Loving Wives vs. Cheating Wives

[Chicklet]

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maybe they should have a category called "cuckhold"

Chicklet

 

[Guest]

They should.

From what I've noticed, so far, they seem to take serious category suggestions seriously. And, they have been ways that Lit has changed and improved.

 

[sirhugs]

Don't stories about faithful wives belong in the Fantasy section

No I did NOT say that! Bad Texan, Bad Bad Texan

BigTexan

LOl
roflmao

good one Tex!

 

[sirhugs]

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maybe they should have a category called "cuckhold"

Chicklet

do you mean "cock hold" ( what we need) or " cuckold"??

 

[sirhugs]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Do you think I'd overdo it if I write that he also doesn't squeeze the toothpaste tube on the middle?

not to brag but I do all this, and laundry

 

[Svenskaflicka]

So, sirhugs, how's life after the gender-change-operation, girlfriend?

 

[Chicklet]

do you mean "cock hold" ( what we need) or " cuckold"??

yeah yeah yea

i meant cuckold

and even when i tried to type it that time i added an h <grin>

Chicklet

 

[sirhugs]

yeah yeah yea

i meant cuckold

and even when i tried to type it that time i added an h <grin>

Chicklet

paging Dr. Freud....

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

lol

on topic, though - does anyone think that these types of stories belong together? i'd like to hear more arguments FOR this.

Chicklet

Well, if the guy is doing all of this while his girlfriend/wife is at a motel getting big-dicked, then yes, they belong in the same category.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

do you mean "cock hold" ( what we need) or " cuckold"??

Even within the cheating wives category there are two glaring distinctions ...

Cuckold stories: About men whose wives cheat on them, with or without their consent.

And "cock-hold" stories, which all seem to be about White homosexual married men who use their wives as bait to attract supposedly straight Black men who, inexplicably, have a predilection for fucking guys in the ass as well as habitually receiving head from other men.

 

[Chicklet]

paging Dr. Freud....

 

[sirhugs]

nice tongue

 

[Quiet_Cool]

My next fantasy story is going to be about a faithful man who does the dishes, takes out the garbage, and vacuum cleans the living room carpet.

Do you think I'd overdo it if I write that he also doesn't squeeze the toothpaste tube on the middle?

So long as he doesn't replace the toilet paper in the dispenser when it's time to change it, I'd say you're safe.

Now, as far as the catergories go, Erotic Couplings, Group Sex, and Non-erotic pretty much sum up every story on the site. The others are mostly just subdivisions of those.

I think Big Texan hit the nail on the head when he pointed out that very few stories in the Loving Wives sectin are actually about Faithful wives, and it's senseless to have a category with only five or six stories in it. Of course, the Sci-Fi/Fantasy category was low on stories at first as well, before it was separated, now it's getting steady attention from writers, so maybe it would pan out to have a Faithful Wives category.

In all honesty, I'd say let the idea go. On the site in general, in fact, in most erotic fiction, the morality is lost somewhere for the sake of "eroticism" (yeah, that's what we'll call it; not porn but eroticism). Especially when you have an intensely large number of members contributing that are, to put it mildly, truely amateur writers, people who write stories they should send to Penthouse Letters instead of putting them somewhere they might be mistaken for actual writing.

Lit. is a quality site, but a lot of the writing here isn't quality, and those writers aren't going to help build a new category where they can't let go of the morality and go with the senseless porn style writing.

 

[TheEarl]

I would prefer to have a ctaegory with few stories in than have to trawl through unrelated stories to find something on a topic I like. I dislike having to trawl through all the fetish stories to try and find a pregnant story for example.

The Earl

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I think I've said this before, but... Hot Mama

 

[Crimson Knight]

In all honesty, I'd say let the idea go. On the site in general, in fact, in most erotic fiction, the morality is lost somewhere for the sake of "eroticism" (yeah, that's what we'll call it; not porn but eroticism).

The cheating, swinging, one night stands, ect. make for exciting reading. However, I think there is something incredably sensual and erotic about waking up beside the same person every morning. To know that there is one person who knows me better than I know myself; that she loves me enough to love me when I'm unlovable; that she cares about making me happy enough that she will do things that she might not want to do; that I can make her happy just by loving her; those are the things that really turn me on.

 

[pop_54]

Hi all and each

Well I'm so very new here I've hardly had time to find the bar or where the toilets are let alone read or post many tales, I've just posted two short blurbs, not sure where yet, I haven't found them either.
"Jane's family affair", and "Donna still haunts my mind" if anyone finds them feel free comment, (Oh and can you tell me where they are, hehe)

I feel there should be an element of segregation, maybe loving wives / husbands tales under the romantic stories banner.

Swapping / swinging under the fetish / (even) group banner, just maybe.

As far as I can see we all have several choices of banner under which to post, I'm sure borderline cases would't upset the moderators too much.

I have first hand experience of swapping / swinging and it can be very, very, loving, it can allso be very horny and filthy, Hey but it's f**king fun.

pops................

 

[Guest]

I would prefer to have a ctaegory with few stories in than have to trawl through unrelated stories to find something on a topic I like. I dislike having to trawl through all the fetish stories to try and find a pregnant story for example.

I certainly understand what you are saying, and I agree that some categories need to be broken down ("Loving" wives Vrs. "Cheating" wives and Exhibitionism Vrs. Voyeurism to name a couple), but I think to break down Fetish would be nightmarish! We could have 20 to 30 new fetish related categories at Lit and still be leaving out a lot!

If the search feature gets fixed soon that will help weed through Fetish and other "mixed" categories.

 

[SexyChele]

I never thought about any potential problems with "Loving Wives". From the first time I saw the category, I always figured "loving" was more tongue in cheek than anything else. If I were to find a story of a loving, faithful couple in there, I would be disappointed.

But, it begs the question: with the categories of "Romance" and "Erotic Couplings" why the need for yet another category? Granted, in Erotic Couplings it is hard to stand out, but isn't that what it is there for? Faithful couples (married or no) who are enjoying an erotic experience?

And if there were something like "Slut Wives", well, what about "Slut Girlfriends"? "Slut Husbands"? I mean you can really nickle and dime it, if you've a mind to.

Many of the categories can be broken down into other categories - "Fetish", "Exhibitionist/Voyeurism", and "BDSM" just to name a few.

It is up to Laurel and Manu, but I really see no problem with it as it stands, personally.

 

[pop_54]

Hi again

Hello me again, the new git, I mean guy, I've found the bar but still haven't found the toilets or my stories.

Having had chance to look round a bit more now and get a little idea of the layout of this place, only a little as yet, maybe too many more story sections would become a confusing pain in the butt for folks to browse through, I mean as said by others, where do you stop, 6 inch dick, 8 inch dick, 10 inch dick, small orifice, medium orifice, large orifice, it could get silly.
Instead of complaining about a tale being in the wrong area, just read it and appreciate, or close it after a couple of paragraphs when you know it aint for you and look elsewhere.

Loving wives, cheating wives, sluts, hey where do you girls get off having all the fun, or should I say why is it always the woman who's the slut / cheat / unfaithful, it takes two to tango and most affairs are between married persons who aren't married to each other.

Oh on the steering wheel thing svenska I used to steer with my knees a lot when fiddling with something, but I fiddled to much one day and made the wheel so slippery I almost crashed the car.

On the faithful wives thing I was chatting to my wife the other day, I told her I'd overheard our postman bragging that he'd screwed every woman in our street except one.
She said, "I bet that was the snooty cow at number 20".

See ya all pops...........

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Originally posted by Svenskaflicka

Then again, I do have my own fetish, but it's kinda weird, and a little embarrassing... OK, whatever: I get turned on by watching a man's hands while he's driving a car.

That is quite commonplace Svenskaflicka.

The fetish is called Autoeroticism!


Octavian
Bearer of the Silver Rose

How embarrassing. Not until now did I fully understand the hidden joke here.

<===Don't blame me, I'm a blonde.

 

[Dirt Man]

Okay, enough is enough...

While breaking down major catagories into subdivisions would be a nice touch for example:

Loving Wives:
A.) Wives who love their own husbands
B.) Wives who love others husbands
C.) Wives who love any male
1.) wives who do the Pool boy
2.) wives who do the postal worker
3.) wives who do the plumber
4.) wives who do the pizza guy
D.) Wives who love their husbands boss
E.) Wives who love their husbands friends
etc.
etc.
etc.

I think we may have to go with the what the Hosts of this site deem fit to catagorize, and display as they are footing the bills. And that might mean that they are limited in what time, and money they can spend here. I'm not saying that we shouldn't make suggestions to improve the site, but just be mindful of what we have already, and that in itself is quite a lot.

As Always
I Am the
Dirt Man

 

[jshelbourne]

Re: wives

I agree with the above. I would say, we should have
faithfull wives (or to be pc. monogomous couples)
wife swapping/sharing (swingers and such)
Cheating wives/men (torid tales of unfaithfullness)

I think there would be MORE than enough stories to fill each category.


Here are my sugestions for gender-nutral categories:
monogomous couples
swinging, swapping, and sharing
cheating
romance

Hmmm. I agree with this so I'm leaping in without reading the rest of the thread. (I'm sure that'll get me in trouble later, but heck...)

Except...I'd leave monogamous couples in romance. I'm basing it on my reasons for reading any of the above categories.

When I'm reading a swinging/swapping/sharing story, I usually want it to be consensual, and I don't want anybody breaking vows. When I read a cheating story, I want the extra frisson that comes from the cheating. (Actually, for me it has to be the discovery by the wronged partner--I read all of the stories, but that gives me a chill-thrill that differentiates it from the rest.) Usually a story about a married couple having hot sex works fine as a romance story--or whatever kink they have involved.

Excessive categorization always presents the possibility of spoilers.

Suppose I wrote a story...let me go to the notebook here....in which for a wedding anniversary where work has separated them, the husband has set up a little computer chatroom so he can simulate online group sex with his wife. What's supposed to be a private chat room apparently isn't as other online personas get in and his wife leads him to believe she thinks he set it all up and she's had the sex of her life...she wanted the rough sex she had in this cyber encounter and that they've never had in life. If at the end it turns out she did the extra partners as a way of letting her husband know he can be a bit rougher in bed, then it's a monogamous story--which surprise would be destroyed if it were put into a category entitled "monogamous sex."

My nickel's worth.

 

[curious2c]

I have struggled with this for some time. I finally realized that this is the way it is for the time being. Some of my stories are of a wife swayed into cheating then reconciling with her husband. Since that is really not a loving type wife story at the onset it should have been in a cheating wife catagory. Since that is not a choice, that leave non-consent or loving wife. I usually go with loving wife over non-consent (although I have been taken to task on that too by readers)

 

[Reshbod]

I think this board could use a cheating or adultery catagory. I have heard a few authors getting blasted for posting cheating stories in loving wives. I think either include a new catagory or in the subject line of LW mention that it involves cheating, faithful, slut. This might clear up some of the confusion.

Just my $.02