Sexless marriage

[BrasileiroXXX77]

Yeah sexless marriage here too, wife has no interest in sex. I have to find it occasionally when I travel. She is an amazing person, and that goes a long way these days, so it is hard to completely end the relationship.

 

[Hopeful1972]

I was thinking, I do the opposite: marriageless sex. It has pluses obviously, but also minuses. Overall, I guess all I can say is it works better for me.

Great profile pic, if that's you, stunning btw

 

[Cultivateddesires]

Does 14x (+4bj) this year count as a near sexless marriage. If so this sucks. I've tried talking, bringing in toys, outfits, she just won't budge. Pretty sure there is something else at play.

14 times in 10 months is way more than me and 1000 times others.

Is it sexless though, depends on one’s expectations and previous.

Everything is relative.

 

[Wageslave]

I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x

You have no idea

 

[Spongo]

I think we should help each other out

 

[GoodnessO]

Well, I mean I THINK it does. I've only tried ut this way; never actually been married.

I've been married 2x. The 2nd marriage is current & long-term. We love each other very much & have emotional closeness. But he never had a very strong sex drive, & now has none. My marriage-less sex )on the side) has been an interesting journey... certainly not all good, but I think I've met some keepers, & I’ll likely continue. I don't worry about becoming attached to them, or vice versa. I'm not going to leave my husband over it. But I'm a lover, & I yearn for sex with attachment. If a sexual relationship lacks frienship & emotional attachment, it doesn't trip my trigger.

 

[truman2005]

I take no personal pleasure or happiness when I hear about how worldwide this seemingly simple issue is and don't wish it to anyone.

But, to be honest, I can't really see any problem with her getting her needs met and it is always amazing when I do it and don't know why it's so difficult to put your dick in your wife or think I have ever had opportunity leading to putting my cock in a wife who I didn't hear say the same thing was her problem and it led her to getting in bed and having it fixed with me.

come do my wife!

 

[crashD]

come do my wife!

I’d be glad to!!

 

[GoodnessO]

I take no personal pleasure or happiness when I hear about how worldwide this seemingly simple issue is and don't wish it to anyone.

But, to be honest, I can't really see any problem with her getting her needs met and it is always amazing when I do it and don't know why it's so difficult to put your dick in your wife or think I have ever had opportunity leading to putting my cock in a wife who I didn't hear say the same thing was her problem and it led her to getting in bed and having it fixed with me.

I'm not kinky, but I love your profile. I was going to PM you, but there's no "start conversation" button. Guess your PM's are full enough. LOL. Have a great day!

 

[lokiboy]

I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x

Yes, yes it is

 

[womaneater58]

No sex is frustrating. I'd like to find a FWB in SW Wisconsin close to Madison.

 

[turok20]

haven't posted in a long while, but nothing has changed, unfortunately

 

[turok20]

Frustrating is just the beginning of it. You find yourself thinking about sex often, then all the time. Next thing you start to crave it. Even just a kind word from someone drives you into thinking about sex with them!
And amongst all that frustration begins to eat away at you, destroying your confidence, making you feel undesired, unsexy, a reject.

this hits me alot especially the last part, im fat and trying to lose it, but besides the fact we havent had sex in more than a year, it hurts more when im out of the shower naked and she makes the gagging sound, im not even allowed to touch her any where unless she wants me to and im not allowed to see her naked unless all lights are off

 

[Shygentleman2]

I've been married 2x. The 2nd marriage is current & long-term. We love each other very much & have emotional closeness. But he never had a very strong sex drive, & now has none. My marriage-less sex )on the side) has been an interesting journey... certainly not all good, but I think I've met some keepers, & I’ll likely continue. I don't worry about becoming attached to them, or vice versa. I'm not going to leave my husband over it. But I'm a lover, & I yearn for sex with attachment. If a sexual relationship lacks frienship & emotional attachment, it doesn't trip my trigger.

Wholeheartedly agree with the attachment piece. It's the entire experience and not just the sex. If we care about each other it's so much better. If that isn't there it doesn't do it for me.

 

[Fredyrock]

Been a very long time since I have had any sexual interaction with my menopausal wife...sometimes it just hurts...so many emotions...I am a passionate person...pleaser lover...so rejection...sets in...
Anyway...
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[Tasman69]

I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x

Beyond frustrating

 

[GoodnessO]

Life is short. Choose wisely.

 

[Waiter519123]

Life is short. Choose wisely.

Life is short and nothing wrong with dating.

 

[cornellmorgan91]

I have a question:

Those of you in a sexless marriage…if you won the lottery - would you tell your partner (and give up half) or would you concoct a plan to exit your marriage/partnership with all your newfound wealth intact?

I'd give her half sign over the house and disappear, like she had repeatedly threatened to do to me,when the children were toddlers,

 

[Dando100]

Sexless almost 10 years here. I’m 70 and wife is 66
Sex just tapered off gradually. Then she went through menopause and just about all bedroom activities stopped.
Now it’s painful to put anything inside her vagina. Vagina walls have thinned so it’s a no go for anything.
I wasn’t prepared for this..figured retire, house is kid free.. plenty of sex right?

Thought the same, no one ever mentioned menopause being the end of sex

 

[Cubby422]

I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x

You have no idea.

 

[PMarky2]

I just wish my wife - who I adore - could just look the other way occasionally. I think I know what the problem is - she still wants to fuck but it is too painful, so she cannot cope with the idea of me getting IT elsewhere.