Question for Gay Men

[sjl1701]

I have a question for you gay and bi men who bottom. Do you maintain an erection while you're being fucked?

I am curious as I have recently faced the fact that I am gay and not bi. When I was fucked in the past, I didn't stay erect. However recently since acknowledging being gay, I've stay erect while being fucked. While delighted, I'm curious about other guys experiences.


Scott

 

[Experiencedguy]

What??

First: I am totally bi, and quite open about it. At times, I have been 100% gay, and at others, 100% straight. But, even then, I always had a roving eye for the other sex.

Of course, I maintain an Erection while getting fucked. And usually cum. I mean, after all, isn't that what sex is all about -- to get two people off? (Unless it is group sex, when you want more than two, or for procreation, when you really don't have to fuck anymore to be sucessful, thanks to modern technology).

If you were Bi, and didn't get an erection, didn't you enjoy it? And if you did enjoy it, how come you only now get erections? Do you cum while being fucked, or do you save that for later?

PM me if you wish to discuss in detail.

 

[tortuou5]

well, i'm bi. and i only bottom. and i can't maintain an erection while i have things in my ass, not that i need an erection/to cum when i bottom anyway. i always think it doesn't make sense at all that i don't need to cum to get satisfaction from "same sex" sex. maybe it's a mental thing? it doesn't mean it doesn't feel good on the physical side of it. it feels great especially if my prostate gets stimulated.

 

[sjl1701]

First: I am totally bi, and quite open about it. At times, I have been 100% gay, and at others, 100% straight. But, even then, I always had a roving eye for the other sex.

Of course, I maintain an Erection while getting fucked. And usually cum. I mean, after all, isn't that what sex is all about -- to get two people off? (Unless it is group sex, when you want more than two, or for procreation, when you really don't have to fuck anymore to be sucessful, thanks to modern technology).

If you were Bi, and didn't get an erection, didn't you enjoy it? And if you did enjoy it, how come you only now get erections? Do you cum while being fucked, or do you save that for later?

PM me if you wish to discuss in detail.

Thanks for the response.

Maybe I was less than clear. I did and DO enjoy getting fucked, I just didn't have an erection during the process, I also don't usually cum from the fucking, or at least haven't yet. I'm usually brought off by stimulation to my own cock, usually being sucked off.

I was just wondering if staying erect while being fucked was normal and if there was something mental related to it. Don't get me wrong, I love being fucked and it's even more fun while hard, I was just wondering if my finally accepting my sexuality had anything to do with it. I know now that I've been gay the whole time, I just had not accepted it and my not being erect was part of my not being me, in a sense.

 

[sjl1701]

well, i'm bi. and i only bottom. and i can't maintain an erection while i have things in my ass, not that i need an erection/to cum when i bottom anyway. i always think it doesn't make sense at all that i don't need to cum to get satisfaction from "same sex" sex. maybe it's a mental thing? it doesn't mean it doesn't feel good on the physical side of it. it feels great especially if my prostate gets stimulated.

Thanks for your response.

I had that reaction from some guys, that having something in the ass effected the erection. What got me interested in checking with other men, was seeing lots of pictures and plenty of home made porn where the fuckee was hard during the intercourse. And having now had two different reactions, I was curious about how things happened for other men.

I'll see how it goes in the future. I'm actually quite thrilled that I'm staying erect while being fucked, it really makes it a lot more fun.

 

[Chrissi]

I have a question for you gay and bi men who bottom. Do you maintain an erection while you're being fucked?

I am curious as I have recently faced the fact that I am gay and not bi. When I was fucked in the past, I didn't stay erect. However recently since acknowledging being gay, I've stay erect while being fucked. While delighted, I'm curious about other guys experiences.


Scott

Don't put too much thought into it. Sometimes I stay erect, sometimes I don't. Some guys can get me to cum, some can't. Yes I do leak when I am soft, or usually semi erect. Rubbing, hitting and stimulating the prostate gets me going, but I don't need to be erect.

It could be that you no longer have any anxiety about your sexuality and are much more relaxed about it. I am gay, and out (not in your face about it) but I don't recall when I wasn't out, that I reacted to anal penetration any differently. I loved it then, I still love it now.

 

[sjl1701]

Don't put too much thought into it. Sometimes I stay erect, sometimes I don't. Some guys can get me to cum, some can't. Yes I do leak when I am soft, or usually semi erect. Rubbing, hitting and stimulating the prostate gets me going, but I don't need to be erect.

It could be that you no longer have any anxiety about your sexuality and are much more relaxed about it. I am gay, and out (not in your face about it) but I don't recall when I wasn't out, that I reacted to anal penetration any differently. I loved it then, I still love it now.

Thanks for the response.

I do think you have there in that I am much more relaxed about my sexuality. I'm not worried about it at all, I was just curious to see if anyone had noticed something similar.

 

[matty70]

Always hard when Im taking it in my ass and I cum hard when full

 

[robbie_boy1]

Don't put too much thought into it. Sometimes I stay erect, sometimes I don't. Some guys can get me to cum, some can't. Yes I do leak when I am soft, or usually semi erect. Rubbing, hitting and stimulating the prostate gets me going, but I don't need to be erect.

It could be that you no longer have any anxiety about your sexuality and are much more relaxed about it. I am gay, and out (not in your face about it) but I don't recall when I wasn't out, that I reacted to anal penetration any differently. I loved it then, I still love it now.

You have said the same thing I would have said. Sometimes yes and sometimes no but always satisfying.

 

[tommix45]

I'm still a virgin but I'd sure like to find out!

 

[sjl1701]

You have said the same thing I would have said. Sometimes yes and sometimes no but always satisfying.

Thanks for the note. I'll continue to note my reactions as I move forward. I do enjoy getting fucked regardless of what my cock is doing.

 

[sjl1701]

I'm still a virgin but I'd sure like to find out!

Go for it guy! Look at it not as losing something but moving forward with life!

 

[sjl1701]

Always hard when I'm taking it in my ass and I cum hard when full

Glad to hear it! Thanks for the note.

 

[mmmscurious]

Actually, I find that I almost always have my hardest erections when I have a cock in my ass. I don't know whether it's psychological or physiological, but they are consistently rock hard.

 

[sjl1701]

Actually, I find that I almost always have my hardest erections when I have a cock in my ass. I don't know whether it's psychological or physiological, but they are consistently rock hard.

Very cool, guy! Rock on! Thanks for the input.

 

[matty70]

After careful research last night, carried out the experiment three times I can confirm I definatly stay hard when fucked in the ass lol

 

[sjl1701]

After careful research last night, carried out the experiment three times I can confirm I definetly stay hard when fucked in the ass lol

Hey guy, thanks for doing the research!

i appreciate the note. Sounds like the research was great fun.

 

[apoll5286]

I am bi and I bottom only. I have found that I stay hard right up until I get penetrated then I focus only on that feeling and I lose my hard-on. It usually ends up staying as kind of a semi the whole time.

 

[infinity706]

I'm usually soft when getting penetrated. Sadly, I only have somewhat limited experience with getting my ass pounded since most of the guys that will do it don't want to use a condom and don't want to use lube.

 

[yr_sissy_toy]

I'm bi. Every time I've had a cock in me, it's been fake, and I've been stroking off, so I'm really not sure. I've been hoping to get an answer sooner or later, though -- hopefully sooner!

 

[jackstud]

With that Tushy I am sure it will be soon

 

[sjl1701]

I am bi and I bottom only. I have found that I stay hard right up until I get penetrated then I focus only on that feeling and I lose my hard-on. It usually ends up staying as kind of a semi the whole time.

Thanks for the note!

 

[sjl1701]

I'm usually soft when getting penetrated. Sadly, I only have somewhat limited experience with getting my ass pounded since most of the guys that will do it don't want to use a condom and don't want to use lube.

Gads, I'm sorry those guys don't have more respect for you.

 

[sjl1701]

I'm bi. Every time I've had a cock in me, it's been fake, and I've been stroking off, so I'm really not sure. I've been hoping to get an answer sooner or later, though -- hopefully sooner!

Good luck, guy!

 

[rbone04]

My erections come and go while I'm being fucked in the ass. If my partner or I touch my cock even the slightest bit, I tend to get rock hard immediately. I also have no problem whatsoever maintaining an erection the whole time my cock is being stimulated. When I cum while being fucked and stroked at the same time... those are the hardest orgasms I EVER have.

If my dick is neglected, I tend to lose my erection. Moreover, it actually seems to shrink to embarrassingly small dimensions! Not that I really care, because I don't lose any of my desire and I continue to enjoy the hell out of it! I can also cum without any penile stimulation while being fucked (if it's done right). During these orgasms, they are not nearly as forceful but they last FOREVER. I actually like it this way better because my cock begins flowing a seemingly endless stream of cum once I reach orgasm from anal stimulation alone. As long as the cock/toy keeps penetrating me the way I need it to, the orgasm just lasts and lasts and lasts. Needless to say, the sheets need a thorough cleaning after a steamy session like this!