notenufsx4me
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I was informed one time that with some training i would make a good dom. I know she is a little cracked but, what does on do take classes?
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MissTaken
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There are alot of resources in the BDSM thread at the How To Board.
If I were you, I would start there and also, engage in some munches and the BDSM social activities in your area. Get to know some in the lifestyle, ask questions, determine your own needs and go from there.
Hmm not a Dom, but that would likely be a good start.
If I were you, I would start there and also, engage in some munches and the BDSM social activities in your area. Get to know some in the lifestyle, ask questions, determine your own needs and go from there.
Hmm not a Dom, but that would likely be a good start.
cymbidia
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Laugh if you will, my darlin' Neverever, but one has to practice to get good with a whip, or a needle, or a scapel, or any of the tools Dom/mes use with precision (hopefully) on us for our mutual pleasure.
Do you think Dom/mes are born knowing how to weild a whip so it will strike just perfectly against the skin of the sub? One who has practiced with a whip can just barely touch the skin with it's end - or leave a cut of any depth - or a small bruise but no cut. It takes practice to get good with these tools, to be able to insure the safety of one's sub. Don't denigrate that skill, please, my friend.
To you, notenufsx4me, i would say - read. Learn. Find out, first, if the idea of Dom/ming has an appeal to your body from inside your brain; fuck what someone else told you. They may or may not have known anything about the subject.
Here's the link to the thread MissTaken referenced:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=39661
Please do *not* feel as if you have to read the whole thing to post to the thread. Just skip to the end and post away. If you want to read it, there's a lot of very high quality info pertaining to Dom/mes scattered about in there - but take it two or three pages a day so you don't lose your mind trying to do it all at once.
Do you think Dom/mes are born knowing how to weild a whip so it will strike just perfectly against the skin of the sub? One who has practiced with a whip can just barely touch the skin with it's end - or leave a cut of any depth - or a small bruise but no cut. It takes practice to get good with these tools, to be able to insure the safety of one's sub. Don't denigrate that skill, please, my friend.
To you, notenufsx4me, i would say - read. Learn. Find out, first, if the idea of Dom/ming has an appeal to your body from inside your brain; fuck what someone else told you. They may or may not have known anything about the subject.
Here's the link to the thread MissTaken referenced:
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=39661
Please do *not* feel as if you have to read the whole thing to post to the thread. Just skip to the end and post away. If you want to read it, there's a lot of very high quality info pertaining to Dom/mes scattered about in there - but take it two or three pages a day so you don't lose your mind trying to do it all at once.
Cheyenne
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Never said:
Only if you plan to use them as examples of what NOT to do in a business or sales career. I can't imagine a use for a "whip, or a needle, or a scapel." Leadership skills, team building skills, etc. would be worth much more to you, Never.
Silverlily
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Cheyenne said:
Lol, no, but a good salesperson can verbally manipulate the customer and put them exactly where you want them.
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Thank you, cymbidia for your reply and the link.
From what i have read and understand i don't think thats the life for me. For one thing, if it was i would already be deep into it by now. For another it would do me no good around here as my wife is not all that much into sex to start with. At least not that i know of.
About handling a whip or crop or anything along those lines, Well yes i can. What i like is every so often is to restrain a woman and eroticly torture her before having sex until she cums so many times she can not walk for awhile.
i've had no complaints.
i have several sets of cuffs, soft nylon rope restraints. [ I removed my chain manacles from my bed because they were no longer used.]
The woman who suggested that has some expertise in that sort of thing. I know she goes to places in houston and dallas when she gets the chance.
From what i have read and understand i don't think thats the life for me. For one thing, if it was i would already be deep into it by now. For another it would do me no good around here as my wife is not all that much into sex to start with. At least not that i know of.
About handling a whip or crop or anything along those lines, Well yes i can. What i like is every so often is to restrain a woman and eroticly torture her before having sex until she cums so many times she can not walk for awhile.
i've had no complaints.i have several sets of cuffs, soft nylon rope restraints. [ I removed my chain manacles from my bed because they were no longer used.]
The woman who suggested that has some expertise in that sort of thing. I know she goes to places in houston and dallas when she gets the chance.
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