hey ...
The one thing that I disagree with in your posted contention is that somehow monogamy is responsible for the way people feel about size. Or maybe there is a problem in the way my head is translating, what you posted.
Me, myself don't demonize or talk bad about people who are sporting a bigger tool that I do just because they are bigger than me. Damn, glad that they are out there, because every now and then--, I do enjoy sucking a BIG hard one.
My ire comes from being continuously being passed over consideration based merely on size.
And yes, I know that I am not OWED sex, I'm not owed even an opportunity to get
sex. I know that being able to secure sex for myself is a numbers game, the more attempts made WILL translate into more encounters. It's the number that the voices inside play on ya during the wait in between.
In that context I would say that yes it does matter. My rambling analogy was just meant to say that perhaps the manner and degree to which it matters is misunderstood. It isn’t all or nothing unless we make it that way.
It is the monogamy paradigm that seems to compel us to come up with silly irrelevant comparisons and rationalizations.
To me the only way to make it not matter is to have choice. If I am compelled to limit my options in any way then size will be a criteria in how I choose a man. It won’t be the most important criteria and I won’t seek the largest. But if he is below average I’m sorry but no that is not gonna do it for me as the one man for the rest of my life.
The one thing that I disagree with in your posted contention is that somehow monogamy is responsible for the way people feel about size. Or maybe there is a problem in the way my head is translating, what you posted.
Me, myself don't demonize or talk bad about people who are sporting a bigger tool that I do just because they are bigger than me. Damn, glad that they are out there, because every now and then--, I do enjoy sucking a BIG hard one.
My ire comes from being continuously being passed over consideration based merely on size.
And yes, I know that I am not OWED sex, I'm not owed even an opportunity to get
sex. I know that being able to secure sex for myself is a numbers game, the more attempts made WILL translate into more encounters. It's the number that the voices inside play on ya during the wait in between.
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