I was with my girlfriend, six months running, and I asked if I could tie her up. And she turned me down. Now, my old girlfriend loved to be tied up. And I feel like I'm going to explode if I don't get to see my lovely blonde tied up and gagged for me to have fun with. 
What should I do?
She seemed really turned off by the idea. And we've been fairly open with all other aspects, including using handcuffs. So it's not a trust issue.

What should I do?
She seemed really turned off by the idea. And we've been fairly open with all other aspects, including using handcuffs. So it's not a trust issue.