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[HARDKOREBJ]

i buy this girl jewlery,perfume,give her my hard earned money.she still wont go out with me.she is toying with me

 

[lobito]

while I don't really see a question there, the answer if there is one, is YES, she's toying/using you.

I had this type of conversation with my little sister who turned 15 last week. There is a boy where she lives, that LOVES her, I know him a bit, and I have seen what he does for her, buys for her, and I feel REALLY sorry for him, because he's in love, and she's not even close.

I asked her what their relationship was, and she just gave me her patented smile, like you know what it is Big Brother. Yes I do know, I asked her if she loved him? and she shook her head no, but said maybe one day. Then I asked her if it was the attention and the gifts he buys for her, she didn't have to say anything, the tears in her eyes told me the whole story.

Girls/Women are like that sometimes, BUT, so are Boys/Men too. It's all part of life, hopefully you pick yourself up, and move on to someone who actually cares about you.

R

 

[lavender]

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

WELL

she told me she would then she backed out.

 

[lavender]

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

well

she is a bitch at times

 

[lavender]

 

[Wizard]

Yea, I have to say so too..............Move on let her go nothing will come of that......

Sounds like you try too hard.........

She is using you my friend......

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

well

if i don`t try how am i going to be happy.

 

[lavender]

 

[lobito]

the problem isn't merely trying, but trying too hard.

You'll be happy, how old are you? late teens? early twenties? Give it time, get to know someone before you give her ANYTHING but your heart, even then, giving your heart may be too much, even more than something material.

R

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

well

im in my late 20`s.im not getting any younger.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

maybe

we are good friends.she yells at me alot.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i yell at my best friend a lot too.. but that doesnt stop us from being friends... he knows that if i cant find some way to get out any of my angers or frustrations i pretty much yell at him for doing something stupid..

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

true

i told her i was sorry.i still think she is mad at me.
i called another girl and she got angry