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Fascinating thread...

My path has brought me to a slightly different perspective.

I lost my virginity to a married woman, her husband considered me a friend. I would skip school and fuck her 3-4 times a day. It was intense and crazy, exciting and addictive. I was deeply in love and lust and wanted to do nothing else but fuck her all day.

Not so much fun when you see the pain betrayal can cause and how it can become a serious health risk when someone seeks retribution.

After that I never was really interested in marriage, but always desired a partner I could be honest and open with.

Yet having been initiated into sex and love through high stakes emotions and passion of cheating, hiding, secrets, lies and intense sex did seem to create a need for intensity around my sexuality.

I could never stay with someone if the passion faded and when not in a committed relationship often juggled many lovers and pursued a few fantasies along the way that pushed my mental boundaries.

I was fairly recently in an open relationship and it was very freeing to be able to not feel jealousy and be open and honest. She loved hearing about all the women I fucked, and i was able to give her lots of stories.

I got tired of it. I'm a love guy when it comes to women. I find sex with women is VERY RARELY just about sex.

Fucking without passion and emotional connection is boring and one dimensional to me now. I find monogamy with women more exciting and interesting now, yet I'm coming from the perspective of never having a relationship longer then 4 years.

For those "cheating" but their partners basically know...that sounds like good fun.

I've always try to treat others the way I like to be treated, so lying and deceiving someone I care about is not something I ever want to do again.

I now have a monogamous relationship with a women and I couldn't imagine sticking my cock in another pussy. It's an awesome place to be right now.

I question the serial cheaters that are not playing a game with their partner...why not just be single and fuck whomever you desire?
 
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BBCfan said:
Fascinating thread...

My path has brought me to a slightly different perspective.

I lost my virginity to a married woman, her husband considered me a friend. I would skip school and fuck her 3-4 times a day. It was intense and crazy, exciting and addictive. I was deeply in love and lust and wanted to do nothing else but fuck her all day.

Not so much fun when you see the pain betrayal can cause and how it can become a serious health risk when someone seeks retribution.

After that I never was really interested in marriage, but always desired a partner I could be honest and open with.

Yet having been initiated into sex and love through high stakes emotions and passion of cheating, hiding, secrets, lies and intense sex did seem to create a need for intensity around my sexuality.

I could never stay with someone if the passion faded and when not in a committed relationship often juggled many lovers and pursued a few fantasies along the way that pushed my mental boundaries.

I was fairly recently in an open relationship and it was very freeing to be able to not feel jealousy and be open and honest. She loved hearing about all the women I fucked, and i was able to give her lots of stories.

I got tired of it. I'm a love guy when it comes to women. I find sex with women is VERY RARELY just about sex.

Fucking without passion and emotional connection is boring and one dimensional to me now. I find monogamy with women more exciting and interesting now, yet I'm coming from the perspective of never having a relationship longer then 4 years.

For those "cheating" but their partners basically know...that sounds like good fun.

I've always try to treat others the way I like to be treated, so lying and deceiving someone I care about is not something I ever want to do again.

I now have a monogamous relationship with a women and I couldn't imagine sticking my cock in another pussy. It's an awesome place to be right now.

I question the serial cheaters that are not playing a game with their partner...why not just be single and fuck whomever you desire?
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Can't and won't try to speak about this subject concerning anyone but myself, the reason I do it or would do it now is because the wife can't have sex without pain.
Even still she insists on it once a week and it really does just about kill me every time I gotta see that beautiful face all scrunched up in that kind of pain
And I can't leave her because she has saved my life more than once... I made a promise and a vow before we married, that I would never leave her without a home to live in and a way and means of taking care of her as long as she is alive.
 
My husband is out of town for a month, so I have been having some fun with the guys
 
I'm 40 something and have always needed a lot of sex, so while Dave is away I have taken up with a few old fuck buddies, who seem happy to have me back
 
My husband

I guess it's cheating in some cases. Hubby is rather strict when it comes to my extra marital but once in a while I don't share with him.
 
Cindy69love said:
I guess it's cheating in some cases. Hubby is rather strict when it comes to my extra marital but once in a while I don't share with him.
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Me too. Our marriage is open, but I have never really said that I would tell him everything, so these days I have little affairs that I confess to much much later or don't say anything about at all -- the casual ones especially
 
davenjenn said:
Me too. Our marriage is open, but I have never really said that I would tell him everything, so these days I have little affairs that I confess to much much later or don't say anything about at all -- the casual ones especially
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Exactly. Especially when they're random.
 
Nurseguy75 said:
Actually just posted this under the personals about sharing wives but this applies here as well. Those who have wives they've shared help me get there.

Love this idea but I need some help. I have a very cute, curvy 40 year old wife. She let me start taking pictures of her recently and now I'm working towards her going out with another man. She was planning to go out to dinner with a female friend tonight that bailed so I told her to go on out on her own. I told her to meet a guy at the restaurant bar and flirt with him. This isn't the first time we had this discussion as I have been mentioning the idea of sharing her subtly recently. She blushed and said she couldn't do that, that it lead to the road to cheating. I told her I was not only 100% ok with it but that I WANTED her to, that it would be exciting. I said that she had the green light to flirt with any man she wanted anytime in the future. I then kissed her deeply and she felt how hard I had gotten by the idea and smiled. This is a major breakthrough for me as she's always been hardcore against the idea in the past.

As she was leaving I told her to be home by lunch tomorrow. She laughed. I can't imagine this will go anywhere tonight but she was definitely intrigued by the idea of flirting with another man.

Any tips? Let me know. Or KIK me at: Fitnessnursing
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You will please share the results of this evening out, please?!?
 
Nurseguy75 said:
Atleast I can see her base level excitement about the idea even if she's not comfortable with it yet. I'm sure it will take a while but hoping she gets there.
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Some people talk about working years on this to get the wife to complete her husband's fantasy.

Maybe the book is about cheating - did you check?!?
 
Jumping in

davenjenn said:
Renewing an old thread of mine
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I'll jump in- Interesting thread. I have travelled over the years. I have cheated. I have been caught. I have made some poor choices over the years. I have made some fun choices over the years. I have some adventures that I STILL will not share with my wife- no sense in dredging it up..... but still have those adventures in my memories- and makes me part of who I am. People judge or want to guess me- let them.

There IS joy in cheating sometimes....there is pain some times and foolishness sometimes.

but live for the joy!!

wow- too early to be this philosophical??
 
My wife

My now hotwife recently confessed to cheating with a second man earlier in our marriage. It's bringing me great joy now!!
 
Before I was married, I was very open to sex on any date!..if I was dating someone or not.

I won't say I have an "open" marriage, but we've both seen other people and confessed it. I do enjoy something different at times, though it's rare now a days.
 
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