Pregnancy through Anal?

[Quimmy]

Sorry if this has been brought up before...

Does anyone know the statistics of getting pregnant through anal sex? With and without a condom?

I have heard sperm left in the rectum can make its way to the vagina, on occasion. I haven't cummed in my girlfriend yet, because I am worried, as we aren't using any birth control. It's still enjoyable for us without me cumming, but we are interested in going the whole way.

Somehow I find it difficult to believe that the sperm can swim through 7 inches of lower intestine filled with toxic shit, and find their way to the vagina. But I hate the thought of any risk!

Oh, her hymen is intact, if that changes anything.

 

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[Quimmy]

No, I'm not kidding. Although if this is absolutely ridiculous to ponder, I'd be very glad. Call me paranoid.

http://www.avert.org/faqpreg.htm#q2

That seems to say no, but then says it's not a good contraceptive technique.

A lot of the websites seem to be contradictory, mostly saying "No, there's no chance since the intestines don't connect with the sexual organs [duh!] but there is a chance that sperm comes out and into contact with the vagina." The latter is the part I was curious about. I mean, if I cum in her and we make sure any excess sperm is wiped off, is it safe? I've heard sperm can stay alive for 4 days.

I am just curious about this... There'll always be a bit of risk involved in sex.

 

[marksgirl]

I think that if you run to the shower and do a quick clean up all will be fine. I've never ever heard of anyone getting pregnant while doing anal sex myself. I've been around for awhile btw. I also agree with EE on the condom thing, just a good idea.

 

[Quimmy]

Yeah, condoms are fine by me. I mean they kill two birds with one stone. Firstly, the disease factor is diminished. Secondly, I can't feel a thing with one on, so no sperm.

Hey, and maybe the third bird is that penises aren't ribbed for her pleasure.

 

[marksgirl]

Sounds like you might need to do a little condom exploring if you can't feel anything while wearing one. Ribbed or not makes no difference.

 

[Quimmy]

Ah, it's not the condoms, really. I've tried a few. I can't feel much without one, anyways. I guess I'm just the insensitive type.

A shower is a good idea, though.

 

[peachykeen]

if you can't feel anything, you are using the wrong brand and/or not using them properly. Are you applying lube before putting the condom on? Try the new, thinner urethane ones and don't forget to lube, my boy.

 

[MR.GGG]

If you "can't feel anything" especially during anal sex you have the WRONG lube tube dude.

Find the one what sez KY and NOT the one with NOVACAINE of the side, K?

As far as getting preggers...? Like the eminent EM saith, "You're kidding, right?"

Put another way...if there was a danger of that she'd be a) screaming a whole lot and b) dead of perintentitis long before the little blue strip turned pink.

K?

 

[Quimmy]

Your humour is reassuring.

And I've tried KY, Astoglide and even spit a few times. Ok, admittedly I don't feel 'nothing' but I'd wear us both out before I came. This has nothing to do with anal sex. It's similar with oral sex, which produces almost no sensation. I guess I'm just insensitive. I also have a somewhat high pain tolerance. I think the two are corelated. Oh well, some people deal with premature ejaculation; I just happen to be on the other end of the spectrum.

 

[SexyChele]

I wouldn't rule out the idea that, once you've orgasmed, and your g/f is laying on her stomach (or on her hands and knees), and if cum came out of her rectum, and it ran over the entrance of her vagina, then yes, there is a possiblity of pregnancy. I personally don't know of anyone who got pregnant from anal sex, but then, I don't know of anyone with kids who engage strictly in anal sex.

Just curious, as it seems the only factor you're concerned about it pregnancy, why doesn't your g/f just go on the pill? Her virginity stays intact and you can cum all you want. Only have to worry about STDs and dying and stuff, but at least she won't get preganant. (Wait, there is a slight chance the pill could fail, right?)

 

[Quimmy]

Ah yes, we're trying to find a suitable pill, but nothing has worked thus far. You know how it is... some take effect, some have terrible side effects, or if you're lucky, you find one that does the job. And yeah, I suppose there is a chance the pill could fail. There was an excellent thread here on contraceptives; I believe the pill was around 95%.

I don't want to sound like an anal sex maniac here... We enjoy it occasionally, but this pregnancy thing came up recently in one of our talks and I was just curious about its validity.

Your responses are mostly in line with what I thought before. Thank you for them all.

 

[MR.GGG]

QUIMMY...just a guess dude but lay off thumpin your thingy prior to having sex with the SO. Most guys who masturbate a lot (like ALL of us) have to teach themselves to react orgasm wise to other stimuli such as a warm wet mouth and swabbing tongues. When you whack yo willy you are fanatsizing EXACTLY what turns you on and probably, if watched by anybody, subject to a cruelty to small beasties charge - most guys thumb the beejeezuz out of it and then wonder why not too much happens when the physical stimulas of having gentle sex with a woman just doesn't produce the desired effect.

Do not have an orgasm for a day or two (if that wouldn't make you go insane) and you'll be way more sensitive, you're nuts will be nearing the boiling point and it should work. You have to kinda "re-program" your brain to do that. After that it shouldn't be an issue.

Otherwise she's gonna have a bum hole the size of the Holland Tunnel ... ...humpittyhumpittyhumpitty *gritting teeth* " Are you CLOSE yet?.... my ass is getting sore...hunny??? It's NOVEMBER already!!"

Just an idea based on the BTDT theory.

 

[Quimmy]

*blushes*

That was my theory, too, Mr.GGG.

It's similar to when women get addicted to a vibrator.

 

[MR.GGG]

Sooo True!


BTW has naybody tried the TUBA Technique for dealing with that?

Women get addicted to the bzzzzzz, right? Tongue lash her until she is almost there but can't quite make it because NO BZZZZZZZ.

Purse yo lips and make like Satchmo. Play the STAR SPANGLED by buzzing your lips together RIGHT ON HER CLITTY and WHAAAAMO. Ya just need a good set of lungs for that. But damn if it don't work. Try it. Try different tunes. Surf City. Chopin's 4th. Whatever she "likes."

 

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[Quimmy]

I love my vibe, but wouldnt say Ive ever been addicted to it. Id say oral sex and intercourse is 10 times better then a vibe.

Different strokes for different folks, would be the apt addage here.

Actually if I take myself as an example (thank you, self): I have probably masturbated like 2 000 times, compared to a few dozen "real" sexual encounters. It isn't surprising that my body could get way too used to a certain kind of stimulation.

 

[SexyChele]

Hmmm, I wonder who said the exact same thing?

Yup, you did. Just expanding on it a bit. Hope ya don't mind.

 

[MR.GGG]

Yup.

GAWD! She's smart.

*mumble mumble* getting out map and measuring distance from the center of the known galaxy (Toronto) to Cornfed Cutieville, Iowa...

Em , you still haven't said whether the GSpot thingy worked(s) for you. Don't tell me you haven't had any for almost as long as me...

 

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Re: Yup.

 

[kay1eigh]

The only way she can get pregnant is if if leaks out and into her vagina, but there is no possible way for it to travel through intestings and stuff. I think it would be dead by then anyway. I'm not sure about that but the only way you can get pregnant is if sperm gets into the vagina. Which means there is no way for it to get through the intestines and stuff, it just dosen't happen.

 

[Quimmy]

Well, geez, I was never suggesting that it would go through the intestines. That is silly.

I was just picturing the vaginal fluids and sweat produced during anal sex providing an easy conduit from the anus to the vagina. I mean, just because you don't see white slime doesn't mean there isn't spermazota swimming through the film of fluid.

 

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[Quimmy]

I was referring to a thin film of her sweat in between her anus and vagina. Nothing unnatural or even sexual related.