Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal amount of playtime and pace with a partner, and how many times do you like to orgasm/cum?

[cocokittysurprise]

It depends on my mood. Sometimes I want a quick, hard fuck..... other times, I want it to last all day, so the teasing, dirty talk and foreplay may go on for hours before the physical part happens.

I love edging, both myself and my partner, cause the anticipation is part of what makes the experience grand.

 

[DarkestParts]

It depends on my mood. Sometimes I want a quick, hard fuck..... other times, I want it to last all day, so the teasing, dirty talk and foreplay may go on for hours before the physical part happens.

I love edging, both myself and my partner, cause the anticipation is part of what makes the experience grand.

I hear you. The anticipation and buildup is almost as good as the actual main event if done right imo. Mmmmm, it has been way too long since I've gotten to participate in an hours long session but I'm ever hopeful that will change!

 

[Hipshot1554]

Am I the only one that likes both during one enjoyable playtime.. Start slow and complete orgasms from fucking and oral . relaxing and freshening up then I want him to be aggressive and free to uses me as he wishes as long as he wants. Then recover in the hot tub!!!!!!!

This sounds perfect!

 

[wouldloveto]

Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?

Long, slow, and teasing is my usual preference. Early on I discovered the magic of cunnilingus, and fell in love with the act. Later in life I found I loved to be edged, to the extreme. So, long and slow is my default.

There are times, or circumstances, when frenzied manual stimulation, followed by a short, fast, and sometimes rough fits the bill for both of us.

Variety is the spice of life... and sex!

 

[DarkestParts]

Long, slow, and teasing is my usual preference. Early on I discovered the magic of cunnilingus, and fell in love with the act. Later in life I found I loved to be edged, to the extreme. So, long and slow is my default.

There are times, or circumstances, when frenzied manual stimulation, followed by a short, fast, and sometimes rough fits the bill for both of us.

Variety is the spice of life... and sex!

Long and sensual is just *chef's kiss!

 

[Pad_Foot]

Whatever she wants !!

 

[DarkestParts]

Whatever she wants !!

This is the correct response, lol

 

[lokiboy]

Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?

As a guy, I pretty much want everything you described (to varying degrees) all the time. But, being a guy, I know it's a pretty sure thing I'm going to cum during playtime. So I'm usually concerned with how she feels and what she feels like at that time. No matter how old I get (not old now, but you get the idea lol) I will never cease to be surprised by the fact that I can make a girl orgasm. So mentally, that's always going to be a huge turn-on/motivation for me during playtime.

Yes, there are times when I just want to grab her, kiss you hard, turn her around, bend her over, lift her dress, wet her with my tongue, and then fuck her hard and fast and deep. But her wanting me to do that while I'm doing it, is what I really want.

One of my ideal 'slow' playtime fantasies would be sit on the couch, have her straddle me (both naked), slip my cock inside of her, and then just kiss, lick, suck and play with her tits for a long long time. While teasing her by telling her she's not allowed to move her hips until I say so.

 

[DarkestParts]

But her wanting me to do that while I'm doing it, is what I really want.

When you and your partner are both feeling good and are completely into whatever you're doing together, that's the absolute best. We all want to be wanted. A partner who is attentive, turned on, and responsive is an amazing thing to find. It makes you feel like they are completely invested in and focused on the play, and therefore, in you!

 

[desire30]

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[Hesjustaguy]

Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?

Unfortunately I was a two pump chump, but I’d spend a lot of time eating that pussy. Never tried edging. Not even really sure what that is. The wife likes it when I’m done in two or three minutes.

 

[17_spicyfun]

Long, slow, and teasing is my usual preference. Early on I discovered the magic of cunnilingus, and fell in love with the act. Later in life I found I loved to be edged, to the extreme. So, long and slow is my default.

There are times, or circumstances, when frenzied manual stimulation, followed by a short, fast, and sometimes rough fits the bill for both of us.

Variety is the spice of life... and sex!

Long, the longer the better, using all senses and slowly stimulating any part that can be stimulated.
Yes, online is not quite the same as real personal but watching on cam and guide each other online can be fun

 

[DarkestParts]

Unfortunately I was a two pump chump, but I’d spend a lot of time eating that pussy. Never tried edging. Not even really sure what that is. The wife likes it when I’m done in two or three minutes.

Well, it sounds like you found a good work around my going done on her for a long time. I guess if she's happy with you being done quickly, you're good to go! My understanding of edging is when you tease yourself really close to cumming but back off and let your body downshift a little so you don't lose control and repeating that pattern for an extended period of time.

 

[DarkestParts]

Long, the longer the better, using all senses and slowly stimulating any part that can be stimulated.
Yes, online is not quite the same as real personal but watching on cam and guide each other online can be fun

That slow stimulation builds so much anticipation and hits differently than the fast and eager playtimes.

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

Lots of foreplay. I’ll cum during that and then I need a hard cock in me to take it to another level. Slow, then fast (or on top), and then a slow methodical fuck to get me to cum in waves.

 

[DarkestParts]

Lots of foreplay. I’ll cum during that and then I need a hard cock in me to take it to another level. Slow, then fast (or on top), and then a slow methodical fuck to get me to cum in waves.

Those waves are delicious, huh? I often wonder how many times other women cum on average. I tend to lose count but I think I usually orgasm 4 or more times per play session

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

Those waves are delicious, huh? I often wonder how many times other women cum on average. I tend to lose count but I think I usually orgasm 4 or more times per play session

I would say the same. For or five but the swelling waves when released leave me shook.

 

[cadman7777]

There are times when you are maybe in a public place or a situation where it has to be hard and fast but typically I love to take time working it all up.....from sexy texts and/or calls and teasing each other....to spending whatever amount time necessary with foreplay.....I like that almost as much as cumming.......if we are using hands I want that to last....if it's oral I want that to last....if we are using toys I want that to last........if we are fucking I want it to last..........I love whatever were doing at the time the most until we move on......and dirty talking the whole time just adds to it........but I'm older now so I'm kind of like the Toby Keith song......."Not as good as I once was but I'm as good once as I ever was"

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Wife is all over but as we are older she now prefers shorter periods and more oral sex time.
Pussy, legs and hips can't handle long sessions anymore

 

[DarkestParts]

I love to take time working it all up.....from sexy texts and/or calls and teasing each other....to spending whatever amount time necessary with foreplay.....I like that almost as much as cumming.......if we are using hands I want that to last....if it's oral I want that to last....if we are using toys I want that to last........if we are fucking I want it to last..........I love whatever were doing at the time the most until we move on

I enjoy all of it so much I don't want it to end either. I can do appreciate your explanation of loving whatever you're doing the most until moving on describes very well what happens to me. I'll get the idea to change positions or switch something up but it's hard to tear myself away from what I'm already doing!

 

[DarkestParts]

Wife is all over but as we are older she now prefers shorter periods and more oral sex time.
Pussy, legs and hips can't handle long sessions anymore

That makes sense. Good thing mouths are a thing, huh?

 

[zcraft5]

Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?

session is fine once i get to cum thenhe may lick me to a second orgasm i like t be had right away as my pussy wants needs to be touched right away

 

[Sienna62]

Long , slow , always guided by her desire ,
Twice , again whatever she wants …….

 

[PMarky2]

Long and slow with lots of making out, and finding those little interesting places on one another that elicit moans. Oral, fingering, the slow build-up, ending with her orgasming multiple times, and me cumming so hard my balls ache.

However, if we have not got time for that, a quickie will do nicely, though my girl is pretty much guaranteed I will still go down on her even if it has to be quick.

 

[Mike130]

session is fine once i get to cum thenhe may lick me to a second orgasm i like t be had right away as my pussy wants needs to be touched right away

I love to lick my wife’s pussy after I fuck her to give her a second orgasm. The taste of her cum and mine mixed in her pussy along with her moan as her legs start shaking drives me over the edge.