Sexual Dreams and Such

[Lady_Kathreen_Silas]

Okay, first of all I am happily married to a man who gives me everything I could ever want as far as sex goes. This also applies to being caring, sympathetic, loving and my best friend in the whole world. We have one child and another on the way...so why, all of a sudden, would I suddenly start having day fantasys and night dreams of having sex with other men...and women...while he watches? I'm no shrink and I have no desire to be with any other man or woman for that matter...does this happen to any other married or attached men or women and is it a bad thing when it happens? Just curious for some input. Thanks.

 

[dancinvixen]

It could be your body's way of saying "hello, I'm incredibly horny, give me something different though." that is where roleplaying with your spouse might come in handy. You don't actually have to be with a different person, just make the settings different.

 

[*Eve*]

These fantasys are normal, and they don't necessarily mean that you want to be with other men, but it's your body aching to try new things with your partner. Pregnancy does not slow down a woman's sex drive a lot of the time. I hear that it could make you hornier.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Maybe you want to give the lucky guy a break. If you aren't that interested in doing it I wouldn't be that fussed... god gave us fantasies for this reason. If it is a problem talk to your lover and see what he thinks about it.

There is my 2 cents(No change!)

da Chef

 

[Nitelight]

My partner talks to me about her dreams and fantisies. I think it's really cool - everybody has them. Never acted apon it but as we shared our personal thoughts it opened a deeper communication link between us. Spoken at the right time and place it can be a real turn on for the other partner

 

[Shylady]

You know when you are pregnant your body gets strange cravings not just for food. It doesn't mean that you want anything new or different just that your hormones are really working. I used to have dreams along the same lines while i was expecting also.
Those same hormones made me cry at commercials too!
Congrats on the upcoming addition to your family

 

[CreamyLady]

I do remember being hornier when I was pregnant than at almost any other time in my life, and wanting to be more experimental, too.

Nothing wrong with it . . .

 

[Canucklehead922]

You might wish to take a glance at one of Nancy Friday's books on sexual fantasies (I know there's at least three books on women's fantasies). It may or may not provide some interest--pesonally, I don't place any importance on spychology. From what I understand of the subject, spychology is as much a science as chemistry was in the days of Dalton.

However, the fantasies writ inside the books are certainly interesting.