Prostate Massage

[adambom]

Yes!

Had a gf finger me once (with a condom on her finger) while I masturbated; great orgasm. However, this was long before I ever had of prostate massage, which leads me to ask what I hope will not be a vulgar question: should the man “prepare" first, if he's wanting a female to help?

You should absolutely prepare for this activity. At least one, preferably two enemas. Then a shower. You will enjoy this immensely if you're both into it. Good luck & have fun!

 

[djyak]

So I got him the Aneros toy. Now I must need to try it on him. I have no idea how to use it, but it should be interesting. Any ideas?

Tifani

 

[kitteny]

I'd be willing to do anything like this if it works, but doesn't think only work for like a few guys?

 

[jakereeder22]

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[Ngata]

In my experience you don't need to prefer too much - go to the toilet, take a shower and make sure you're super clean and suggest she uses a condom over her finger(s) or a latex glove.
A woman's fingers are always superior to a toy in my view. Relax and enjoy the ride

 

[CBM514]

I'd be willing to do anything like this if it works, but doesn't think only work for like a few guys?

It will work on any guy willing to relax and try it...

 

[djyak]

Hubby loves when I use the Aneros on him now. He loves after I insert it, sucking his cock at the same time. He shakes all over with his orgasms.

Tifani

 

[massageguy1]

I dunno...

It will work on any guy willing to relax and try it...

Everyone's different - it's not like a technique for starting a car, that's guaranteed to 'work.'

My nipples are nearly numb, and even sting when played with. No one technique is guaranteed to work there. I'm GLAD I discovered anal play and prostate stimulation early though.

The potential rewards are great - I think almost everyone ought to try it. Especially if your partner is into trying...

 

[kelloveslit]

Hubby loves when I use the Aneros on him now. He loves after I insert it, sucking his cock at the same time. He shakes all over with his orgasms.

Tifani

Yep, that sounds familiar! Hub goes crazy when I'm sucking him and playing w his prostate. And I love doing it to him!

 

[CBM514]

Yep, that sounds familiar! Hub goes crazy when I'm sucking him and playing w his prostate. And I love doing it to him!

Oral and anal at the same time is mind blowing!!

Everyone's different - it's not like a technique for starting a car, that's guaranteed to 'work.'

My nipples are nearly numb, and even sting when played with. No one technique is guaranteed to work there. I'm GLAD I discovered anal play and prostate stimulation early though.

The potential rewards are great - I think almost everyone ought to try it. Especially if your partner is into trying...

I'll stipulate that everyone is different, but if the person is open to try it, a vibe or properly placed finger on a prostate will have the same effect...I'm sure each of us have our unique "techniques" that we prefer...

 

[tammyw]

So I got him the Aneros toy. Now I must need to try it on him. I have no idea how to use it, but it should be interesting. Any ideas?

Tifani

Did you ever end up trying this? If you did I would love to have you share your experience on my thread http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1010930

Some other people have made some comments and recommendations about the Aneros toys and some others on another thread I started and they got me curious. I have special plans for my husband and my first time with prostate stimulation this weekend and I am very nervous and excited about trying it.

 

[waldo0321]

Absolutely love being on the receiving end.

 

[Acetabulum]

It's a trip

So i've been playing on and off with prostate massage for a few years. I have bought a few toys and had limited success with most of them. Here's what i do know.

The key to this, and pretty much anything anal, is prep.

You are either going to have to empty your bowels or take an enema before you play. These actions are not always that sexy, unless you're into that. And i am not.

Getting use to the penetration. I'm ok with a finger, but honestly some of the toys out there have put me in a world of hurt due to their girth. Being focused only on the fact that your sphincter hurts will detract from the prostate stimulation. Even with exceptional lube and time, some things are just too damn big. The geisha plug was one of them that i really enjoyed once i got it in, but removal after an orgasm was kind of brutal. You should probably spend some time just getting your partner to the right place as far as toy or finger girth that you will be playing with.

Getting the angle right is another trick. If you're playing alone, trying to get the angle correct or even figure out which way the dildo is pointed (in the case of the curved ones) is a trick. How deep to penetrate, how hard to press upward, and a ton of experimental geometry go into this. I wish I could tell you the formula, but it seems to be kind of hit and miss. If your partner is into this....well lucky fucking you! Lol... i'm sorry i might just be a bit jealous.

Being flexible and patient. I've had some wicked wrist cramps trying to get the toys positioned just right. And often i find that i get bored while trying to find that specific spot. Just getting around the region of your prostate is going to provide a new stimulus. Some describe it as pleasure, others as pressure, and others hate it all together. To me it's a kind of pleasure/pressure odd sensation. It feels like pressure from my bladder while my cock pulses and somewhere deep inside me throbs.

This sensory load often leads to me forgetting about looking for the perfect angle/spot and just jerking off. The orgasm with something penetrating you is a little different than the normal one. You should try having an orgasm with a small plug in your ass. Your pelvic floor will contract and it will make a drawing/pulling motion to try and take the plug deeper. (This was really weird the first time i felt it, good, but weird. That is why you should always use toys with a flange or at least ones designed for anal. Having this new orgasm and then feeling a toy disappear inside of you will probably taint your experience. I digress.) SO if you orgasm with something near/touching your prostate, your contractions will cause it to tap your prostate while you orgasm. This is kind of a mind bender.

Your pelvic floor. Is kind of a weird setup. But to understand the most base principles of it for sex type stuffs, you need to know how to contract it. A pelvic floor contraction is best explained by this odd idea, try and pull up your own testicles by using the muscles of your groin/anus area. It will be kind of like pinching off a turd. Gentlemen if you don't know what we're talking about, ask your female partner about Kegel exercises. They can be done by both genders and are EXCELLENT for both genders to do.


The toys: My aneros was a welcome addition as it is probably the most effective and least painful of them (in most respects) The perineum tab that it has is really poorly placed for my body, and it is moreso sharp than anything else. But as soon as you work it in and give yourself a few pelvic floor contractions, it will help you locate your prostate. Or give you at least a general idea. I was surprised at the angle you have to get to. Which makes sense why other toys are such wrist breakers in trying to get to the exact spot. So it gave me the blueprint, and i spent time trying to figure out how to get there with other toys.

I have been able to successfully milk myself a few times. It's downright odd feeling in a good way. Your cock drools pre-ejaculate. This is not overtly as pleasuring as an orgasm, but it does feel very good.

As for the hands free orgasm...no such luck on my part. I've been close a few times. But I have also gotten really bored. The whole thing is kind of messy. You're covered in lube. You've got things in your ass. And you're busy not touching the thing that has always been REALLY good at getting you off... I'm bored.

So there is my half hearted attempt at a walk through. I'm learning more every day, but it's still kind of hit and miss (no wonder they call it the g-spot)

Good luck all.

 

[jakereeder22]

Nice Walkthrough...

So i've been playing on and off with prostate massage for a few years. I have bought a few toys and had limited success with most of them. Here's what i do know.

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[Sistinas74]

This is my favorite to use when masturbating or fucking my wife, it gives me the most intense orgasms and I feel like I am cumming forever! It also makes me cum a lot more than when I don't use it. I recommend this one to anyone looking to bring your orgasms to the next level, this is a must have. http://www.wikkidvibes.com/products/naughty-boy-anal-vibrator

 

[Jason39]

Tried it

The threads about this got me interested. I have tried a few other anal toys during sex in the past with positive results. I generally cum faster, and harder with a plug in...but it isn't something I have ever added into my routine. My wife isn't really into it (she didn't say it...but I could tell), and we have enough fun without.

So anyway, after reading threads on here, and then researching on a few sites, watching some videos etc, it got me intrigued. I check our local sex shop (I have bought online before...but yeah...patience isn't a virtue I have), and they didn't have the Aneros...but they had something called the Jester PE vibe....which is much the same thing...but can vibrate as well. It was only around $30....so I figured I'd give it a try and if it didn't work I could just get the Aneros thing online.

I tried it out solo btw, not involving my wife at this point, so I could take my time and relax and see how it works first. I did load up the Cock Hero video to watch, but didn't plan on actually touching my cock.

Since I have put other things in my bum (not a ton, and not recently, but I've done it before), that part was not a problem at all. I put lube on me, and lube on it..and it slipped right in with no problem.

Initially it felt ok...but nothing incredible...if I tightened my muscles I could feel it push against me inside a bit, but I really don't feel any kind of prostate (I've tried to find my own with no luck..and never had a doctor explore down there..so yeah..no clue where mine is. Doesn't seem to be right inside towards my balls at least....cause I can't feel anything with a finger).

Anyway..wherever it is, I guess the toy does hit it...because it did increase my sexual awareness after a bit. Not until I actually started to get arroused though did I feel anything. So....for future guys trying this, I would suggest getting aroused first and then inserting it as at first I wasn't very impressed. After watching the video for a bit though and clenching and unclenching my muscles it started to feel good (still no clue if it's hittng my prostate though, I didn't have any loads of precum or anything like I hear from others).

I did start to really want to touch my cock though...and get turned on more, so...I turned on the vibe part (that requires you to actually pull it out with this toy..since you turn on the vibe by turning the top basically 180 degrees).

After putting it back in, I started to really feel it...causing me to constantly squirm and thrust. It was a steady pleasurable feeling..that kept building up. I didn't have any kind of whole body orgasm so far...but I got harder and harder even without touching myself (although I eventually started to stroke slowly).

It should be mentioned that the feeling was intense enough at this point that I was no longer even looking at my computer screen and instead just writhing around on my bed.

I have used the cock hero thing to help build up stamina..and i'm quite good at not going to fast etc at this point...so I only slowly stroked myself...but even with such minor stimulation (something that would not even come close to making me cum normally), I eventually couldn't hold it any longer and came quite hard. It didn't almost make me pass out or anything, but I'd say it was something on the level of having edged/stroked myself for an hour or more, in less then 15 minutes all together, and that was my first time.

Next time I will try to avoid stimulating my cock at least after getting initially turned on. I think that was part of the problem this time, is I didn't do any cock stimulation initially so my body was not turned on even with the video. Next time I'll start off stimulated and then avoid touching my cock for as long as possible.

Since I was constantly thrusting (and even my right leg was kinda going up and down while lying on my side constantly), I can see how this could be including in sex with your partner as well quite easily...with the only minor problem being that at least for now...any stimulation of the cock seems to end things too quickly (not as much control as normal).

Over all I think the first try with this toy went quite well. I did no prepping before hand (no enema etc), just used the restroom like normal first, and had no mess. I think it doesn't go in that far and anytime you ever have anything in that area you'll feel like you need to use the restroom anyway.

I think I could have kept going btw, witch is something I have not done much in many years. When I was 19 I could go over and over with little to no time in between but since hitting 30 or so, I usually need a break..and loose almost all if not all sexual desire..after cumming. In this case, I still felt aroused after cumming and might have continued if I had more time (I had put my wife into the pool for physical therapy before trying this...so i had to go get her out when I was done lol).

I may still get the Aneros one as well eventually...probably the Proplasm one (since I have read some reviews on it and it sounds like it may lead to a different experience).

Oh, I should mention that I usually don't like vibration at all. In fact, I don't even like using vibrators on my wife (even for back massage....I do it...but I don't like it. I hate how vibration makes me feel). In this case though, it actually felt quite good. I have a bit of soreness i'd say, almost like a deep throb...in my back..which I usually get after using a vibration device (even just h olding one in my hand) so that is still not fun, but the actual vibration when I was using the device felt quite good...which is a first for me.

Anyway, I'd certainly recommend using something like this if your a guy, or suggesting it for your guy to try. It felt very safe as there is absolutely no way for something like this to slip inside (Something I'm a bit worried about even with many plugs...we have one...but when I contract, especially when cumming, it feels like the whole thing is going to go inside me as my muscles pull on it. The base isn't large enough, and is soft plastic/jell so it feels like it could just pop in. That kinda pulls me out of the whole experience as I'm too worried about it. In this toys case though, no worried at all about it sliding in (that has never happened to me, but it sure makes me nervous!!).

 

[Nikonglass]

Kinda fits in this category. Had my nice and comfy glass plug in today don't mind the razor burn, missed a shave this morning now i have to suffer lol

 

[massageguy1]

Contradicting yourself...

"I'll stipulate that everyone is different, but if the person is open to try it, a vibe or properly placed finger on a prostate will have the same effect..."

No, it won't. That's what 'everyone is different' means.

The rewards are great - I hope everyone tries it, and that it's as much fun for them as it i for me. But I know it won't be for everyone...

 

[elite2013]

This is my favorite to use when masturbating or fucking my wife, it gives me the most intense orgasms and I feel like I am cumming forever! It also makes me cum a lot more than when I don't use it. I recommend this one to anyone looking to bring your orgasms to the next level, this is a must have. http://www.wikkidvibes.com/products/naughty-boy-anal-vibrator

I had one of those. Never did anything for me and there was no way it would stay in place without sitting on the damn thing. The noise was a distraction too. I got rid of it. The Aneros is my recommendation, but it does take practice. A great benefit is the increase in strength through repeated use.

 

[elite2013]

So I got him the Aneros toy. Now I must need to try it on him. I have no idea how to use it, but it should be interesting. Any ideas?

Tifani

This:https://www.aneros.com/forum/

and this: http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills

 

[awired50]

Experiences

http://www.literotica.com/s/new-world-of-prostate-play

 

[awired50]

http://www.master-your-g-spot.com/prostate_masturbation.html:)