TonyF862
Getting there...
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Good for you all! Many marriages could not have survived this. Marriage is SO much more than sex, and the fact that you all found an arrangement that works for you is great. Many marriages have been destroyed, unnecessarily IMO, because couples couldn’t get real about their needs.I know our situation seems a bit unorthodox. But that’s just how it happened organically. Years ago my wife cheated on me. It almost ruined us. But we got past it and moved on. But shortly after I actually started becoming aroused by her tryst. I started fantasizing about it and secretly hoped she would do it again. When she did cheat again, she confessed. It was at that time I confessed my desires for her with other men. So we had a long talk. And we came to the conclusion as a couple we would enter the hotwife lifestyle.
It’s not like my wife said “I’m going to fuck other men and you’re going to remain faithful!”