My girlfriend has told two of her friends that she pegs me with a strapon.
The first person she told was a co-worker. The co-worker was a strong feminist and very open with sexuality which is why I think my girlfriend was comfortable telling her. They had gone out to lunch and I’m not sure how the topic came up, but somehow my girlfriend told her that she pegs me, and about how incredibly empowering it was the first time she did it.
I had met this co-worker once before at a work party, but she moved a few months after their conversation, so I won’t ever have to face her knowing that she knows I get pegged.
The second person my girlfriend told was her best friend that she grew up with. Her friend lives a few hours away and my girlfriend went to visit her one weekend. I’ve never met her but apparently she’s a high maintenance person and can be pretty bossy. They were talking about her new boyfriend and how he does whatever she tells him to do. My girlfriend told her that they should have a dom/sub relationship, and that she should try pegging him. I tried to get details about what else my girlfriend told her friend about our relationship and the things we do, but she just kept giving me vague answers. I think she likes teasing me by not giving me details and keeping me wondering.
Although I’ve never met this friend, there is a good chance I will someday. I’m not sure how I’ll feel being face to face with her knowing that she knows my girlfriend and I are in a dom/sub relationship and that I get pegged Bent over and pegged. It’s really embarrassing.
My girlfriend telling her friends that she pegs me was not a breach of confidence because several years ago we talked about how, as the dominant partner in our relationship, she has the freedom to tell whomever she wants, whatever she wants about our relationship. She’s the type of person who knows a lot of people but doesn’t have many really close friends that she shares intimate personal information with so it’s unlikely she will tell anyone else. However, she does know a lot of liberal, open minded people in the feminist community so I could see it coming up in certain conversations about womens empowerment.
She has said several times that she wishes she could tell all women how empowering it is to peg a man, and she has said that she wishes she could tell her daughter (who is in her early 20s) about it so her daughter would not have to wait until later in life to discover it like she did. They have a very close relationship where they talk freely with each other about all kinds of things, and I think if the right opportunity came up for my girlfriend to say something about it, she very well might. But so far I don’t think an opportunity has come up where she felt it would be appropriate.
I do know that she has dropped hints to her daughter about dom/sub relationships in general, and I’m sure her daughter has noticed that in our relationship her mom is the dominant partner and that I am more subservient, but whether they ever gets into any details about it remains to be seen. I don’t have strong feelings about whether or not she tells her. It would be incredibly embarrassing for me, but she is in charge so it’s totally her decision.
The first person she told was a co-worker. The co-worker was a strong feminist and very open with sexuality which is why I think my girlfriend was comfortable telling her. They had gone out to lunch and I’m not sure how the topic came up, but somehow my girlfriend told her that she pegs me, and about how incredibly empowering it was the first time she did it.
I had met this co-worker once before at a work party, but she moved a few months after their conversation, so I won’t ever have to face her knowing that she knows I get pegged.
The second person my girlfriend told was her best friend that she grew up with. Her friend lives a few hours away and my girlfriend went to visit her one weekend. I’ve never met her but apparently she’s a high maintenance person and can be pretty bossy. They were talking about her new boyfriend and how he does whatever she tells him to do. My girlfriend told her that they should have a dom/sub relationship, and that she should try pegging him. I tried to get details about what else my girlfriend told her friend about our relationship and the things we do, but she just kept giving me vague answers. I think she likes teasing me by not giving me details and keeping me wondering.
Although I’ve never met this friend, there is a good chance I will someday. I’m not sure how I’ll feel being face to face with her knowing that she knows my girlfriend and I are in a dom/sub relationship and that I get pegged Bent over and pegged. It’s really embarrassing.
My girlfriend telling her friends that she pegs me was not a breach of confidence because several years ago we talked about how, as the dominant partner in our relationship, she has the freedom to tell whomever she wants, whatever she wants about our relationship. She’s the type of person who knows a lot of people but doesn’t have many really close friends that she shares intimate personal information with so it’s unlikely she will tell anyone else. However, she does know a lot of liberal, open minded people in the feminist community so I could see it coming up in certain conversations about womens empowerment.
She has said several times that she wishes she could tell all women how empowering it is to peg a man, and she has said that she wishes she could tell her daughter (who is in her early 20s) about it so her daughter would not have to wait until later in life to discover it like she did. They have a very close relationship where they talk freely with each other about all kinds of things, and I think if the right opportunity came up for my girlfriend to say something about it, she very well might. But so far I don’t think an opportunity has come up where she felt it would be appropriate.
I do know that she has dropped hints to her daughter about dom/sub relationships in general, and I’m sure her daughter has noticed that in our relationship her mom is the dominant partner and that I am more subservient, but whether they ever gets into any details about it remains to be seen. I don’t have strong feelings about whether or not she tells her. It would be incredibly embarrassing for me, but she is in charge so it’s totally her decision.
