Seriously...what are men REALLY looking for?

[lady*laura]

I am amazed

You have all given me much to think about. I know there isn't an easy answer. It is nice to have different views.

By the way...I am passionate and all that other stuff too and single!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: I am amazed

You have all given me much to think about. I know there isn't an easy answer. It is nice to have different views.

By the way...I am passionate and all that other stuff too and single!

Yeah, but are you good in bed? If you're good in bed, can cook, and can read a book that isn't a romance novel, you are set.

 

[lady*laura]

Oh my Goodness!

Please, let's not be hostile.

I can cook and read and write and spell too and I have all my teeth!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: Oh my Goodness!

Please, let's not be hostile.

I can cook and read and write and spell too and I have all my teeth!

No, lets not be hostile!! I'd rather cuddle anyways!

Teeth are a definite plus, btw...Look at my screen name, hun, there are plenty of women here who can't read and write...and are missing quite a few teeth as well! Damned Opie...

 

[lady*laura]

Mayberry huh? I always thought Barney was pretty hot!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I'm going to assume that was humor and laugh. Ha ha ha...damned Barney too!

 

[lady*laura]

Smart man!

 

[fiery_jack]

I am quite puzzled. Just when you think you have them figured out they go and change the rules. What are you men really looking for?

Right now i'd settle for a six-pack of beer and a blow job.

brains vs. boobs - passion vs. passive - madonna vs. whore

Aguilera vs. Spears.

Winner meets Lavigne in the final.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Let me think, what else do i look for in a woman...self sufficiency, a real personality, and a love of music and movies.

 

[The Duke of Oral]

I am quite puzzled. Just when you think you have them figured out they go and change the rules. What are you men really looking for? brains vs. boobs - passion vs. passive - madonna vs. whore


What is it?

Well lady*laura, I think you have at least a good idea of what I
am looking for, and right now, according to my sig line, that
would be you. As I stated in my personal ad, I am a man who
knows what he wants, just don't know where to find it, and I
may be on the right track here, then again, that tunnel up ahead
could be painted on after all. (Not an inference to your artistry
by the way, which I do have an interest to learn more about.)
And when I set my goals on something such as meeting up with
you, it is with the greatest of appreciation, and respect, and a
healthy dose of purely choice eroticism. Written just for you:

~~~
"Simply - I"
I dare not let the chance slip by,
for not a part of fool do I care to be..
I simply seek to win your smile,
perhaps your heart, cherished by me.

I reside herein, for purposes of fun,
and on most I have my daily share.
I hope that you will join me in such,
and allow me to show a man who cares.

I love to please a woman,
and I too wish for her to me as well,
if she allows me such attentions,
then let her swoon, to my erotic spell.

I am simply The Duke of Oral,
and not a mastermind, or thief.
Oh lady*laura, it is my hope and desire,
to appeal to you, and not have times too brief.
~~~

So, in answer to what I've quoted of your thread start here,
I am looking for a woman who is smart, ambitious, determined,
independent though not airily so (in the sense she continually
has to point it out), and who has an interest of the heart as well
as of the body. Oh, and the body, well, I'm not one to set a
typecast on appearance, though we all are instintively drawn to
some whereas not to others, simple fact. As far as sex, well lets
just say that I love such, and that's a hard medium to paint on
sweetie in my case, because I don't have a canvas for such. I
have "lots of pretty colors" and even the appropriate brushes
(I will expound on in private if you didn't catch that), but I just
simply do not have a lady to share my sexual bravado with. Not
a curse of appearance, or my ability to be fun, and witty myself,
just don't know where the supply store (place) is that contains
such surface (my lady to be). I am awaiting your return so that
we may discuss anything, but please don't blame yourself if
you find yourself aroused or enlighted in such interactions, after
all that is why I am here, to find such as you, and to that extent
I think we know what The Duke of Oral is looking for.

 

[phunkymonk]

Like with everything else, we are always looking for whatever we don't already have.

 

[HarleydevilzoN]

What do I look for in a mate?
I'd say a strong,independent woman that can fight beside me in life. Partner not Susie-homemaker. Passionate in bed on the edge of being violent. Just as smart or smarter then me. Open minded, nymphomaniac, determined, with strong cense of self and nice legs. I prefer dark hair and dislike big chest. Physical appearance is secondary anyway...

Can't believe that's it ... I thought I had standards of a nazi...

 

[greybeard]

this works both ways.........

I would think the answer would depend on the man.

the variables are all over the place.............my own take..........a woman who is sure of herself........now there is always that little spot of insecurity.........but she is sure of what she wants.........and she honestly cares about what I want in my life.........we don't have to agree...........but we have to understand that we need to talk about it..........and she needs to believe that I want her to be happy............and that I will give her all that I can to see that she gets there................

greybeard

 

[LadyGwenhevare]

Well Men out there it is great to see that most of you want more than just tits and ass!!!

You should all keep copies of your descriptions of the perfect woman and give them to your future wives to open on their wedding days - They will melt.

All those single women must be looking in the wrong places.

Me - very happily married -15 years

 

[Spinoza]

Yeah there are a lot of good list of what men want already posted and I use to want all those things but I think now I would settle for someone who doesnt mind letting me be me. Lets me talk the way I want and we find some mutual understanding on how to treat each other. And of course Id like her to be interested in seeing that I get sex...quality and quantity.

Are there woman out there like that ?



Spin

 

[comeagain4]

brains---- sure but that isn't necessary. 1st wife, now deceased, only had a 10th grade education. married 10 years. after she died within 6 & 1/2 years i had 2 bachalor degrees and a doctorate degree.

big tits---- anything past a B cup will do. if she really wants bigger tits, through a proper exercise routine, most woman can go from a B+ size cup to a D. the growth is not fast but the continued firmness and shape are nice.

a woman should be able to make the man feel loved. one of these ways is through the quality and quantity of their sex life. this will mean that their might be times when she dosen't really want to but recognizes his need and therefore does not say no.

additionally, the woman needs to be able to communicate with me and let me know what she wants. hell, neither i nor any other man can read minds.

also, she needs to be willing to learn what i like and provide that stimulas at least occassionally ie: i like a woman to be able to take all of me in when she is giving head.

the woman needs to be able to make the home feel like a HOME. a place where we both are comfortable. me, i am just a poor dumb man, she is supposed to know what i like, what i don't like and what i will tolerate, then using her gifts and nest making capabilities make her choices of what she wants within those paramaters leaving me with the hard job of deciding on colors or some such.

 

[bulldog617]

Madonna Vs. Whore

Madonna is a whore .. and she's not returning my calls anymore!!

 

[lady*laura]

Well isn't she just a bitch! I'd return your calls darlin......

 

[supah_fly_69]

What men really wany

lol this is a reversal for once. All this man wants is a smart chik who is rather attentive and enjoys intimacy and sex. everything else always comes second. if i HAD to choose tho itd be good grl, but a whore in the bed room. like long hair. not much else to say bout it i dont think.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

Men want.... me!

*ducks and runs while i've got a head start*

Do we? Damn, i wasnt even aware of this. Thanks for enlightening me.

Now what was it about you i wanted again???

DM

 

[StevenWill]

Brains and

It all stems from the brain. No brain, no sex. Boobs don't make the woman. Intelligent women who are interested in developing and growing sexually with a partner. It has nothing to do with "her" being good in bed or "him" being good in bed; it's about THEM being good together. It is a partnership, not a performance. A good partnership establishes a safe environment for total erotic abandonment and surrender.

No one's body is going to keep you interested for years and years, but intelligence and communication never stops working for me. It's an erotic journey with vast potential for incredible passion. Boobs, butts, shaved genitals, tatoos, piercings, etc. are just side shows. They don't fuel the journey, the brain does.

Steven

 

[lady*laura]

Hey Steven......

You are absolutely right. I have often said make love to my mind and alll the rest will follow. When the chemistry is right then communication happens and when that happens it is awesome. Without communication it is just hormones and urges.

 

[alltherage]

Many I have met seem to be looking for someone just like Mommy that also will frequently suck their cocks. Naw! just kidden. I haven't got a clue but I am pretty sure that cock sucking thing is non-negotiable.

 

[The Duke of Oral]

Sometimes a man, could really care less if he got his dick sucked, or even if the woman who would be placed in his life through fate, had to live in a wheel chair. Some men just want a chance to find a woman with a pure heart, and one that will look him in the eyes right before they kiss, and just know.

 

[cajunpeach]

Sometimes a man, could really care less if he got his dick sucked, or even if the woman who would be placed in his life through fate, had to live in a wheel chair. Some men just want a chance to find a woman with a pure heart, and one that will look him in the eyes right before they kiss, and just know.

I wish more men thought like you, Duke...unfortunately, the ones I've met in person and some online don't want a woman who just wants a man to love and care for her as she is.

A man who could - even from across a crowded room - look at me and make me melt, make me want to be with just him, want his kisses and his touch & a man who can make me laugh despite the day's woes is a treasure!