Losing Control

[sporty]

I am currently seeing someone i trust more i have any other man in my 33 years. We have dated for over a year now and our sex life is awesome......( quality and quantity .

Anyway, he is the first person i have shared my hidden fantasies of being completely dominated, used for his pleasure, forced into doing any act with him.

We do sometimes struggle playfully while having sex...and he is very strong and can easily overpower me.

But yesterday, when he attempted to force his cock in my mouth and fuck me hard with it, i panicked a little bit. Of course he backed right off when he knew i wasn't playing around.....and we continued to make love.

But does anyone else enjoy being overpowered , and does it just take time to allow yourself to be controlled )??...I have often had trouble really letting go with someone......

thanks.

 

[MissTaken]

Yes.

There are women and men who enjoy being overpowered or forced.

Communication is key as is trust. IT sounds like you have both in your relationship. Good for you!

You may find some great company on the BDSM forum.

 

[I'mVan]

Thsi would probably be best covered over at the BDSM board, and I'm sure they'd have lots of really helpful advice.

I'm guessing you understand well thouhg. You have a partner you love and trust, and a desire to play this game. Give yourself time and practice to learn how to play it well.

 

[MissTaken]

Van?

How can anyone take advice seriously from a mouse who is into humanality?



Cool av!

 

[sporty]

Hey thanks folks.....i appreciate the posts......i guess i'll give it more time....practice makes perfect ?

i didn't think of checking out the BDSM board.....i just assumed it was hardcore kink ..

i'll do some reading

 

[thebrokenheartedfool]

Yes I have had a fantisy for years of being raped and forced to do many things by three women. not just the normal guy more than one woman dream but realy rough and hard with more than two women.

I don't know if I am special but thats my view. Maybe its just the rough sex I crave but there is something to not having to be in control all the time like at work. I like giving control over for a while and just taking orders maybe a little resistance for show too.

 

[sporty]

OOHHhhh....i do like a man who can take instruction as well as give it......My guy is willing for me to take charge of him sometimes.....yum.