Prostate Massage

[Neogeokt]

Based on my internet research, this seems to be a real thing, but 1) I haven't experienced it, 2) it never seems to come up in conversations with friends (even when discussing other sexual joys) and 3) it rarely comes up on this board or any other.

Does anybody partake in this pleasure? Any ladies adept at administering? Is this worth seeking out?

 

[IWillDoIt]

Based on my internet research, this seems to be a real thing, but 1) I haven't experienced it, 2) it never seems to come up in conversations with friends (even when discussing other sexual joys) and 3) it rarely comes up on this board or any other.

Does anybody partake in this pleasure? Any ladies adept at administering? Is this worth seeking out?

I've had one recently and it was the bomb. But it's only great if the massager is experienced, like this last one was. WOW, what a load I blew!!

 

[followmenow6969]

I've had one recently and it was the bomb. But it's only great if the massager is experienced, like this last one was. WOW, what a load I blew!!

We agree..... Do it ...

 

[MikeyRam]

Do them all the time, some of the best orgasms are a result. The wife wants to perform one on me soon. Can't wait

 

[Neogeokt]

Hmm. How did you figure this out? Trial and error?

 

[MikeyRam]

Hmm. How did you figure this out? Trial and error?

You got it. In my earlier stages, I knew I would gain an even harder erection when I was playing with the exterior of my rear. Eventually I would slip in a finger or two. Later I read up and discovered prostate massages and tried it out. After a few attempts I had the best orgasm to that date.

Now it's a common practice on those long lazy days.

 

[IWillDoIt]

Hmm. How did you figure this out? Trial and error?

It's kind of like finding anything else. You find "the spot" after persistent looking (well, feeling). Then you experiment with pressures and number of fingers or eventually different objects made for that purpose. I have heard from some the Anaeros toy has been a short-cut for a lot of guys-- though I personally haven't used one--others might want to weigh in.. At any rate: It is a REAL TREASURE to find! And the search is fun too.

 

[followmenow6969]

Do them all the time, some of the best orgasms are a result. The wife wants to perform one on me soon. Can't wait

Let her you won't be disappointed

 

[ejredlady]

I did this while stroking my ex. He loved it! I didn't do it every time, usually as part of a long, slow, sensual massage. Let's just say some happy endings were happier than others!

 

[elite2013]

Based on my internet research, this seems to be a real thing, but 1) I haven't experienced it, 2) it never seems to come up in conversations with friends (even when discussing other sexual joys) and 3) it rarely comes up on this board or any other.

Does anybody partake in this pleasure? Any ladies adept at administering? Is this worth seeking out?

Never had it done to me but I have used an aneros and it was amazing sometimes but not others. If you get the chance for your woman to massage your p spot for you then do it - and remember; practice makes perfect

 

[Neogeokt]

Thank you for the advice. I may have my lady friend do some exploring. With reciprocation, of course. Since I'll lose momentum if she succeeds, I'll probably offer a thorough rim job to her, and then see what she can find on my end.

 

[barley13]

prostate pleasure

once you feel the pleasure of your prostate buzzing away you`ll never want to stop.Ive used the aneros hylix with some good results but the best was when I used my gf we vibe on myself while doing some solo play.Intense pleasure from thiis little toy gave me quiet a ride one afternoon.I placed a condem over the we vibe and tied a knot in the end and wrapped a silk ribbon around the bowed end of the vibe then pushed the 2 ends of the vibe together and after lubing up squated over the vibe and pushed both ends into my eager hole and it disappeared down around my p spot.the ribbon hangs out you ass so you can retrieve the toy when finished.i had at least 4 super o`s doing this.incredible experience

 

[djyak]

I've been thinking of trying this out on hubby. Just not sure how to do it and all, but I think he'd be up for it.

Tifani

 

[Mrdarkblueeyes]

Had a gf finger me once (with a condom on her finger) while I masturbated; great orgasm. However, this was long before I ever had of prostate massage, which leads me to ask what I hope will not be a vulgar question: should the man “prepare" first, if he's wanting a female to help?

 

[busaguy]

my fiance does this to me. my advice to any man even curious of prostate stimulation: try it already!

I have had my biggest orgasms from prostate massage. we haven't quite gotten to the point where I can orgasm JUST from prostate stimulation, but it's been real close. my biggest and best orgasm was when we were in a 69, and she was using our prostate massager on me while sucking. it was so intense my legs shook uncontrollably, and I swear I nearly blacked out. I've only seen women's legs shake like that when they have giant o's. it's hard to describe, but the orgasms I get from prostate stimulation are twice as big and last much much longer. it's incredible once you get the hang of it.

as far as preparing, use the restroom, then I suggest cleaning up with wet wipes and a shower. don't try to do anything like an enema or anything else to clean the inside, because you'll want the natural mucous there to act as lube (in addition to lots of high quality anal lube).

I also suggest looking around in your area if there are any "adult sex ed" places. in my town there is a great adult book store that offers various educational classes ranging from oral sex classes, tantric sex classes, sensual massage, and lots of others, including anal sex. we went to the anal class to get tips on how to make anal more enjoyable for her, and the instructor started talking about the prostate as well, so we decided to give it a try. we also picked up a lot of great tips to make it all go smoothly back there, including relaxation and massage techniques to do before just jamming something up there.

 

[vegasflasher]

Not to take away from the original subject of this subject, but can anyone enlighten me on the tantric? sex??

 

[Miss_Pihkal]

Had a gf finger me once (with a condom on her finger) while I masturbated; great orgasm. However, this was long before I ever had of prostate massage, which leads me to ask what I hope will not be a vulgar question: should the man “prepare" first, if he's wanting a female to help?

I only got to massage a guy's prostate twice so far, I'd love to do it again. So far I've always worn gloves, so preparation was not necessary for me personally, I'd be hesitant to do it without gloves even if there was preparation though. Does this answer help?

 

[Nataliefun41]

I have done this to more than one guy. It is very real and very erotic.

 

[djyak]

We'll soon find out how this goes, just ordered him a new anal toy. An Aneros? Think I have that right.

Tifani

 

[Mrdarkblueeyes]

I only got to massage a guy's prostate twice so far, I'd love to do it again. So far I've always worn gloves, so preparation was not necessary for me personally, I'd be hesitant to do it without gloves even if there was preparation though. Does this answer help?

Yes, thanks!

 

[NaturistLouise]

Lubricated Finger

A lubed finger is all you need. Hubby has always liked me to play with his ass, outside, anyplace inside and especially, massaging the prostrate area. it always makes him really hard. Don't get too hung up on clean up. Soap and water always works.

 

[Neogeokt]

A lubed finger is all you need. Hubby has always liked me to play with his ass, outside, anyplace inside and especially, massaging the prostrate area. it always makes him really hard. Don't get too hung up on clean up. Soap and water always works.

How did it start? Were you curious or was he curious? This subject is so interesting to me because it seems like a secret of the male body that few men ever experience.

 

[MooFloss]

I had never attempted this on a man before but was feeling curious so told my partner and he was all up for it. Amazingly I found the spot straight away and he became a shivering emotional mess and said it was the best and most intense orgasm of his life.

I loved it.. I now bring it in to when I'm feeling dominant because I know how vulnerable it makes him

 

[NaturistLouise]

Exploration

How did it start? Were you curious or was he curious? This subject is so interesting to me because it seems like a secret of the male body that few men ever experience.

We started out gently on the outside, then on the inside. Anal play does little for me but it excites hubby so we continued and it is a regular part of the sex routine.

 

[Woolmohair]

I have had fingers and a variety of toys, including the Aneros, in my posterior parts. It's like being electrocuted, the intensity is that high. I think a lot of men are afraid to let a woman into him, for a number of reasons. It is wildly intense. Anal play has haunted many of my fantasies. A man owes it to himself to experience such pleasure and hopefully give pleasure to whomever is administering the treatment.