telling friends im Bi

cittykat22

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I have recently told my friends that im Bi as I have started dating a women its my first real relationship with a women. I have alot of friends who will no longer talk to me and the ones that do keep tellin me I cant "officially" be Bi, whatever that means, if i havnt had a sexual relationship with a women yet. I know im not the only person who has probably gone threw this. Im just unsure how to deal with it
 
lol...we would but were both under an understanding that we gotta get rid of r guys 1st before we do...lol
 
People are pretty weird that way. Nobody says that a straight virgin isn't straight...

Your attraction to other women as well as to men is what makes you bisexual. But good luck getting your friends to understand that. ;)
 
Whoever said that you can't be bi because you've never had a relationship with another woman is stupid. It's the attraction and the feelings you have towards women that make you bisexual, not the sex itself.
 
I have recently told my friends that im Bi as I have started dating a women its my first real relationship with a women. I have alot of friends who will no longer talk to me and the ones that do keep tellin me I cant "officially" be Bi, whatever that means, if i havnt had a sexual relationship with a women yet. I know im not the only person who has probably gone threw this. Im just unsure how to deal with it

You have my sympathies. I came out as bi after years of marriage with no intention of leaving or cheating on my husband, simply because I wanted to be myself and not have to hide my desire for women. I got the same thing, though luckily for me, my friends are still speaking to me (they all apparently guessed). Orientation is in your head not your genitals. Next time someone tells you that you can't be officially bi until you have had sex, ask them why they felt they weren't heterosexual till they had straight sex...
 
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