Ladies, No Sex For Many Years?

[StrongMaster7]

An old girlfriend of mine lives not too far away. Since I broke up with her back in college, she hasn't had a very happy life. She was married briefly, had a kid, and then her husband left. It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

When we went out, for about two months close to forty years ago, it was purely a sexual relationship for me. She adored me. Eventually, I felt guilty using her for sex and left her out of conscience. While we were together, she never said no, except to anal.

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

It's a fantasy for me that she might be willing to try everything, but who knows?

 

[Kittenheels54]

I’d say yes…it might not be the lack of sex per say, but more so being older, knowing yourself better, change of mindset..I think affection, kissing, just having hands on your skin would be missed more so than actual sex…just my thoughts

 

[SPARTAN047]

Desperate housewives of horny land.

 

[barefootgirl69]

If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

Not necessarily. Not everyone who chooses not to have sex is desperate to get back into it. There might be reasons someone chose abstinence.

You say you stopped seeing her because you felt guilty for using her for sex, but it doesn't seem you care all that much about her now, except for sex. But, not my monkey, not my circus.

 

[Sarge9mm]

Mine and me do everything but anal and add. Love toys and all. It's a lot of fun for both and good pics. I share pics often get off if they like get hard show it to her

 

[Seeking4wife04]

An old girlfriend of mine lives not too far away. Since I broke up with her back in college, she hasn't had a very happy life. She was married briefly, had a kid, and then her husband left. It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

When we went out, for about two months close to forty years ago, it was purely a sexual relationship for me. She adored me. Eventually, I felt guilty using her for sex and left her out of conscience. While we were together, she never said no, except to anal. I’m seriously wondering if my mother-in-law for sex I’m quite sure after the divorce from my wife’s father. She probably never got talk again however she got on one of these dating websites and Up with a nice gentleman. Dated for three years and even moved them together I’m sure she was getting fucked during that time. What do you think once you broke the ceiling and started doing it again I wonder if she’d be interested in having ongoing sex

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

It's a fantasy for me that she might be willing to try everything, but who knows?

 

[LookN2Talk]

I’d say yes…it might not be the lack of sex per say, but more so being older, knowing yourself better, change of mindset..I think affection, kissing, just having hands on your skin would be missed more so than actual sex…just my thoughts

I agree! As we have matured, my wife is all about the hands on, cuddling, kissing, and the more this takes place the more the other does. For example as we cuddle more, she has opened up more to new things such as toys and additional play. Funny how she started out much more adventurous than I was, to the reverse, to now better than ever after many years of of a serious drought. Your lady friend could very well possibly be ready for much much more but only after some tender hugging. She sounds as though she might need to be held for a very long time. Then watch out, my wife she has hit her sexual revolution.

 

[GOODLUCKEVA]

An old girlfriend of mine lives not too far away. Since I broke up with her back in college, she hasn't had a very happy life. She was married briefly, had a kid, and then her husband left. It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

When we went out, for about two months close to forty years ago, it was purely a sexual relationship for me. She adored me. Eventually, I felt guilty using her for sex and left her out of conscience. While we were together, she never said no, except to anal.

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

It's a fantasy for me that she might be willing to try everything, but who knows?

It sounds like you really care about her and are reflecting on the past with empathy. If I were in her shoes, after years without intimacy, I'd probably feel nervous yet curious about exploring new things. But it would depend on how comfortable and safe she felt with you. Patience, respect, and open communication will be very important.

 

[KatieDoes]

An old girlfriend of mine lives not too far away. Since I broke up with her back in college, she hasn't had a very happy life. She was married briefly, had a kid, and then her husband left. It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

When we went out, for about two months close to forty years ago, it was purely a sexual relationship for me. She adored me. Eventually, I felt guilty using her for sex and left her out of conscience. While we were together, she never said no, except to anal.

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

It's a fantasy for me that she might be willing to try everything, but who knows?

What makes you think she hasn’t had sex?

It’s ridiculously easy for a woman to obtain sexual attention from men. If she’d wanted to have sex, she could have had sex. She might have been discreet about it, but there’s zero reason to believe that a woman who wanted to have sex has been celibate for 30 years.

You used a woman who adored you for sex for a few months 40 years ago, and you think she’s just dying to offer you free access to use her body again? Why would she?

 

[StrongMaster7]

What makes you think she hasn’t had sex?

It’s ridiculously easy for a woman to obtain sexual attention from men. If she’d wanted to have sex, she could have had sex. She might have been discreet about it, but there’s zero reason to believe that a woman who wanted to have sex has been celibate for 30 years.

You used a woman who adored you for sex for a few months 40 years ago, and you think she’s just dying to offer you free access to use her body again? Why would she?

You are 100% correct that I have no idea if she is "dying to offer me free access to use her body again". And I agree with you 100% that she could easily have sex if she wanted to. I suspect she has not had sex in thirty years because she told me she hadn't about a year ago.

 

[KatieDoes]

You are 100% correct that I have no idea if she is "dying to offer me free access to use her body again". And I agree with you 100% that she could easily have sex if she wanted to. I suspect she has not had sex in thirty years because she told me she hadn't about a year ago.

So what is it that leads you to believe that she would want to fulfill your fantasies?

 

[KentLondon]

When I was a tennis coach I gave lessons to a very attractive lady who, once we had built up a friendship and had a coffee after our sessions, revealed that since her divorce she had not had sex in 12 years.
My tongue and cock were happy to change that situation and she enjoyed the most incredible, noisy orgasms.
Her tennis improved as well, especially her grip and length!

 

[Britva415]

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

Not a lady, but, I don't know why this would have anything to do with how long it has been.

 

[GoodnessO]

An old girlfriend of mine lives not too far away. Since I broke up with her back in college, she hasn't had a very happy life. She was married briefly, had a kid, and then her husband left. It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

When we went out, for about two months close to forty years ago, it was purely a sexual relationship for me. She adored me. Eventually, I felt guilty using her for sex and left her out of conscience. While we were together, she never said no, except to anal.

My question for the ladies is this. If you were her, would you be more open to more kinky sex (toys, anal, outfits) after so many years with no sex at all?

It's a fantasy for me that she might be willing to try everything, but who knows?

You sound like a real ass to me. Just saying.

 

[Britva415]

It's been thirty years and I suspect that she has not had sex in all that time.

Based on what?