Seriously...what are men REALLY looking for?

[lady*laura]

Have you ever looked at a couple and asked yourself...what DO they see in each other? That chemistry thing doesn't care if you are built like Barbie or rich as Midas. If you have a connection with some one where you CAN look across a room at them and melt inside and frantically look for the nearest exit then you are way better than Barbie and richer than Midas!

 

[CantSayNo]

Ahh...the question women have been seeking an answer to for centuries. I think that most men are looking just for a fuck between the ages of 18-30, give or take a few years. Then, after that, they realize how naive they have been, and find that girl, get married, have some kids, go bald...etc. Men just wanna have a good time basically, and then they wake up.

~CantSayNo~

 

[Allanon_the_Druid]

What men want

I think men, like women, think they want one thing because society tells them they want it. They spend wasted years trying to make themselves want what other people, friends and family for example, say they are supposed to want in a woman. Women do the same thing sometimes.

Truth is, we do not always know what we want until we find it and then are sometimes surprised.

Me, turns out I wanted someone that made me feel wanted myself. Someone that makes me feel like I am the person they always needed. That is quite a high.

I married her 12 years ago and have never doubted what I wanted again.

What do I find sexy? Attitude. A woman who is not afraid to admit what she likes. If you think sexy and act sexy you are sexy. You find a lot of women like that here. they say "This is what I like, and I don't care who knows it." That is sexy!

 

[lady*laura]

I agree with you. When someone says here I am and this is what I like it is very sexy. Makes you want to get to know them!

 

[Ransom]

Fuck it

For me, any woman that enjoys sex as much as I do, which is frequent. Looks are unimportant as long as she has all the standard female equipment which is still functioning to a satisfactory degree. A woman that enjoys, no, loves having her pussy eaten out at any given moment. Oh hell, it is not going to happen and Christmas has already passed once again....

 

[lady*laura]

I think you could a hug.......

Don't worry.....she's OUT there. Really! In the meantime.....

 

[dragonhearted]

I am quite puzzled. Just when you think you have them figured out they go and change the rules. What are you men really looking for? brains vs. boobs - passion vs. passive - madonna vs. whore


What is it?

Excellent question m'lady...I have to say a fine mixing of all! Little sprinkles and pinches, dabs and daubs...

My daddy used to tell me "Be a lady in public and a tiger in bed". I really think though that it is possible to have big boobs and be a brain too!

 

[lady*laura]

I really think though that it is possible to have big boobs and be a brain too!

Well I would hope so since I have both!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I really think though that it is possible to have big boobs and be a brain too!

Well I would hope so since I have both!

 

[lady*laura]

Johhny!!!!!

Thank you...you are such a sweetheart!

 

[Allanon_the_Druid]

Big boobs and brains too? Not Possible

Because the bigger your boobs are the dumber we men get

 

[lady*laura]

ok so if I read this right.......

men want passion, a friend and lover, big boobs and a nice ass....conversation...knowing what she wants, intelligence.....so why when he is confronted with a woman who is all that and more does he run tail and hide?

GAH!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[lady*laura]

Oh I am EAGERLY awaiting some responses.......

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: ok so if I read this right.......

men want passion, a friend and lover, big boobs and a nice ass....conversation...knowing what she wants, intelligence.....so why when he is confronted with a woman who is all that and more does he run tail and hide?

GAH!

Hmmm...who knows? Maybe you could just ask him?

 

[lady*laura]

oh Johnny.....

you are so sweet! I would ask if I culd get him to sit still long enough to do so!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: oh Johnny.....

you are so sweet! I would ask if I culd get him to sit still long enough to do so!

maybe stick a finger in his butt?

 

[lorddragonwolf]

I am quite puzzled. Just when you think you have them figured out they go and change the rules. What are you men really looking for? brains vs. boobs - passion vs. passive - madonna vs. whore


What is it?

for me i want a woman who is sexy inside and out. brains passion laughter are all amust. and it does not matter if she is bbw or skinny.

 

[goodhands_4u]

Re Pink Orchid

Haven't found a woman like that to even have the opportunity to run away. Know where I could find one?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[lady*laura]

Pink you beat me to it! I was going to say the same thing!

 

[cycleman]

Im looking for my best friend................think thats possible??

 

[lady*laura]

I would think it would be easier to turn a friend into a lover than a lover into a friend. Friends is a good place to start!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

*looks under his nose*

Nope, nothing but a mustache! Dammit, bad advice in How To...

 

[cajunpeach]

I would think it would be easier to turn a friend into a lover than a lover into a friend. Friends is a good place to start!

Lady*Laura's right - much easier to turn a friend into a lover and much more fun too!