she has agreed to at least go and look. I am hoping she will like it. If she does that we have a plan. Only thing is, there is a 5-6 month waiting list. But at least we have a plan.
I will let you know how it goes.

YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're making progress! I'll keep ya in my thoughts hon....I'm so glad she has agreed to go see it, at least. Once she realizes how much easier life will be, the fight will lessen. hang in there babe!!

Good Morning Tree Huggers.... :D
 
jazey_43 said:
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're making progress! I'll keep ya in my thoughts hon....I'm so glad she has agreed to go see it, at least. Once she realizes how much easier life will be, the fight will lessen. hang in there babe!!

Good Morning Tree Huggers.... :D

YUP I agree with you... good luck Spenser! :rose:
 
Praying things work out and your mom likes the place. It's understandable how she feels and it's pride also that can put a damper on things but hopefully she'll like the place and your plan will forge ahead.

Thanks for all your kind words and yes, it's a slow healing process. It can really do a number on one's emotions but I've slowly accepted my new "slow" lifestyle and found ways to do some things in life that I love doing :devil: It helps having a man who puts up with, does things to perk one's spirits up, cares, loves and puts his foot down whenever I get the urge to "do things" that I'm not suppose to or go overboard, hehehe.

I sorely miss everyone and it saddens me to know there is still a lot of pain out there in the world. When we were younger, as children, the world was such a wonderful place. Now that we've grown up we experience, see and hear the "real world" and it causes pain. I pray and hope that all who suffers will find peace and the pain lessens. We are here to help one another and it is under the Tree that we find those who care and are awaiting with open arms.

Spencer has such a big, caring heart and I'm so grateful he's brought back the Tree. I love sitting under the shade with my friends and spending time and trying to help you all as best as I can. I love each and everyone of you and send my hugs (gently) and kisses to you all.

Aloha from humid and hot Hawaii. Can you believe it's already 82 degrees and only 9 am? One of the conditions one has to live in the islands...
 
Two traveling angels

Thought I'd share this with everyone under the shade of the Tree...

Two traveling angels
Keep reading to the bottom of the page -- don't stop at the feet
(You'll see).

Two traveling angels stopped to spend the night
in the home of a wealthy family.

The family was rude and refused to let the angels
stay in the mansion's guest room.

Instead the angels were given a small space in
the cold basement.

As they made their bed on the hard floor, the
older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it.

When the younger angel asked why, the older angel
replied,

"Things aren't always what they seem."

The next night the pair came to rest at the house
of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his
wife.

After sharing what little food they had the couple
let the angels sleep in their bed where they could
have a good night's rest.

When the sun came up the next morning the angels
found the farmer and his wife in tears.

Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole
income, lay dead in the field.

The younger angel was infuriated and asked the
older angel how could you have let this happen?

The first man had everything, yet you helped him,
she accused.

The second family had little but was willing to
share everything, and you let the cow die.

"Things aren't always what they seem," the older
angel replied.

"When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I
noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall.

Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and
unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the
wall so he wouldn't find it."

"Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed,
the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him
the cow instead.


Things aren't always what they seem."

Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things
don't turn out the way they should. If you have
faith, you just need to trust that every out come
is always to your advantage. You just might not
know it until some time later...
Oooo
Some people ( )
come into our lives ) /
and quickly go.. (_ /


oooO
( ) Some people
) / become friends
(_ ) and stay awhile...


leaving beautiful Oooo
footprints on our ( )
hearts... ) /
( _/


oooO
( ) and we are
) / never
( _ ) quite the same
because we have
made a good
friend!!


Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow a mystery.
Today is a gift.
That's why it's called the present!


I think this is special...live and savor every
moment... This is not a dress rehearsal!

( /)
( __ / )
( ()/ )
( / ) TAKE THIS LITTLE ANGEL
( / / ) AND KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOU
/ SHE IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL
( ) SENT TO WATCH OVER YOU
____


Now don't delete this message, because it comes
from a very special angel.

Right Now -

-somebody is thinking of you.
-somebody is caring about you.
-somebody misses you
-somebody wants to talk to you.
-somebody wants to be with you.
-somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
-somebody is thankful for the support you have provided
-somebody wants to hold your hand.
-somebody hopes everything turns out all right.
-somebody wants you to be happy.
-somebody wants you to find him/her.
-somebody is celebrating your successes.
-somebody wants to give you a gift.
-somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.
-somebody loves you.
-somebody admires your strength.
-somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
-somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

=====
Never take away anyone's hope. That may be all they have.
 
Hey everyone {{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}} :kiss: :rose: I hope and pray that everyone is having a good day....Thanks for everyone's prayers....I greatly appreciate them...Take care and Have a fabulous day.
 
Shadow, keep hanging on. I know it is a slow and long process, and I hope things will be better soon. Just hang on.

To everyone else, thanks. I have a good report. Mom is going to do it. It will be a 6 month or sooner list. However there are some very serious money issues and I am working on that and taking things over. Anyway, I have a lot of work ahead of me. But again thanks for all of your prayers and thoughts.

And man is it hot here... I had forgotten how bad the south is in the summer. With the heat index we have been up to 110-115. YUCK!
 
Spenser41 said:
Shadow, keep hanging on. I know it is a slow and long process, and I hope things will be better soon. Just hang on.

To everyone else, thanks. I have a good report. Mom is going to do it. It will be a 6 month or sooner list. However there are some very serious money issues and I am working on that and taking things over. Anyway, I have a lot of work ahead of me. But again thanks for all of your prayers and thoughts.

And man is it hot here... I had forgotten how bad the south is in the summer. With the heat index we have been up to 110-115. YUCK!


Woohoo...thats really good news! Lets hope now it doesnt take too long for a place to come up....and that you get the money stuff sorted ok

:kiss: :kiss:
 
Spenser41 said:
Shadow, keep hanging on. I know it is a slow and long process, and I hope things will be better soon. Just hang on.

To everyone else, thanks. I have a good report. Mom is going to do it. It will be a 6 month or sooner list. However there are some very serious money issues and I am working on that and taking things over. Anyway, I have a lot of work ahead of me. But again thanks for all of your prayers and thoughts.

And man is it hot here... I had forgotten how bad the south is in the summer. With the heat index we have been up to 110-115. YUCK!

Hooray! God is wonderful. 6 months can come and go pretty fast. Maybe it will be quicker. Good luck to you and yours. will keep all in prayer.


Shadow - thanks for the poem it is oh so true. Take the time and enjoy the shade. Take care lady.

s
:rose:
 
today i just find out that i lost my SSD and SSI benefits. i don't know what to do and i'm not sure i'd get them back if a appeal. i'm seriously thinking about suicide......better to be dead. i can't get a job because i haven't any skills, no transportation, no ability to hold down a job because my anxiety gets the best of me. i knew something like this would happen......it's better if i was dead.
 
Delta Smooth said:
today i just find out that i lost my SSD and SSI benefits. i don't know what to do and i'm not sure i'd get them back if a appeal. i'm seriously thinking about suicide......better to be dead. i can't get a job because i haven't any skills, no transportation, no ability to hold down a job because my anxiety gets the best of me. i knew something like this would happen......it's better if i was dead.


It wouldnt....there are people who can help you with the money stuff, and with the way you are feeling.

There is a PM on its way but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE dont end it


:kiss:
 
i don't see i have a choice.....i can't work...i've tried that before and ended up quitting so many jobs because i couldn't handle the stress.....i haven't any skills......
 
Delta Smooth said:
i don't see i have a choice.....i can't work...i've tried that before and ended up quitting so many jobs because i couldn't handle the stress.....i haven't any skills......


There is always a choice....believe me when I say I do know how desparate you feel.

There is a PM waiting for you....please do as I ask :kiss:
 
i don't know why i posted here....some asshole with probably come back and make fun of me....i don't care....i'm going.
 
Delta Smooth said:
i don't know why i posted here....some asshole with probably come back and make fun of me....i don't care....i'm going.


NO-ONE will make fun of you hunny...this is serious and I am worried for you. Please dont go...you have both my msn and yahoo addys...please come and talk to me
 
Delta....please dont do anything without at least talking to someone....


Let me/us know you are ok
 
Spenser41 said:
Shadow, keep hanging on. I know it is a slow and long process, and I hope things will be better soon. Just hang on.

To everyone else, thanks. I have a good report. Mom is going to do it. It will be a 6 month or sooner list. However there are some very serious money issues and I am working on that and taking things over. Anyway, I have a lot of work ahead of me. But again thanks for all of your prayers and thoughts.

And man is it hot here... I had forgotten how bad the south is in the summer. With the heat index we have been up to 110-115. YUCK!

Morning all!

Heard on the news about the heatwave but I wonder if your humidity level is a lot cooler than here which can get to 100% and averages upper 40 to 50%?

Great news about your mom! I know what it feels like with the money issues since my sister and I had to go through that with my mom. Will continue praying for you so your endeavors do not overburden you and that time will go by quickly. You are truly a unique man to do these things for his mom and to have the patience you have which is a rare thing these days.

Take care and to everyone else I wish and pray that each day will be filled with smiles, love and happiness!
 
Delta, please don't go and do not give up hope. We are here for you and if please pm any of us, including me, because we care about you and no one here will ever make fun of anyone!

Please let us know you are okay!
 
shadow_dreamer said:
Delta, please don't go and do not give up hope. We are here for you and if please pm any of us, including me, because we care about you and no one here will ever make fun of anyone!

Please let us know you are okay!

The same goes for me hun....you have my IM addys...please use them and talk to me.
 
Delta Smooth said:
today i just find out that i lost my SSD and SSI benefits. i don't know what to do and i'm not sure i'd get them back if a appeal. i'm seriously thinking about suicide......better to be dead. i can't get a job because i haven't any skills, no transportation, no ability to hold down a job because my anxiety gets the best of me. i knew something like this would happen......it's better if i was dead.


Delta...its been an hour since you posted this and no-one has heard from you. PLEASE let someone, anyone know that you are ok...we are worried and care for you
 
HI all. Everything has worked out and I now have power of attny and we are working on getting everything taken care of. So I am heading back home tomorrow.
Thanks again everyone for your prayers and thoughts.
 
Delta,
Ending your life is not the answer. There are many places that you can go for help. As far as skills are concern, there are many places that will train you.
Where there is a will, there is a way. People do care about you and what you need to do is not worry about a jerk that may come in the room, but instead - lean on the support that you have here.

Let us know that you are ok.
 
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