The ICK factor.

[NewEng]

People who are unable to concentrate on one tiny thing at a time

Sorry, could you repeat that please, l didn't take it all in

 

[dkak001]

Older Litsters that go gaga over barely 18-year-olds. I know they are legal and I try not to yuck a yum but as a parent with kids aged 20, 22 and 25 I find it disturbing.

We went to a strip club last week. They were SO young. They were cute but I couldn't help think they might be my kids ages. Getting old really sucks.

 

[Xerxes82]

I so respect that your experience and my opinion are not the same. I also appreciate you offering your own experience and opening dialog. It is a complex topic and I will try to further articulate my thoughts.

I totally get it, and that's completely fair. For what it's worth, I don't remotely disagree with your premise. At 42, I absolutely find myself hitting that area where there is just a place where a potential partner is too young to even be considered. In my mid 30's I flirted with a then 19 year old and just felt incredibly wrong, that was kind of the clue for me that I'd aged out of that demographic, right?

And I respect your perspective, particularly given your own experiences with the matter. I think the risk that younger partners are taken advantage of, or even that they feel taken advantage of, is something that people absolutely need to consider when they think about such matters.

Thanks for the discussion!

 

[StillRain]

What gives me the ick?

Creepy Litsters trying to be flirty and sexy.

 

[AmberLGreen]

What gives me the ick?

Creepy Litsters trying to be flirty and sexy.

Especially the “seasoned” ones who should have perfected their flirt by now

 

[Saltfountain]

Especially the “seasoned” ones who should have perfected their flirt by now

There speaks a guilty conscience...

 

[AmberLGreen]

There speaks a guilty conscience...

Fuck off! My flirt has always been perfect

 

[dkak001]

Fuck off! My flirt has always been perfect

Really, confidence is key!

 

[InThe312]

What gives me the ick?

Creepy Litsters trying to be flirty and sexy.

Did a star fall out of the sky beautiful?

Because I can see Uranus.

 

[barefootgirl69]

So many things I see posted, but at the moment one of the creepy PM litsters agreeing that creepy men in PMs is a problem...or something like that.

ETA: ah, yes. There he is again in my inbox. I'm starting to think the THICKE he's talking about is his skull.

 

[Saltfountain]

So many things I see posted, but at the moment one of the creepy PM litsters agreeing that creepy men in PMs is a problem...or something like that.

ETA: ah, yes. There he is again in my inbox. I'm starting to think the THICKE he's talking about is his skull.

Ahhhh... The one trying to gatekeep in a girl's thread, when it turns out he doesn't even know her?

 

[StillRain]

Did a star fall out of the sky beautiful?

Because I can see Uranus.

Creep.

 

[StillRain]

Poor imitations.

Handbags, shoes, clothing, suits, spaces, venues, even people.

You might sacrifice less to have a dupe, but it’s always a shoddy imitation of the real deal and everyone knows it. Including you.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I am on the train and there is a nice looking guy. I was making eye contact until he started eating a bag of Space Raiders. Massive ick. Now I am keeping my eyes on the landscape through the window

 

[Orwellian69]

I am on the train and there is a nice looking guy. I was making eye contact until he started eating a bag of Space Raiders. Massive ick. Now I am keeping my eyes on the landscape through the window

What crisps would have been acceptable?

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

I am on the train and there is a nice looking guy. I was making eye contact until he started eating a bag of Space Raiders. Massive ick. Now I am keeping my eyes on the landscape through the window

Space Raiders? Do they get stuck in your teeth? Is that the little bits floating in your nightstand tooth jar?

 

[Orwellian69]

Neck and face tattoos. Get to fuck you horrible chav.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I am on the train and there is a nice looking guy. I was making eye contact until he started eating a bag of Space Raiders. Massive ick. Now I am keeping my eyes on the landscape through the window

What flavour?....

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

What flavour?....

the same as the crumbs on your cleavage.. DUH

 

[Wand3rlust]

the same as the crumbs on your cleavage.. DUH

*Checks*

Yep, as I thought. I only have cream on my cleavage..

 

[AmberLGreen]

What crisps would have been acceptable?

In public, something a bit more grown up. Maybe some Pringles or a bag of Walkers

Space Raiders? Do they get stuck in your teeth? Is that the little bits floating in your nightstand tooth jar?

I don’t keep my teeth in when I eat crisps. I like to suck them until they go soggy and then just swallow. I am all about living dangerously

What flavour?....

I think they were Spicy. They had some red on the packet.

Have to add that after the crisps, he proceeded to pull a saggy sandwich out of a plastic bag. Think it might have had some sort of meat paste on it.

The ick continues to grow

 

[Wand3rlust]

Red is Roast Beef. They are acceptable. Pickled onion (green) is not.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

*Checks*

Yep, as I thought. I only have cream on my cleavage..

at least its not mayo dripping from the dudes soggy meat paste sandwich

 

[Cat]

Neck and face tattoos. Get to fuck you horrible chav.

*Looks in mirror* - Yup, still got the tattoo on the back of my neck!