please advise...

[sean_koosa]

hi everyone,

I am a bit confused. I've had girlfriends in the past but lately I have been pleasuring myself to gay and bisexual porn. I am not attracted to guys at all, but when I am fucking or masturbating, I get real hard from thinking about cock fucking me or me sucking cock with the girl I am with. It's like a fantasy. Am I gay or bisexual or just a phase?

Please advise.
Thanks

 

[Nabokov]

I feel exactly the same way. Woman are the only sex where I want to have a commited relationship, but I'm open to the thought of sex with men. Ideally, I want sex with my woman and another man at the same time. For me, I think this makes me bisexual because I want to have sex with both sexes.

 

[Scepter]

In my own opinion, the only thing wrong with a cock is that it's attached to a man. Cocks are fascinating things,I mean I wouldn't mind some adventures with a hard cock, but I'm not at all attracted to men. So I guess that means I'm bi-curious.

The question is: Do you get turned on by a man's body or just the thought of sucking or fucking his cock?

 

[sean_koosa]

just the cock.

 

[BadBhoy]

Sean,

Cant help you - I'm in the same boat, don't find men (in the least) attractive but thinking of sucking cock or getting ass fucked is a major turn on.

Just wanted you to know your not alone.

Take care and good luck.

 

[Etoile]

Nobody on a message board can tell you what you really are, but...

I'd say you're not gay. You're probably not bi either. You're a straight guy with a lust for cock.

Society doesn't accept that, though - if you want cock, you must be gay, especially if it needs to be a real one and not your girlfriend strapping it on.

But you know what? Fuck society.

 

[gagginforit]

There's no law that says you have to label yourself. It's really common, there's tons of these threads started by guys who feel exactly the same way. It's up to you if you choose to do anything or not, you might love it, or it might be something better left just as a fantasy. The main thing is don't worry.

If you're really lucky maybe your gf would enjoy this side of you and do you with a strap on.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Relax and enjoy your fantasies. A lot more guys have fantasies about other men or cocks or whatever then they would ever admit. Enoy your mental images or porn. You may find you want more but cross that bridge when you get there

 

[slimchance]

i'm not attracted to guys either. i don't want hugging, kissing, or a lot of body contact. but i love to suck cock and get fucked. so if the guy has a nice dick i pay little attention to the rest of him. i don't care if he looks like lyle lovitt.