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chrisw316

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Hello im very concerned ive had the CID (UK Police) at my door today ......

They showed up at the house i share with my girlfriend and her nine year old daughter.

Two officers showed up this afternoon and informed me that they were there to ask me a few questions regarding child protection, long story short i had been a member of a "swingers" website where people meet for sex basically, and they had evidence that i had engaged in sexual fantasy roleplay "chat"/"e mails" with a woman that in some way involved underage children (the roleplay in question as i recall it involved me breaking into her house and having rough sex with her and me not caring who was in the house kids etc....and as part of the roleplay being the "burglar" i wouldnt care if her kids were in the next room and if they were banging on the door to get in etc)....all of which i may add was complete fantasy and was never ever going to happen it as just cyber sex....no pictures of any children were ever swapped etc etc....it was just sex chat.

At first the two officers asked me questions infront of my girlfriend who as you can imagine got very very upset hearing these questions... and very embarrassing for me.

Then they asked to speak to my girlfriend on her own and then me on my own, we were informed that social services would be around the same day (today) and they would speak to my girlfriend and see if there was any risk to her daughter.

i was told i was not being charged with anything and they were just collecting more information...



Then they left.... i went for a walk to clear my head as i was very shocked and paniced by these events.....i called a 24 hour solicitor as i take this kind of investigation very very serious ....while on my walk my girlfriend had a call from the social services to say they could not attend and meet with her today as something had come up "an emergency" and it would probably Monday they would call round ...(for officals such as the police and social services to think a child maybe in danger one minute and then not be that bother the next leaves me speechless).

I have voluntarily gone to stay with my mum who lives 90 miles away as to make sure that social services know that my girlfriends daughter is safe in that house (which she would be if i were there but i want to do things right )

where do i go from here my life has been turned upside down today all because of some cyber sex chat that was abit hardcore....(and im in no way defending it but as far as i was aware fantasy is just that ...fantasy).

If you can help advise me i would be so greatful !!!!!

Chris (Yorkshire UK)
 
chrisw316 said:
Hello im very concerned ive had the CID (UK Police) at my door today ......

They showed up at the house i share with my girlfriend and her nine year old daughter.

Two officers showed up this afternoon and informed me that they were there to ask me a few questions regarding child protection, long story short i had been a member of a "swingers" website where people meet for sex basically, and they had evidence that i had engaged in sexual fantasy roleplay "chat"/"e mails" with a woman that in some way involved underage children (the roleplay in question as i recall it involved me breaking into her house and having rough sex with her and me not caring who was in the house kids etc....and as part of the roleplay being the "burglar" i wouldnt care if her kids were in the next room and if they were banging on the door to get in etc)....all of which i may add was complete fantasy and was never ever going to happen it as just cyber sex....no pictures of any children were ever swapped etc etc....it was just sex chat.

At first the two officers asked me questions infront of my girlfriend who as you can imagine got very very upset hearing these questions... and very embarrassing for me.

Then they asked to speak to my girlfriend on her own and then me on my own, we were informed that social services would be around the same day (today) and they would speak to my girlfriend and see if there was any risk to her daughter.

i was told i was not being charged with anything and they were just collecting more information...



Then they left.... i went for a walk to clear my head as i was very shocked and paniced by these events.....i called a 24 hour solicitor as i take this kind of investigation very very serious ....while on my walk my girlfriend had a call from the social services to say they could not attend and meet with her today as something had come up "an emergency" and it would probably Monday they would call round ...(for officals such as the police and social services to think a child maybe in danger one minute and then not be that bother the next leaves me speechless).

I have voluntarily gone to stay with my mum who lives 90 miles away as to make sure that social services know that my girlfriends daughter is safe in that house (which she would be if i were there but i want to do things right )

where do i go from here my life has been turned upside down today all because of some cyber sex chat that was abit hardcore....(and im in no way defending it but as far as i was aware fantasy is just that ...fantasy).

If you can help advise me i would be so greatful !!!!!

Chris (Yorkshire UK)
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It's my job, that's why.
 
 
As we say in the US, You in a heap o' trouble!
 
im no kiddy fiddler....i i was they would have arrested me today.....they are basing these allegations on a private chat/email.......fanasty-roleplay.....

i would not ...have not and will never hurt a child in my life...
 
chrisw316 said:
im no kiddy fiddler....i i was they would have arrested me today.....they are basing these allegations on a private chat/email.......fanasty-roleplay.....

i would not ...have not and will never hurt a child in my life...
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That's not what you told me in that private conversation we had.

But that was private, and I should respect that.

So I won't repeat anything you told about what you did with minors.
 
chrisw316 said:
im no kiddy fiddler....i i was they would have arrested me today.....they are basing these allegations on a private chat/email.......fanasty-roleplay.....

i would not ...have not and will never hurt a child in my life...
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so, you got set up? or are these chat sessions public where any tom dick or harry can see? or is it the UK can see anything now without you knowing it?
 
ivantheterrible said:
so, you got set up? or are these chat sessions public where any tom dick or harry can see? or is it the UK can see anything now without you knowing it?
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as far as i know these chat sessions were one on one on a swingers site based in the uk.

its a nightmare...were the roleplays a bit distasteful? maybe....but i never ever once said i would hurt...or plan on hurting a child in any way shape or form.....

im at my wits end!!!
 
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Find a lawyer (or UK equivalent) and a therapist (or eqivalent). Sounds like they would give the best support and advice.
 
bux_fan said:
Find a lawyer (or UK equivalent) and a therapist (or eqivalent). Sounds like they would give the best support and advice.
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Im in the process of speaking to a legal rep and he says the fact that they didnt arrest me or seize my lap top is a good sign...
 
chrisw316 said:
Hello im very concerned ive had the CID (UK Police) at my door today ......

They showed up at the house i share with my girlfriend and her nine year old daughter.

Two officers showed up this afternoon and informed me that they were there to ask me a few questions regarding child protection, long story short i had been a member of a "swingers" website where people meet for sex basically, and they had evidence that i had engaged in sexual fantasy roleplay "chat"/"e mails" with a woman that in some way involved underage children (the roleplay in question as i recall it involved me breaking into her house and having rough sex with her and me not caring who was in the house kids etc....and as part of the roleplay being the "burglar" i wouldnt care if her kids were in the next room and if they were banging on the door to get in etc)....all of which i may add was complete fantasy and was never ever going to happen it as just cyber sex....no pictures of any children were ever swapped etc etc....it was just sex chat.

At first the two officers asked me questions infront of my girlfriend who as you can imagine got very very upset hearing these questions... and very embarrassing for me.

Then they asked to speak to my girlfriend on her own and then me on my own, we were informed that social services would be around the same day (today) and they would speak to my girlfriend and see if there was any risk to her daughter.

i was told i was not being charged with anything and they were just collecting more information...



Then they left.... i went for a walk to clear my head as i was very shocked and paniced by these events.....i called a 24 hour solicitor as i take this kind of investigation very very serious ....while on my walk my girlfriend had a call from the social services to say they could not attend and meet with her today as something had come up "an emergency" and it would probably Monday they would call round ...(for officals such as the police and social services to think a child maybe in danger one minute and then not be that bother the next leaves me speechless).

I have voluntarily gone to stay with my mum who lives 90 miles away as to make sure that social services know that my girlfriends daughter is safe in that house (which she would be if i were there but i want to do things right )

where do i go from here my life has been turned upside down today all because of some cyber sex chat that was abit hardcore....(and im in no way defending it but as far as i was aware fantasy is just that ...fantasy).

If you can help advise me i would be so greatful !!!!!

Chris (Yorkshire UK)
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Not familiar with UK laws. If you lived in the US, I would say your gf has an ex-husband somewhere very unhappy you and she are living together. And possibly ratted you out to the authorities. Here, that can cause problems with child services.
 
chrisw316 said:
im 30 the woman i was talking to was in her 40s....i have never talked about sex to a minor !
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If indeed you are telling the truth, the authorities could be tracking you now. This is not a kiddie porn site, but it is not a good idea to be visiting any adult website since you are already under heavy scrutiny.

This is not a good place for such advice. Then again, that is just my opinion.
 
Johnny_Ray_Wilson said:
If indeed you are telling the truth, the authorities could be tracking you now. This is not a kiddie porn site, but it is not a good idea to be visiting any adult website since you are already under heavy scrutiny.

This is not a good place for such advice. Then again, that is just my opinion.
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Yeah i hear what you are saying and you have a good point im just in a desperate situation at the minute and need as much advice as i can get ive looked at countless sites on law etc but cant really find much ...
 
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