Man wanting to be tied

[Sgts19]

I bought a shades of gray kit off Amazon. We've used it on each other several times. Harness kit that goes under the mattress with velco straps coming over the sides spreads arms and legs wide apart (also comes with several other toys) We always add a blindfold and ear pods with music.

On my 50th B-day wife and friends surprised me a weekend away. I ended up naked tied to a chair and blindfolded while he and my wife went at it with his wife taking pics

 

[HarleyQuim]

While she was sucking me a couple weeks ago the wife mentioned she should tie me down sometime.

it’s been a long awhile since she got me spread eagle on the bed, but after thinking about it ummm hard … I've determined some aspects that I’d like her to try out on me that go beyond our past games.

Any tips on getting her into a bit of a level up without freaking and understanding my horny needs would be appreciated!

Starting vanilla
I want to be tied down —firmly— with as little movement as possible (I’ve practiced a bit so maybe pretty seamless… but how to sequence from showing her …maybe lay everything out for her so she just clicks me in and tightens and moves into a dominant role?) maybe she can tell me to prepare the equipment?

I’d like a blindfold for the surprise

While I probably should be gagged as I can try and over direct I want my mouth available for any play she sees fit.
So I’m thinking maybe she can just tell me to shut up if I’m getting bossy bottom and slap my face or cock medium light…?

Also would like have her give me another try at prostate massage. So maybe with a wedge under my hips for an easy angle?

How to bring these details up with wifey? Slowly? When? Should I satisfy her first or after/during my binding adventure ?

I need some advice as I really would like to open things up a bit as we’re both getting old and winter is coming.

Thanks

If I were her I’d tie you up and gag you (with a real gag or my snatch) whenever we had sex because you seem really picky. The point of being tied up is that you’re helpless and not in control. If she wants to tie you up, great! After that leave it to her what happens next,

 

[Cowboy34]

If I were her I’d tie you up and gag you (with a real gag or my snatch) whenever we had sex because you seem really picky. The point of being tied up is that you’re helpless and not in control. If she wants to tie you up, great! After that leave it to her what happens next,

Beautiful put!!

 

[CuriousRick]

If I were her I’d tie you up and gag you (with a real gag or my snatch) whenever we had sex because you seem really picky. The point of being tied up is that you’re helpless and not in control. If she wants to tie you up, great! After that leave it to her what happens next,

Exactly the point!

 

[kneelingmatt]

If I were her I’d tie you up and gag you (with a real gag or my snatch) whenever we had sex because you seem really picky. The point of being tied up is that you’re helpless and not in control. If she wants to tie you up, great! After that leave it to her what happens next,

Some of the fun is the unknown! Let her be in control.

 

[moonchild040815]

I bought a shades of gray kit off Amazon. We've used it on each other several times. Harness kit that goes under the mattress with velco straps coming over the sides spreads arms and legs wide apart (also comes with several other toys) We always add a blindfold and ear pods with music.

On my 50th B-day wife and friends surprised me a weekend away. I ended up naked tied to a chair and blindfolded while he and my wife went at it with his wife taking pics

Wow, that sounds like a lot of fun for both parties! I hope you / wife got a copy of those pics?

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

I love being tied naked and helpless by other men or other women. I love being forcibly mouth fucked. One of my wife’s big turn on’s is being tied naked outdoors and used while others watch. For reasons I don’t understand yet, I love to tie other men naked and play with them and suck them off, but I do not get the same thrill tying other girls/women and using them. We booth do like being photographed or videoed.