Size Matters

[CTim]

https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/

Excellent article!

It's really fascinating to consider the effect porn exposure combined with personal experience can have on one's own perspective with regards to size. According to that article I'm in the top 10-15% on length and top 5% on girth. So that means I have a perfect cock....right?

Yet for many years way back there I thought I might be kind of small. I mean those dudes in porn all look huge, and my wife never came close to an orgasm from plain old sex so I thought I must be small...right? She never made any size related comment at all about my dick either. Maybe she had a huge boyfriend before me and didn't want to hurt my feelings? Nope. She's just one of the surprisingly large percentage of women who need more than a penis in the vagina to orgasm. Thankfully, becoming more knowledgeable about our sexuality allows for some worries to fall away. So I've got a nice size dick, but my wife, like many women really could care less.

I can't find it but there was a quote on here once from some research that said 90% of women were satisfied with their husband's penis size. However, only 50% of men were satisfied with their size, and this percentage was dropping. The author blamed porn saturation for the phenomenan.

 

[BongoGal]

And if height is a good marker of cock size - picking a guy over 6' would seem to be almost a lock to find a 7" cock. And at that height I probably have a 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 chance of finding an 8" cock.

Literally every guy whose cock I have touched has been over 6' tall. I can say that the size range of their cocks has been from average to large, with none being on the smaller side. I almost, sort of, kinda, but not really, I guess, wish that one of those guys had a notably smaller one so I could give an honest review of how I enjoyed it. Alas, all I can say is that I have liked all the ones I've had and that bigger has just always been better. I've had orgasms aplenty with what I'd call average size cocks. Larger, and by that I mostly mean thicker, is just that much more intense and makes orgasms somewhat inevitable.

On a side note, one of the largest I've experienced was attached to a tall skinny virginal twenty-year-old dude. Upon sight of this thing, my silent response was to gulp and wonder if was maybe too big. He was clueless enough, however, to honestly ask if it was somehow too small. I assured him that it wasn't small at all and gave him what was surely his first blowjob. He was primed enough that I doubt I even hit the ninety-second mark before I got him off. He then got a lesson in cunnilingus, and then he was hard again. Nope, he wasn't TOO big, but he was pretty darn big, and thanks to the blowjob, he lasted much longer than ninety seconds this time. It is kind of a blur, but I know I came twice before he got off. It must be quite a rarity for a guy to be able to say that his first-ever sex partner had two orgasms from penetration.

 

[Escierto]

Height is not a good indicator of cock size. I am 6’2” with large hands and feet. My cock is about five inches hard. My girlfriend is 5’5” with small hands and feet and her cock is over seven inches hard.

 

[BongoGal]

Height is not a good indicator of cock size.

Of course it is. Height is a good indicator of foot size and hand size and hat size and everything else. There will always be outliers, but they are the exceptions.

 

[Escierto]

Of course it is. Height is a good indicator of foot size and hand size and hat size and everything else. There will always be outliers, but they are the exceptions.

I have been in a lot of locker rooms. Seen plenty of men and cocks my whole life playing sports. Think what you want lol

 

[y=mx+b]

Excess is a handicap.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

Height is not a good indicator of cock size. I am 6’2” with large hands and feet. My cock is about five inches hard. My girlfriend is 5’5” with small hands and feet and her cock is over seven inches hard.

She does have an absolutely beautiful cock....i’ve seen it!

 

[Floridafun4everyone]

Given the choice between the Irish curse, or a big cock, I would’ve preferred the big cock

 

[Escierto]

She does have an absolutely beautiful cock....i’ve seen it!

You seem awfully happy about it. You would be even happier if you saw it in person lol

 

[Iwant2havefun]

You seem awfully happy about it. You would be even happier if you saw it in person lol

im just happy YOU get to enjoy it. i know you’re waiting to see her again....and that will be so exciting for you both!

 

[muycurioso]

I have never worried about it

I am a little above average. I once had a gf that said I fitted her perfectly.

 

[policywank]

Of course it is. Height is a good indicator of foot size and hand size and hat size and everything else. There will always be outliers, but they are the exceptions.

You are correct. There is notable correlation between different body part sizes and the overall size of the person. Proportions vary enough that there are a whole range of combinations but I believe that there is correlation when we look at actual statistical data which is far more rigorous and accurate than anecdotal observations, be they from the locker room or the bedroom.

Although when it comes to anecdotal observations I would say that you and I have the opportunity to see fully erect cocks close up and give them our full attention - that seems to me to be more rigorous than the locker room unless I am wrong in my assumption that guys don't generally walk around the locker room fully erect and openly assessing one another's penis size.

Having been with as many guys as I have, actually noticed the size of their cocks and having real education in statistics I can say that: a) my sample size is not representative of all society but it is statistically significant (over 30) for the portion of society it does represent; b) the data deviates from that in the above noted study; and c) that deviation is statistically significant enough that the chances of it being pure coincidence is very low.

That suggests a difference in data sets. I tend to choose taller than average North American males that are caucasian, black or latino. I have been with guys that don't fit that profile - I am just saying that is the weighting of my data set. Now is it size of the person, race or some other aspect of the men I choose that leads to a statistically significant deviation from the above noted study results? I don't know. I am only hypothesizing that it is mostly closely related to the size of the men.

What I do know is that my actual experience tracks much closer to the study of U.S. males than it does worldwide males.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Excess is a handicap.

excess --, is never enuff

 

[Actiescape]

You are right, the size matters and that's a know fact that every woman knows.

 

[Islander55]

You are right, the size matters and that's a know fact that every woman knows.

I think we need to qualify that statement. I have never found size to be a problem in regard to my pleasure. I don't have a large sample size. Maybe 20 over 40 years and I have never been with an exceptionally small man. Mostly average guys and I guess two that would be exceptionally large. Nine inches and quite thick. Now I am somewhat slender so need to be cautious with the big ones but they do fit and there is a sense of accomplishment when you take them. There was a bit of soreness after but one kind of smiles as one remembers that. Now if you are just playing and sucking, the big ones are novel and rather fun. I guess all I am saying is that I am not going to kick an average guy our of bed in hopes that a porn star will show up

 

[y=mx+b]

I think we need to qualify that statement. I have never found size to be a problem in regard to my pleasure. I don't have a large sample size. Maybe 20 over 40 years and I have never been with an exceptionally small man. Mostly average guys and I guess two that would be exceptionally large. Nine inches and quite thick. Now I am somewhat slender so need to be cautious with the big ones but they do fit and there is a sense of accomplishment when you take them. There was a bit of soreness after but one kind of smiles as one remembers that. Now if you are just playing and sucking, the big ones are novel and rather fun. I guess all I am saying is that I am not going to kick an average guy our of bed in hopes that a porn star will show up

But if one did
And you had to choose... Which one would it be?

 

[BBCfan]

I can honestly say that I have never experienced sex with a guy who seemed to have a notably small cock. The fact that I am drawn toward tall guys probably accounts for that.

that makes sense...I think that accounts for my wife experiencing way more large cocks than would make sense statistically. Most of her boyfriends were 6'2" to 6'6" in height.

 

[Islander55]

But if one did
And you had to choose... Which one would it be?

I am pretty sure I could do two or at least give it a good effort. But to answer your question, I would like to think that my choice would not be based just on penis size but I guess I could never be sure until I have had to make the choice. Since I have made it 63 years without having that choice, I am thinking that it may never come up.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife's sample size is limited, about 10 guys in all, and she says that the largest she has experienced, compared with dildos we have, was about 7 inches long and quite thick. She really liked the large girth, but length has not made any difference. She likes to be filled. Skill is definitely more important to her, but she says she would like to experience a big cock just once in her life. I assume that means over eight inches and quite thick.

 

[y=mx+b]

My wife's sample size is limited, about 10 guys in all, and she says that the largest she has experienced, compared with dildos we have, was about 7 inches long and quite thick. She really liked the large girth, but length has not made any difference. She likes to be filled. Skill is definitely more important to her, but she says she would like to experience a big cock just once in her life. I assume that means over eight inches and quite thick.

And I think this is what it all boils down to and why guy are so hung up on dick size.

There is a want to be memorable a longing to stand out. Even in the instance of not being all that great the memory has been implanted. A woman has a story to tell about one guy.

An average/less-than-average sized guy can be the greatest fuck/romantic partner a woman could have. No stories are told about him. But a mediocre guy with a 10" beer can of a dick fist-punching her cervix... that's the shit you tell your girlfriends over mimosas (and possibly harbor thoughts on a better plan of attack if given the opportunity again)

 

[BBCfan]

And I think this is what it all boils down to and why guy are so hung up on dick size.

There is a want to be memorable a longing to stand out. Even in the instance of not being all that great the memory has been implanted. A woman has a story to tell about one guy.

An average/less-than-average sized guy can be the greatest fuck/romantic partner a woman could have. No stories are told about him. But a mediocre guy with a 10" beer can of a dick fist-punching her cervix... that's the shit you tell your girlfriends over mimosas (and possibly harbor thoughts on a better plan of attack if given the opportunity again)

That's hilarious...and so true...the ego wants to be the biggest or best.

Thankfully my wife will tell me the mimosa GF stories such as the guy with the 10" beer can thick BBC, but in her case he was a complete stud in every aspect.

 

[gtnlynn]

And I think this is what it all boils down to and why guy are so hung up on dick size.

There is a want to be memorable a longing to stand out. Even in the instance of not being all that great the memory has been implanted. A woman has a story to tell about one guy.

An average/less-than-average sized guy can be the greatest fuck/romantic partner a woman could have. No stories are told about him. But a mediocre guy with a 10" beer can of a dick fist-punching her cervix... that's the shit you tell your girlfriends over mimosas (and possibly harbor thoughts on a better plan of attack if given the opportunity again)

She remembers the "big" one because it was her first in college and the first since she lost her virginity at 14. She had sex with the guy three or four times, but he doesn't rank in the top three of her favorite fucks. Technique wins over size for her.

 

[Hot1967]

Yes, it does

Size does matter bottom line. At least for me anyway. My husband has a tiny cock and doesn't even stand to pee. To say that it is less than satisfying is an understatement. Had I known this when I married his virgin ass things might have gone differently.
Thankfully my Daddy doesn't have that issue.

 

[Bigspurt]

I think we need to qualify that statement. I have never found size to be a problem in regard to my pleasure. I don't have a large sample size. Maybe 20 over 40 years and I have never been with an exceptionally small man. Mostly average guys and I guess two that would be exceptionally large. Nine inches and quite thick. Now I am somewhat slender so need to be cautious with the big ones but they do fit and there is a sense of accomplishment when you take them. There was a bit of soreness after but one kind of smiles as one remembers that. Now if you are just playing and sucking, the big ones are novel and rather fun. I guess all I am saying is that I am not going to kick an average guy our of bed in hopes that a porn star will show up

The more I read the more I like about you and your posts!

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

You are correct. There is notable correlation between different body part sizes and the overall size of the person. Proportions vary enough that there are a whole range of combinations but I believe that there is correlation when we look at actual statistical data which is far more rigorous and accurate than anecdotal observations, be they from the locker room or the bedroom.

Although when it comes to anecdotal observations I would say that you and I have the opportunity to see fully erect cocks close up and give them our full attention - that seems to me to be more rigorous than the locker room unless I am wrong in my assumption that guys don't generally walk around the locker room fully erect and openly assessing one another's penis size.

Having been with as many guys as I have, actually noticed the size of their cocks and having real education in statistics I can say that: a) my sample size is not representative of all society but it is statistically significant (over 30) for the portion of society it does represent; b) the data deviates from that in the above noted study; and c) that deviation is statistically significant enough that the chances of it being pure coincidence is very low.

That suggests a difference in data sets. I tend to choose taller than average North American males that are caucasian, black or latino. I have been with guys that don't fit that profile - I am just saying that is the weighting of my data set. Now is it size of the person, race or some other aspect of the men I choose that leads to a statistically significant deviation from the above noted study results? I don't know. I am only hypothesizing that it is mostly closely related to the size of the men.

What I do know is that my actual experience tracks much closer to the study of U.S. males than it does worldwide males.

between school and gym memberships I don't EVER recall ANY males walking around with a hard on ever at any time...changing out or changing into workout clothes, shower, steam room... never and you aren't the only one who has made this claim and I ain't saying it never happens, I'm just saying. I worked out at a Vic Tanny's from 1980 to 83 never once saw a hardon, Ymca from 84'--89' never caughta glimpse of a hard on even the steam room when the gay guys were in there.