scared and confused but curious

[langothe]

ok so i have a burning question.
im a straight girl (so far only had sex with straight men), but sometimes am also attracted to girls, so i guess that would mean im somewhat bi.

now, i have a really good guy friend who is gay, but lately theres just been so much sexual tension between us thats beyond just hugging and kissing and feeling each other up in a friendly gay fashion. so, the other night he just came out and said that he wants to do it and just it get it over and done with, he cant handle being around me any more and feeling that way.

it left me feeling all shocked and confused and mixed up. a really big part of me wants to, but im not sure if i can, especially because he is so actively gay and has been for a long time.

anyone with advice, similar sitaution?

 

[emanuel78]

Go for it

Honestly go for it just use protection.

 

[Runner_3]

I would also suggest you go for it. If you're curious this would help you figure out if you enjoy it or dont. Even better its with someone you know pretty well and trust.

 

[SweetErika]

Can you elaborate on your fears/concerns about having sex with him?

A lot of times, listing specific fears helps because we realize they're either valid or silly/irrational.

Maybe you just need some more time to think about it, and that's fine, too.

 

[NakedMale]

I am straight but have a fantasy about giving oral to a man. Don't think I will do it but the thought is exciting

 

[jeninflorida]

why label it...or put pressure on yourself. if it feels right and good, just go with it. seems like your taking your time, which is good. so I say, just have fun!

ok so i have a burning question.
im a straight girl (so far only had sex with straight men), but sometimes am also attracted to girls, so i guess that would mean im somewhat bi.

now, i have a really good guy friend who is gay, but lately theres just been so much sexual tension between us thats beyond just hugging and kissing and feeling each other up in a friendly gay fashion. so, the other night he just came out and said that he wants to do it and just it get it over and done with, he cant handle being around me any more and feeling that way.

it left me feeling all shocked and confused and mixed up. a really big part of me wants to, but im not sure if i can, especially because he is so actively gay and has been for a long time.

anyone with advice, similar sitaution?