Oral Sex

[tn_8tiv]

Can anyone describe how they felt the first time a man orally stimulated their clit? As a man who loves to orally please a woman and feel them respond passionately (and wetly I must add), I wonder how they felt the first time. Did you feel a mind-boggling orgasm, were you turned off, or did you want more?

 

[SexyChele]

The very first time? I wasn't stimulated at all. Probably based on a couple of things: 1. my partner seemed to be doing because he felt he had to, but didn't really enjoy it, and 2. not feeling totally comfortable with my own body yet.

I think women are more self-conscious about their bodies being clean, and there are men out there who are vocal about the idea that they do not like the taste/smell of a woman. (Now, I know that all the guys at Lit just love eating pussy, but I think it's fair to say there is a fairly large percentage of men who don't) With these 2 things combined, it can make a woman's first encounter with oral sex a not very good one. At least it wasn't for me.

Actually, it took a number of years before I was totally comfortable with receiving oral sex (always like giving it, though), and another year or two before I experienced my first orgasm from it.

 

[lovetoread]

Its funny but I can remember the details of when that happened...

It happened when I was 16 in my best friends boyfriends room. No not with her boyfriend,just the room.

He was an older guy,26 I think, and I was in "love", at least for the moment. When he went down,I think I screamed...and then he gave me my very first orgasm and he could have asked me to do anything at that point.

I really should find him and thank him for that memory....

 

[tn_8tiv]

Thanks

Thanks for those who have replied. It makes us men who like to REALLY PLEASE a woman glad to know our efforts are not in vain.

I know that personally there is no such thing as a distasteful pussy. When my tongue is lashing at her aroused love button and my fingers are probing deeply into her hot, wet pussy, there is no sensation like it in the world...just to feel her pressing back against me, moaning passionately and knowing what pleasures lie ahead.

Being somewhat older, I wish I had found these pleasures earlier in life. When a woman has just experienced multiple orgasms and I hear her moan loudly for more, gives me great satisfaction as a man.

Let's hear more.

 

[wildrose69]

Now this is right up my alley....there is nothing more pleasurable than having a man giving oral sex to you not because he thinks he should...but because he really enjoys it....my first time was many years ago....and since then it has been the most enjoyable thing I can possibly imagine.....and finding out that I was mutiple orgasmic and at the "mouth and tongue" of an older gentleman..blew my mind!! So guys if you really want to please a woman....give her lots and lots of oral....believe me it makes a "pussy" cat out of most of us...of course I realize all women dont feel the same...but then they dont know what they are missing and this is from the "oldest" kid on the block!!!

 

[johnhalliwell]

I like to go down

My girlfriend is totally confused at why I enjoy going down on her so much... she doesn't complain, and I'm not stopping until she does (fat chance)... but she seems totally at odds as to understand why I would enjoy it so much... and she doesn't seem convinced by the fact that I enjoy making her cum that way... well it's that and the taste and the fact I think it's more sensual and personal ... but she seems to thinks that half an hour at a time is unnatural.... don't hear her saying that when she's on her 4th orgasm...

Should she just shut up and enjoy it?

 

[lovetoread]

Re: I like to go down

Should she just shut up and enjoy it?

Only if she is not telling you that she is too sensitive to touch. Cause let me tell ya, after awhile that little area is VERY sensitive.

 

[johnhalliwell]

Re: I like to go down

Only if she is not telling you that she is too sensitive to touch. Cause let me tell ya, after awhile that little area is VERY sensitive.

Don't worry - she's certainly a lot more experienced then me sexually (10 years more) and she's very vocal about what she enjoys and what she doesn't. It's not a question of her not enjoying it, but she just can't understand why I enjoy it as much as she does....

 

[tn_8tiv]

Now I'm curious

Now I'm curious. My current lover tells me when her clit is too sensitive to me to continue oral stimulation. I have continued to massage her g-spot and occasionally let my thumb massage just below her clit. That seems to really get her juices flowing. Do women really enjoy continued vaginal stimulation even when their clit is soooo sensitive?

 

[jinnysub]

multi orgasmic, but not orally multi

My husband won't perform oral sex. Period (or no period, to be honest).

It's been more than 25 years now since I last had someone go down on me, but the memories of those times are coming back more and more lately.

The one thing that I do remember negative about the whole thing was that my boyfriend seemed to think that he was going for some sort of "o's in a row" record. After one orgasm, my body wanted one thing, and that was something IN me, and as soon as possible. He wanted to see if he could make me cum again with his tongue, and that was the last thing I wanted right then.

I wanted him in me while the spasms were still there, and sometimes that was enough to put me over the top again, right then.

 

[Nicodemus]

Jennysub......

Sometimes it is just a matter of enjoying what your doing; in terms of your old boyfriend it sounds like it was a male 'ego' thing. I am sure this is a stupid question but, have you told your husband how much this interests you. Hopefully knowing that it is of interest to you would be enough to get him down there ocassionally. He may never be a cunnilinguist.....or is that cunning linguist....sorry, I digress... but at least the occasional round of oral would be one more way to pleasure eachother.

I am sorry to hear you are not having that need fulfilled. Hope that works out for you.

Nic,

 

[jinnysub]

After 25 years, I've tried everything. It's just not going to happen.

 

[Nicodemus]

That is a shame. I have the oposite problem......I am not allowed to perform oral! And me with an Oral Fetish and all......

Ya just never know about some people.

Nic

 

[espressolover]

oral sex...yesyesyes!!!

Mmmmm, love giving and receiving! There's almost nothing better....i love to feel a guy thrusting into my mouth, moaning under my tongue...love the DEEP orgasms I'm able to have with a talented oral lover...alas, I'm in a long distance relationship and I can't give to my guy like I'd love to. But the online stuff shows that we're very compatible in that area, thank god!!!...lol
Just can't wait to be with him!!!
Thanks for the great thread...
espressolover

 

[natashang]

i dont remember enjoying the first time a man licked my pussy. i guess that was because he didn't know what he was doing. years later i continued to fake having an orgasm, i know that i will never forget my first one though, it was unbelievable too. i guess what made me finally cum was that he was continuously licking me, he didn't stop. he told me later that me legs were holding his head so tightly he couldn't breath. i dont think that i have ever came as good as my first time.

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

I was 31 years old before I had an orgasm during oral sex. My ex was a lousy lover, very selfish in satisfying his needs and not mine, the old "get on, get off, get out". Then I met my current husband and OMG, the things the man has taught me!
Sometimes we just pleasure one another orally until we orgasm, it's heaven. (and referring to another thread, swallow, definitely swallow )

 

[MacCortz]

I was 31 years old before I had an orgasm during oral sex. My ex was a lousy lover, very selfish in satisfying his needs and not mine, the old "get on, get off, get out". Then I met my current husband and OMG, the things the man has taught me!
Sometimes we just pleasure one another orally until we orgasm, it's heaven. (and referring to another thread, swallow, definitely swallow )

Lucky, lucky husband..., oh to have a naughty, naughty of my own for just a few moments.

maybe in the future

 

[lovetoread]

Lucky, lucky husband..., oh to have a naughty, naughty of my own for just a few moments.

maybe in the future

Dont give up hope...

 

[TexanAngel]

I'm still waiting for oral sex on myself. I give it but never get it back.

 

[slipperywetnsc]

mmmmm the very first time..... I was only 14.... we were in his mother's car...it was summer. It took a while, but the orgasm was wonderful. I was hooked from that moment on. Nearly 30 years later, I still love oral sex... giving as well as receiving. Please sir, may I have some more?

 

[Dr. B]

I'm still waiting for oral sex on myself. I give it but never get it back.

Sweethart, next time tell your partner you got to give to get

 

[Dr. B]

Lucky, lucky husband..., oh to have a naughty, naughty of my own for just a few moments.

maybe in the future

Buddy, you just dont know!!!

 

[MacCortz]

Dont give up hope...

where there is a future there is hope....

thanks for the ego boost ltr....

on ward and up ward...

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

Lucky, lucky husband..., oh to have a naughty, naughty of my own for just a few moments.

maybe in the future

check your e-mail sweetie!

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

Buddy, you just dont know!!!

Thank you baby, I take that as a compliment!