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CWatson
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Might require practice. I mean, holding one's jaw open isn't really a typical thing. Also, you can back off and use your hand some, give yourself a break partway through.
What's the purpose of the blowjob? Does he just like it as foreplay or as affirmation? (That's how I feel. Having a woman suck me is very intimate, but I prefer intercourse as the "main event.") Maybe you can stop sooner then. Does your partner enjoy cumming in your mouth?, or having you swallow? Maybe oral can be prefaced with other activities and used as a finisher, similar to changing positions. Or is it a complete sexual act? Then your one option may be to work on your endurance... but you can still ration the blowing, only do it every now and then.
Work with your partner, is the point, and get him to work with you. There is only one correct answer to the question, "Can we not spend as much time with me sucking you off, it hurts my jaw?", and it is Yes. If your partner isn't willing to give that answer, there are possibly bigger issues at hand.
What's the purpose of the blowjob? Does he just like it as foreplay or as affirmation? (That's how I feel. Having a woman suck me is very intimate, but I prefer intercourse as the "main event.") Maybe you can stop sooner then. Does your partner enjoy cumming in your mouth?, or having you swallow? Maybe oral can be prefaced with other activities and used as a finisher, similar to changing positions. Or is it a complete sexual act? Then your one option may be to work on your endurance... but you can still ration the blowing, only do it every now and then.
Work with your partner, is the point, and get him to work with you. There is only one correct answer to the question, "Can we not spend as much time with me sucking you off, it hurts my jaw?", and it is Yes. If your partner isn't willing to give that answer, there are possibly bigger issues at hand.
NippleMuncher
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That will be up to the receiver to determine. I personally don't care for handjobs, but a good blowjob rocks my world. This is not to say that I am not understanding or uncaring of the OP's issue.
As I see it, this is something that the OP needs to work on with her partner. Cwatson has some good points about the purpose/intention of the BJ
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I agree with the others switch it up a bit, go from blow job to a few moments of a hand job, do a little of both at the same time. I also love to run my tongue up the under side of his cock and trace the tip on occasion, that allows for a small break, take moments to enjoy his whole cock, down to the base and that sweet spot between the end of the shaft and his ass, some light licking and sucking there usually drives them insane. Most of all enjoy what your doing and get into it. Often times when you really into something some of the discomfort ( in this case with your jaw) may seem less. If all else fails take some Motrin 
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i agree with everyone else
if your jaw starts to hurt, pull back and work on licking and kissing,
sucking and massage the balls as well..
also, if you are giving a blowjob and not just doing oral play,
I would suggest more of a buildup,( if you are having trouble
getting him to cum before you get tired) before you get down to business
so that by the time you do wrap your lips around him he is
already close to cumming.
For my hubby the visual is half the fun, so i like to play.
his inner thighs are very sensitive.. great for kissing and massaging
rubbing him against my face... etc
if your jaw starts to hurt, pull back and work on licking and kissing,
sucking and massage the balls as well..
also, if you are giving a blowjob and not just doing oral play,
I would suggest more of a buildup,( if you are having trouble
getting him to cum before you get tired) before you get down to business
so that by the time you do wrap your lips around him he is
already close to cumming.
For my hubby the visual is half the fun, so i like to play.
his inner thighs are very sensitive.. great for kissing and massaging
rubbing him against my face... etc
Thanks guys. I think I will need more practice to get used to it again. It's been awhile since either of us had partners. His turn on is for me to swallow. I had to stop eventually and he took over jacking and asked me to lick his balls. He really wanted me to swallow, so when he was ready to cum I put my mouth back on him so he could cum in my mouth. He's so much thicker than other guys too.
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You could build you jaw muscles up eating bagels and chewing gum.
iadoremywife
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Stacy, sorry in advance for this comment but can't resist. Get a smaller guy.
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I've been there. I just switch to licking his shaft and sucking his balls. Don't switch to hand job, it'll be a turn off. You're giving a head, remember? Use your hand somewhere else to arouse him more, rubbing his nipple or whatever he likes. Then just be ready to catch his load... Anyway the jaw exercise may help to...especially to deal with a thick cock. That's my share...
I think everyone else already nailed it. You need to keep changing your technique from sucking to licking to jerking and jerking while suckling his balls. He will likely appreciate the variety It feels great to go from the warm embrace of a woman's wet silky mouth to the fast hard friction generated by the stroking of a woman's soft smooth hands. Combining the sweet friction from your fingers gliding over his shaft with your tongue slowly circling his balls will drive him bonkers. Before long he will surely explode his hot man juice all over you.
