Size Matters

[SlutAddicted]

I have absolutely no interest in large breasted women. Zero. I love women with small breasts.

Then size does matter to you. A preference for small is still a preference. And if you have a preference then it matters.

 

[Escierto]

Then size does matter to you. A preference for small is still a preference. And if you have a preference then it matters.

Yes, you are right. I definitely have a preference both as to boobs and to cock.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Then size does matter to you. A preference for small is still a preference. And if you have a preference then it matters.

I agree with you, and it's weird to me when you want to talk about size and people keep wanting to say that it doesn't matter.

 

[LizVegas79]

I have absolutely no interest in large breasted women. Zero. I love women with small breasts.

We should talk LOL

Then size does matter to you. A preference for small is still a preference. And if you have a preference then it matters.

Well said! That's so true!

So you're saying that when guys have told me they don't care that I'm not exactly what anyone would ever call "busty" that maybe they weren't lying to me?

Wow.

Mind.

Blown.

LOL

(At least I know that my husband is NOT lying to me because he's never, ever told me that - but does that mean he jerks off to pictures of other women in the bathroom sometimes? wait, don't answer that )

 

[Escierto]

We should talk LOL



Well said! That's so true!

So you're saying that when guys have told me they don't care that I'm not exactly what anyone would ever call "busty" that maybe they weren't lying to me?

Wow.

Mind.

Blown.

LOL

(At least I know that my husband is NOT lying to me because he's never, ever told me that - but does that mean he jerks off to pictures of other women in the bathroom sometimes? wait, don't answer that )

No, they were not lying to you. The women who really enchant me might be described as flat chested.

 

[Delawareguy]

I'm not sure that I completely understand your point. However, I will say that it's essential to a discussion such as this to not generalize. Also, consider that aside from the bulge thing no one knows what a guy is packing until he drops his pants. Breast size is pretty evident even fully clothed.

Breast size can easily be "enhanced" by stuffing a bra or using and uplift bra, so I would not agree that breast size is always evident when a woman is clothed.

I have also been surprised by just how big a woman's breasts were. Women who want to lessen the attention paid to their breasts and/or who are embarrassed about how big their breasts are, can and do hide their breasts. Not that I ever discovered a woman had 40D tits when I thought she was flat chested. But you can't be sure until they remove their bra just how big a woman's breasts are.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I considered the bra stuffing thing but I'm not familiar with anyone over 12 doing it.

I've seen plenty of this. My wife had a friend who was completely flat, but in a bra, she was bigger than my wife. We found out when her husband accidentally opened the door while she was dressing (and didn't bother to close it again) and she stood there to complain.

 

[CTim]

My concern with the size issue is that the proliferation of porn has created a general lack of confidence among younger men and unrealistic expectations of size among women. Basically, both men and women are consuming only the very largest cocks through our porn viewing. Those very large guys are more than happy to show off to the point that now an average 5 incher looks small to most of us.

The latest quality research I've seen gave the world-wide bone pressed average length at only 5.2 inches. That means a very large percentage of dicks are between 4.5 and 6 inches. Yet porn would have you believe anything under six is small. Furthermore, the same studies stated length over 6.3" is in the 95th percentile! Anyone who claims to be seven inches or more is literally in the top one percent. There are no doubt some freaks in porn. But either the rest of us can't measure worth a hoot or there is a lot of exaggerating going on.

I will add that another possibility contributing to unrealistic size expectations probably is due to the likelihood that very large men are more likely to spread themselves around at a much higher rate. Look no further than our lovely hotwives on here. Big dicks seem to be at a premium in much of the cuckold or hotwife lifestyle. But I'm guessing that's a very small pool of guys who are getting a lot of the work.

 

[KarlMartinK]

What do you mean by plenty?

By "plenty," I mean several people who stuff their bras.

 

[LizVegas79]

No, they were not lying to you. The women who really enchant me might be described as flat chested.

I was told on many occasions when I was younger (by many, many total jerks) that I had nothing more than "mosquito bites". For years I wore padded bras like the person below just mentioned about their friend. Fortunately I stopped needing to when I got preggers with my first kidlet though. The second kidlet helped in that department too.

Size absolutely does matter. Because sometimes we feel good about what we've got. And other times we don't - which sometimes, for some women especially, leads to decisions that aren't always the healthiest or best decisions.

 

[Escierto]

I was told on many occasions when I was younger (by many, many total jerks) that I had nothing more than "mosquito bites". For years I wore padded bras like the person below just mentioned about their friend. Fortunately I stopped needing to when I got preggers with my first kidlet though. The second kidlet helped in that department too.

Size absolutely does matter. Because sometimes we feel good about what we've got. And other times we don't - which sometimes, for some women especially, leads to decisions that aren't always the healthiest or best decisions.

I love my girlfriend’s mosquito bites but she is determined to have implants. I have agreed but only because it matters so much to HER. If it was up to me I would not change a hair on her head.

 

[CTim]

I was told on many occasions when I was younger (by many, many total jerks) that I had nothing more than "mosquito bites". For years I wore padded bras like the person below just mentioned about their friend. Fortunately I stopped needing to when I got preggers with my first kidlet though. The second kidlet helped in that department too.

Size absolutely does matter. Because sometimes we feel good about what we've got. And other times we don't - which sometimes, for some women especially, leads to decisions that aren't always the healthiest or best decisions.

Fashion trends have not been kind to small chested women in recent years. It seems like nice boobs are everywhere! My sweet, but almost flat wife bought her first lightly padded bras in the last few years.

I once had to be honest and admit that I found more curvy chested women appealing at one point(what's a guy supposed to do, lie). She deadpanned that it's a good thing she snagged me in the baggy clothes era of the 90s.

 

[KarlMartinK]

In an effort to support my original point, consider being at the beach. Unless men are wearing speedos, you don't know their size. The size of a woman's breasts even padded will be pretty obvious.

Flaccid size isn't a good indicator of erect size anyway.

 

[KarlMartinK]

How does that relate to the discussion?

Okay.

 

[KarlMartinK]

This is the point I made:

Also, consider that aside from the bulge thing no one knows what a guy is packing until he drops his pants. Breast size is pretty evident even fully clothed.

How is that wrong?

You said that unless someone is wearing a speedo, you can't tell his size (or something similar). I said that a flaccid size is not a good indication of his erect size, which is true, so what I'm saying is, even when the guy drops his pants, if he's not erect, you still don't really know his actual size.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Try to focus on the point I just posted.

Okay, I guess.

 

[LizVegas79]

I love my girlfriend’s mosquito bites but she is determined to have implants. I have agreed but only because it matters so much to HER. If it was up to me I would not change a hair on her head.

Tell her you know someone who has worked with cocktail waitresses and bartenders for the past ten years and that almost all of the older ones either regret getting their boobs "done" because of some pretty unpleasant complications. Lots of women in their 40's and 50's are actually having them removed. At least here in Vegas anyways.

Fashion trends have not been kind to small chested women in recent years. It seems like nice boobs are everywhere! My sweet, but almost flat wife bought her first lightly padded bras in the last few years.

I once had to be honest and admit that I found more curvy chested women appealing at one point(what's a guy supposed to do, lie). She deadpanned that it's a good thing she snagged me in the baggy clothes era of the 90s.

You're right. Fashion trends have changed recently. And they are certain to change again so I'm hereby officially predicting that smaller boobs will once again be all the rage again someday!

I miss the 90's!! Baggy clothes and all

Liz with the legs, I'm familiar with padded bras but I'm curious to know how much that can change one's size. Can they make a B into a C?

No, most don't change your size that much. But there are water bras and ones that come with different size gel-packs that can bump a woman up a full size or two. But most typically just help add a little more fulness or help balance your girls out (yes guys, many of us have one boob that is smaller than the other one! but if you know what's good for you, you will never, ever mention it! )

In an effort to support my original point, consider being at the beach. Unless men are wearing speedos, you don't know their size. The size of a woman's breasts even padded will be pretty obvious.

True. Unless she's using gel-packs or a water bra! Then you guys are screwed just like we are! LOL

Flaccid size isn't a good indicator of erect size anyway.

So true. I've learned the hard way, and the fun way, that there are only really two types of penises in the world. Show-ers and Grow-ers!

 

[KarlMartinK]

So true. I've learned the hard way, and the fun way, that there are only really two types of penises in the world. Show-ers and Grow-ers!

Yes, that really is the fun way: figuring out which ones are the show-ers and which ones are the growers. It's interesting to see which is which and surprising results, too.

 

[CTim]

Yes, that really is the fun way: figuring out which ones are the show-ers and which ones are the growers. It's interesting to see which is which and surprising results, too.

Anybody else a mix of both? I can hang pretty impressive at certain times. Other times the dang thing looks like it's going into hiding.
Speaking of size matters, I've noticed I'm much more likely to show off for the wife if it's hanging well. Also kind of boosts the confidence and sexuality, so it definitely matters. Of course, the wife could care less. She's not a visual girl and had no experience other than me to compare with.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Anybody else a mix of both? I can hang pretty impressive at certain times. Other times the dang think looks like it's going into hiding.
Speaking of size matters, I've noticed I'm much more likely to show off for the wife if it's hanging well. Also kind of boosts the confidence and sexuality, so it definitely matters. Of course, the wife could care less. She's not a visual girl and had no experience other than me to compare with.

Yeah, I think most people are aware of the temperature-induced changes. If it's nice and warm, the size is good. If it's cold, it's going to be smaller. Also, after rigorous exercise, it seems to be much less impressive, too. I guess all the blood is elsewhere.

Like you, I don't think my wife cares, at least not to that extent, but she does tend to give me attention she knows I like, such as commenting on the size and shape.

 

[Asian_Flower]

This is the point I made:

Also, consider that aside from the bulge thing no one knows what a guy is packing until he drops his pants. Breast size is pretty evident even fully clothed.

How is that wrong?

Oh no you are wrong sorry. I have a friend who's nipples are her breasts but looks great with a padded up B cup.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Oh no you are wrong sorry. I have a friend who's nipples are her breasts but looks great with a padded up B cup.

I don't mean to disagree, but I wouldn't rule out the fact that she might also look great with just her flat chest and nipples.

 

[Asian_Flower]

I don't mean to disagree, but I wouldn't rule out the fact that she might also look great with just her flat chest and nipples.

I think she does too. The point I am making is that breast size is not always as obvious as people might think.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I think she does too. The point I am making is that breast size is not always as obvious as people might think.

I have to agree with you there. I have been surprised, like the lady I mentioned in an earlier post who was completely flat, but always wore padded bras. Even after I'd seen her topless, she insisted that she was not flat.

 

[LizVegas79]

I think she does too. The point I am making is that breast size is not always as obvious as people might think.

Exactly. Thank you.