Loving Wives vs. Cheating Wives

[Chicklet]

Does anyone else think it's strange to have these two types of stories mixed in together? We have seperate categories for Transvestites/Crossdressers and Gay Male - why not for Cheating Wives?

Chicklet

 

[Chicklet]

Stolen Quote From Story Ideas

I think that you are absolutely on target about the "loving wives" category. It seems odd, to say that least, that romantic stories about constant faithful wives would be lumped together with "slut-wife" stories. They should be in altogether separate categories.

I'm sure this has a negative effect on the voting on either type of story. Fans of tales of truly "loving wives" probably aren't going to want to read about how some suburban White soccer-mom accidentally walked into the office of her daughter's soccer coach while he was undressing, sees his Pringles-can-sized Black shlong, instantly turns into a "slut for black cock" and yada yada yada, she and her daughter end up turning tricks in the ghetto for Black LeRoy the big-dicked soccer-pimp.

Conversely, I'd imagine that guys who surf to the "loving wives" pages with expectations of reading coarse lewd unfaithful slut-wife stories are disappointed when they happen upon enchanting idylls of impassioned young marrieds frolicking amorously amidst fields of wildflowers, whilst feeding each other fine Belgian chocolates and reading aloud from Byron and Baudelaire.

 

[Guest]

Amen!

I will refrain from quoting your quote, Chicklet... but I couldn't agree with CBM and you more.

I wrote a story Man of the Year and thought that it belonged in Loving Wives, since it is about a loving wife extending herself for her husband.

I have received feedback that it didn't belong in that category.

In my universe, "wife slut" and "loving wife" are light years apart.

I would like to see the two separated.

b

 

[TheEarl]

Off-topic

Although I agree with your original point, I think Transvestites are actually straight, so that's probably why they're separate from gay. It's drag queens who are gay. Eddie Izzard's very firm on that point .

The Earl

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I must have been reading too little of this category's stories, 'cause I didn't know that there actually WERE any other stories in the Loving Wives Category other than those about women who agree to have sex with their husbands' boss, best friend, brothers, etc.

 

[Chicklet]

Re: Amen!

I will refrain from quoting your quote, Chicklet... but I couldn't agree with CBM and you more.

I wrote a story Man of the Year and thought that it belonged in Loving Wives, since it is about a loving wife extending herself for her husband.

I have received feedback that it didn't belong in that category.

In my universe, "wife slut" and "loving wife" are light years apart.

I would like to see the two separated.

b

I've heard the opposite, also - people who've received feedback stating that their CHEATING wives stories didn't belong in "Loving Wives"

My Loving Wives story got me feedback stating that the reader was thrilled to have found an ACTUAL loving wives story, rather than a Cheating Wives story.

Chicklet

 

[BigTexan]

Don't stories about faithful wives belong in the Fantasy section

No I did NOT say that! Bad Texan, Bad Bad Texan

BigTexan

 

[Guest]

it's all in the eye of the beholder

The story index of Loving Wives is "These women know how to please their men".

This has enough ambiguity (do all of these women have more than one man? perhaps the husband wants his wife to be a slut so "loving" him means "loving" many) to open the door wide.

It further complicates things when "wife-slut" is part of the description of this site, yet there is no "wife-slut" category

BT-

You are in Time Out for the next three weeks.

b

 

[TheEarl]

It's a fantasy, there's no such thing,
Like a female with good looks, who cooks and cleans.

- Eminem

I thought if BT was going to lower the tone, I may as well join him .

The Earl

 

[Svenskaflicka]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Do you think I'd overdo it if I write that he also doesn't squeeze the toothpaste tube on the middle?

 

[Chicklet]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Do you think I'd overdo it if I write that he also doesn't squeeze the toothpaste tube on the middle?

lol

on topic, though - does anyone think that these types of stories belong together? i'd like to hear more arguments FOR this.

Chicklet

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I think we have THREE types of stories here:

• cheating wives
• wives who fuck other men at their husbands' request
• faithful wives

And how come there is no Loving Husbands Category?

(always the feminist)

 

[Chicklet]

And how come there is no Loving Husbands Category?

maybe that's "romance" ?

 

[BigTexan]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Do you think I'd overdo it if I write that he also doesn't squeeze the toothpaste tube on the middle?

I have never NEVER squeezed the toothpaste tube in the middle! And I do carry out the trash on a regular basis. Can I help it if my wife fills it up again before the year is through?


Okay, on topic ... Sorry Chicklet, I'm feeling lightheaded today ...

Do these stories belong together? Probably not, but if you split them apart would you have enough stories to really make a category?

I think the Slut Wives, and the Cheating wives categories would be full and the Faithful Wives category would have, maybe, a handful of stories, each garnering two or three votes each.

I agree that they should be split out. I, in fact, hate the "Wife cheats on hubby and then humiliates him." style of stories, but I admit to enjoying the "Prim and proper wife explodes into a cosmic nymphomaniac and screws everyone everywhere as her husband happily watches/participates" stories.

Perhaps the true "loving wives" stories belong more in Romantic simply because while it is terribly romantic for a man to come home and woo his wife with tender loving care, it doesn't have that naughty, sexy, taboo quality that lights the fire of so many of us perverts here at lit. I think that if a person puts "Wife" in his search, he/she is probably looking for either a "Slut Wife" or "Cheating Wife" style of story. If you are out for romance, then you probably don't put "wife" in your search.

Maybe I'm wrong. It's all just my opinion.

BigTexan

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

I thought if BT was going to lower the tone, I may as well join him .

The Earl

Marshall is a world class Smeg-head!
The beauteous Nigella Lawson (of fashion channel fame in the US) is all of those things.

 

[sweetnpetite]

wives

I think we have THREE types of stories here:




cheating wives

wives who fuck other men at their husbands' request

faithful wives



And how come there is no Loving Husbands Category?

(always the feminist)

************

I agree with the above. I would say, we should have
faithfull wives (or to be pc. monogomous couples)
wife swapping/sharing (swingers and such)
Cheating wives/men (torid tales of unfaithfullness)

I think there would be MORE than enough stories to fill each category.


Here are my sugestions for gender-nutral categories:
monogomous couples
swinging, swapping, and sharing
cheating
romance

 

[Pure]

Sweetnpetite:

Here are my sugestions for gender-nutral categories:
monogomous couples
swinging, swapping, and sharing
cheating
romance


Monogamous is too broad. It should be broken down:

Monogamous married couples who follow God's commandments but still fuck like bunnies

Monogamous couples who are only shacked up and fuck in lots of different places

Monogamous couples who fantasize about being with others of the opposite sex. (het fantasies)

... with other fantasies

Monogamous couple who stay that way because of lots of kinky sex.

Monagamous couples who stay that way because of lots of masturbation.

 

[Guest]

Seeing as how I asked the question in story ideas, first, I'd say YES. A cheating wife is NOT a "loving wife".

And, while we are at it, Voyeurism is NOT Exhibitionism. They are two very different things.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Svenskaflicka

Heck little lady, that wouldn't be any fantasy, that'd be my biography.

But seriously folks, judging from the description given for the, "Loving Wives," category, the term "Loving" refers to the sexual act, not the romantic emotion. Therefore, I'd suggest letting those "Loving Wives" alone to, "please their men."

IMHO, while some tales involving heterosexual, monogomous couples show up in, "Loving Wives," a lot more find their way to, "Romance," "First Time," or more often than not the big catch-all, "Erotic Couplings," site which, with over 7200 stories, is twice the size of the next largest.

A new category such as, "Couples in Love," might take some of that load off EC.

Rumple Foreskin

 

[TheEarl]

Hey if we're going into miniturizing categories, then I definitely think Fetish should be split up. It does cover a lot of different things and I think stuff like Pregancy prbably deserves it's own category.

Just MHO.

The Earl

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Hey if we're going into miniturizing categories, then I definitely think Fetish should be split up. It does cover a lot of different things and I think stuff like Pregancy prbably deserves it's own category.

Just MHO.

The Earl

NO!

Pregnancy is the only fetish I can write about, without it in the Fetish category, I'm... well... fucked!

Then again, I do have my own fetish, but it's kinda weird, and a little embarrassing... OK, whatever: I get turned on by watching a man's hands while he's driving a car.

Hey, atleast I'm not injuring anybody...

 

[entitled]

Then again, I do have my own fetish, but it's kinda weird, and a little embarrassing... OK, whatever: I get turned on by watching a man's hands while he's driving a car.

Hey, atleast I'm not injuring anybody...

You mean the way they grip and caress the steering wheel, and the muscles in their forearms bunch and twist? Makes a person imagine just what they might do to certain parts of the human anatomy.

 

[Guest]

Hmmmmmm

Unless I misunderstand the categories, a cheating wife type story should appear under the "universal" category...erotic couplings I would think.

I remain,

 

[Octavian]

Originally posted by Svenskaflicka

Then again, I do have my own fetish, but it's kinda weird, and a little embarrassing... OK, whatever: I get turned on by watching a man's hands while he's driving a car.

That is quite commonplace Svenskaflicka.

The fetish is called Autoeroticism!


Octavian
Bearer of the Silver Rose

 

[Svenskaflicka]

You mean the way they grip and caress the steering wheel, and the muscles in their forearms bunch and twist?

Thank you. Now I'll have to change my underwear.