Public play

[ownedsubgal]

I don't buy the poor-innocent-me routine, osg, and I don't buy the notion that this exchange is beyond your comprehension. I used to, but I don't any more. I now read you as extremely manipulative.

That's as plain as I can spell it.

well okay then. i can't change the way you "read" me. i am certainly not slow, but i am not getting exactly how or in what direction i am attempting to manipulate anyone. it's clear that somewhere along the line you have misunderstood me, but then while that explains the issues in this thread it doesn't explain issues elsewhere at other times. perhaps it's as simple as you and i just don't speak the same language.

now, seeing that you have PMs disabled and i'm sure one from me would not be welcomed anyhow...i'll just say, this is not a period in my life where i can handle a lot of mean.

 

[ownedsubgal]

In the past, you have said he punched you in a mall food court and slapped you in the aisle of a grocery store. Both are a far cry from an empty stairwell. As I have said before, it is crappy to put other people in the position of seeing this. I know you have no control and your Master doesn't give a flying flip about my opinion, but I'm giving it anyway. LOL

in public and in plain sight are two different things. never have i said that Daddy just whales on me without thought to where we are or who may be watching, tho i would think that would go without saying.

 

[JMohegan]

in public and in plain sight are two different things. never have i said that Daddy just whales on me without thought to where we are or who may be watching, tho i would think that would go without saying.

That might "go without saying"..... but for the fact that you said something entirely different.

thanks for answering, and that sounds appropriate imo. though both things you mentioned...not attempting to get away when there is opportunity, and verbally declining any offered assistance, can also indicate extreme fear of her partner, or mental conditioning that she has no other options. i would actually assume this if i encountered such a couple in public, however i tend to read into such things far more than the average passerby.

i am fortunate that in my experiences the vanilla public tends to think more like you than like myself on the public displays of violence thing. imo it is the reason Daddy has never encountered any issues with others attempting to intervene when he has physically reprimanded or abused me in public.

Emphasis added.

well okay then. i can't change the way you "read" me. i am certainly not slow, but i am not getting exactly how or in what direction i am attempting to manipulate anyone. it's clear that somewhere along the line you have misunderstood me, but then while that explains the issues in this thread it doesn't explain issues elsewhere at other times. perhaps it's as simple as you and i just don't speak the same language.

now, seeing that you have PMs disabled and i'm sure one from me would not be welcomed anyhow...i'll just say, this is not a period in my life where i can handle a lot of mean.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_playing#Victim_playing_by_manipulators

Again, I say: If you don't like my opinion, don't read it.

And if you find me "bullying" and can't "handle a lot of mean," then for god's sake don't initiate conversations with me - as you did, on this thread, when you popped on and asked me a direct question.

There's an ignore function here that is easy to use. Click on my username and you'll see it.

 

[Dearelliot]

not beating or slapping

Most of our "Public play" was done out of the country..Usually in the Caribbean...and with care..At adult only resorts my wife, after a shower...i would draw back the blinds so that someone passing might glance in and see her naked...In the game She would ask if she may get dressed..but of course Id refuse permission. Backl in the day of Mini skirts...we would go to the bar...and as she dressed Id tell her she may not wear panties...or bra..so she would know she was going to have an uncomfortable evening not exposing herself..when sitting at the bar.
The key to enjoying the public humiliation, was the role play..Being naked all day at a nude beach and then in the evening being forced to expose in a bar is quite different.

 

[sailorpaul]

When my girl flies out here, she must take off and give me her panties in baggage claim -- and hand them over with the panties hanging from her finger. It gets interesting trying to be reasonably discrete. (Someone would have to deliberately try and see, and we make sure no kids anywhere.)

If she does, then she gets her "airport kiss" If she doesn't...

Oh, what's an "airport kiss" you ask? We walk out to the parking garage, put bag in the back, she climbs into the passenger seat and hikes up her skirt. I stand in the open passenger doorway. She lines Master's finger up perfectly at the entrance to her pussy. Then, and only then, will I simultaneously kiss her and slide my finger inside her. It's a lovely kiss averaging slightly over three orgasms per airport landing. She's a little vocal, so we've had some eyeballs glued on the kissing action visible above the waist. Meanwhile she has the most marvelous muscle action/control going on down below. I sometimes remind her that her pussy loves it, and she's just along for the ride.

It's pretty clear from her arched body what might possibly be happening below the windshield -- if they have an imagination, not dead, nor further right than a moderate Republican.

(And before anyone starts on the political comment... I AM a moderate Republican. She says that makes the best Dom. Very little of that "what do you want" sensitivity stuff, yet still kinky.)

 

[Netzach]

Maybe that's part of my problem. If I'm going to catch shit for doing it with another woman in public, or my gay guy friends are going to catch shit for doing it in public, I'm not so charmed by straight people doing it in public. Whatever "it" is.

 

[unpredictablebijou]

This is a valuable discussion and I'm enjoying it, but I'm still hoping for a thread that talks about actual ideas for public play. For my part, I'm not interested in exhibitionism in the least, but there's a part of me that seriously loves getting away with things, knowing that I'm doing something completely scandalous and that no one is noticing. Or more to the point, making someone else get away with something and being the only one who is aware that it's happening...

 

[SimonBrooke]

This is a valuable discussion and I'm enjoying it, but I'm still hoping for a thread that talks about actual ideas for public play. For my part, I'm not interested in exhibitionism in the least, but there's a part of me that seriously loves getting away with things, knowing that I'm doing something completely scandalous and that no one is noticing. Or more to the point, making someone else get away with something and being the only one who is aware that it's happening...

Well, here's one that I like that might work for you. We go to a public park or other outdoor public space, very late at night. There probably won't be many other people that, and any there are will be adults. I wear a long, loose trench-coat, she wears nothing but her collar and leash. If anyone appears I could wrap the coat around her and we would just look like two ordinary lovers kissing in the park... but I could withhold that protection. In practice I never have withheld that protection, but it's the thought that I might that's the thrill for her.

 

[Homburg]

This is a valuable discussion and I'm enjoying it, but I'm still hoping for a thread that talks about actual ideas for public play. For my part, I'm not interested in exhibitionism in the least, but there's a part of me that seriously loves getting away with things, knowing that I'm doing something completely scandalous and that no one is noticing. Or more to the point, making someone else get away with something and being the only one who is aware that it's happening...

Did a suspension demo yesterday and was talking with an Fdom freind of mine afterwards. She mentioned doing cock and balls bondage and attaching the ball tie to elastic that was attached to the ankles under the pants. Each step tugs on the balls which excites the gent, yet the cock tie prevents him from getting properly erect.

I know I've done waist harnesses under clothes on various women, complete with happy-place knots. Very distracting, lots of fun.

 

[00Syd]

I know people who have done suspensions in busy places, in plain sight, in the view of the public, in broad daylight, with cops watching.

As long as nobody is naked, and no one is getting hurt, for the most part, NYC police don't give a shit. They might even help.


Love my city.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I know people who have done suspensions in busy places, in plain sight, in the view of the public, in broad daylight, with cops watching.

As long as nobody is naked, and no one is getting hurt, for the most part, NYC police don't give a shit. They might even help.


Love my city.

Valid point.

Why do we have to get naked to have pervy fun in the publicish arena?

 

[00Syd]

No nudity necessary! Just getting away with some ridiculous stunt without anyone batting an eye is thrilling in and of itself.

I'm friends with a couple of guys who suspended a girl off of the Wall Street Bull (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charging_Bull), with spectators that included a van-load of cops. The photos are amazing, and not because the suspension itself was particularly great, but because "holy shit, you suspended someone off of the Wall Street Bull." NYC FTW

You'd be amazed what you can get away with if you call it art, or look in any way like a photographer.

 

[midwestyankee]

This is a valuable discussion and I'm enjoying it, but I'm still hoping for a thread that talks about actual ideas for public play. For my part, I'm not interested in exhibitionism in the least, but there's a part of me that seriously loves getting away with things, knowing that I'm doing something completely scandalous and that no one is noticing. Or more to the point, making someone else get away with something and being the only one who is aware that it's happening...

I've some experience with using a remote-controlled vibrator in public places. It's much fun to run that little buzzer up to its highest level every time the cute waiter or busboy comes to the dinner table to take the order, refill the water glasses, and so on. The lady wearing the vibe tends to think that it sounds like a Big Ben alarm clock going off every time I hit the switch, which adds a delicious element of embarrassment. Of course, this is usually coupled with a full-on denial of any orgasm, which is tough on someone who can easily acheive an orgasm from a few well-spoken words from me.

 

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[Netzach]

I know people who have done suspensions in busy places, in plain sight, in the view of the public, in broad daylight, with cops watching.

As long as nobody is naked, and no one is getting hurt, for the most part, NYC police don't give a shit. They might even help.


Love my city.

This is exactly the kind of thing I mean. If it's unusual enough it doesn't register as "some pervert's sex thing" - just people being eccentric.

I miss the eccentricity of NYC before it went all Time Warner. You used to see shit like this every day of every week.

 

[00Syd]

This is exactly the kind of thing I mean. If it's unusual enough it doesn't register as "some pervert's sex thing" - just people being eccentric.

Right, exactly. Most people have never even heard of bondage suspensions, much less heard of them as a sexual thing, so to most people something like that just looks like performance art or something.

 

[wicked woman]

Right, exactly. Most people have never even heard of bondage suspensions, much less heard of them as a sexual thing, so to most people something like that just looks like performance art or something.

I saw the most spectacular self-suspension recently. Absolutely performance art.

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Y'all are giving me some lovely new ideas. thank you.

I do have fond memories of a particular live concert, to which I wore a long shawl, convenient for hiding the fact that I had my hand in his jeans for pretty much the entire performance. Even our companions had no idea it was happening, but I loved the idea that I was getting away with murder, right there in public.

Does it actually sound "like a Big Ben alarm clock?" I mean, is it audible to you sitting across the table? This sounds like a lot of fun, but I would be horrified at the idea that the server could hear.

It depends on the toy, but I think that generally one becomes thoroughly convinced that everyone in the restaurant can hear the buzz, whether or not that's actually the case. I've never noticed them being particularly audible.

And you can count on general oblivion, as well. Even if the server might hear a faint and distant buzzing, they're not necessarily going to automatically say, "oh, well she's obviously got a vibrator in her grunders." Unless the server is One of Us, in which case it's okay anyway.

 

[intothewoods]

I saw the most spectacular self-suspension recently. Absolutely performance art.

Me too! This chick looked like a circus performer.

 

[damonX]

I was driving a girl home once when she mentioned how she had a fantasy about getting fucked in an alley. So I pulled over and took her into an alley, bent her over and fucked her from behind. Then We just got back in the car and I dropped her off at her boyfriend's house. (Sorry Etoile, I know the cheating upsets you).


The same girl came to visit me a while ago. I brought her up to the roof of my building and made her get down on her knees and eat my ass while I looked out over the city. There are lots of tall buildings around so many people would have been able to see us if they looked.

 

[unknooown]

A couple years ago, before my girlfriend was my girlfriend, she and I were heading to Vermont for a wedding. The sexual tension was unbearable, at least for me, and she had the nerve to wear a short, black, thin cotton dress which I found to be incredibly distracting.

We spent most of the 7 hour drive arguing which turns me on to no end, and at some point I decided I couldn't take it anymore so I pulled into a truck stop, parked around the side of the building and behind a tree, pulled her out of the car and fucked her from behind as she assumed the typical frisk stance.

The parking lot was pretty busy considering it was probably around midnight (if not later), but nobody could see us. It just occurred to me that that was public play, which, for me, adds a new dimension to an already incredible memory.

We should probably take another road trip soon.

 

[subish2009]

I was driving a girl home once when she mentioned how she had a fantasy about getting fucked in an alley. So I pulled over and took her into an alley, bent her over and fucked her from behind. Then We just got back in the car and I dropped her off at her boyfriend's house. (Sorry Etoile, I know the cheating upsets you).


The same girl came to visit me a while ago. I brought her up to the roof of my building and made her get down on her knees and eat my ass while I looked out over the city. There are lots of tall buildings around so many people would have been able to see us if they looked.

A couple years ago, before my girlfriend was my girlfriend, she and I were heading to Vermont for a wedding. The sexual tension was unbearable, at least for me, and she had the nerve to wear a short, black, thin cotton dress which I found to be incredibly distracting.

We spent most of the 7 hour drive arguing which turns me on to no end, and at some point I decided I couldn't take it anymore so I pulled into a truck stop, parked around the side of the building and behind a tree, pulled her out of the car and fucked her from behind as she assumed the typical frisk stance.

The parking lot was pretty busy considering it was probably around midnight (if not later), but nobody could see us. It just occurred to me that that was public play, which, for me, adds a new dimension to an already incredible memory.

We should probably take another road trip soon.

Both of these stories are HOT and do not cross my personal line of acceptable public play...technically, someone could have seen, but they'd have to try. Since most people are oblivious, I don't see this as offensive.

 

[Dearelliot]

I heard a story with 2 versions

and although itis fun to read..I doubt it is true A couple went to a rerstaurant, the lady not really blind but wearing black glasses with white cane, and wearing a low cut whatever...supposedly while he went to the mens room one of her breasts spilled out and she was unaware...and sat there one breast exposed to all ..the waiter seeing the dilemma...hurried to get her male escort,..
The other version was a woman with arms under a jacket as though she had no use of them...and while talking one breast fell out and the escort didnt notice...after a while he had to place it back in..also while feeding the lady he allowed food to dripp and spot her chin...and he ignored..
I feel these stunts could be tried to some extent although I am unsure where
I do know a couple that used to have a discussion in public and she would slap his face hard then he would apologize and they would walk away..

 

[shortstuff02]

We have had a few instances. Our first one was actually on our girst date which I think is funny for it to happen then. We had teased each other for a month before...mind you this was also the first time we met face to face as we had met on Craigslist. Well we went out to dinner, then went to his car and hang out. We messed around like teenagers since we had time til the movies. He had my pants to my knees and was playing with my pussy. We get to the movies which wasn't very crowded but still. As the movie started we were teasin back and forth. Mind you were were all the way in the back...well besides him rubbing my pussy from the outside of my pants...he decided he wanted to get a little closer and see how wet I was and make me have an orgasm. It didn't take long before he did. I am normally not quiet when I do so I had to hold it back. I was then reaching over and stroking him as well. Mind you it was a nice night. He got me good a few times.

Then we have a wireless remote control egg that he likes to play with when we are out to dinner. He would get me good when I would go to order or take a drink. The thought of what was happening was a huge turnon.

Again another time we were out to dinner with friends in a booth. Well he decided he wanted to play some. He reaches behind me and is putting his hand down the back of my pants and playing with my ass and the friends had no idea what he was doing but we did.

 

[subish2009]

and although itis fun to read..I doubt it is true A couple went to a rerstaurant, the lady not really blind but wearing black glasses with white cane, and wearing a low cut whatever...supposedly while he went to the mens room one of her breasts spilled out and she was unaware...and sat there one breast exposed to all ..the waiter seeing the dilemma...hurried to get her male escort,..
The other version was a woman with arms under a jacket as though she had no use of them...and while talking one breast fell out and the escort didnt notice...after a while he had to place it back in..also while feeding the lady he allowed food to dripp and spot her chin...and he ignored..
I feel these stunts could be tried to some extent although I am unsure where
I do know a couple that used to have a discussion in public and she would slap his face hard then he would apologize and they would walk away..

The bolded part? LOVE this.