Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal amount of playtime and pace with a partner, and how many times do you like to orgasm/cum?

DarkestParts

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Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time:) I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?
 
Being female I suppose it comes as no surprise that I want a longer session. I like plenty of concentrated sensual time but I also desire some seriously dirty and hard fuck time. I like it when my pussy can feel that it's been used after playtime! That nice good ache is a sign of a good time:) I love edging as it capitalizes on anticipation and builds the pleasure of the climax. On my own I've enjoyed some lovely 3-4 hour long sessions of play where I came about 5 times. I need a little respite in between usually but not long. With an online partner I've never gotten to experience anything longer than half an hour due to circumstances. I think the most I came with them was 4 times.

Long or short? Fast or slow? What's your ideal?
All of it for hours! 🤩
 
Depends on situation and with whom. My wife now on the rare occasions prefers it relatively short and fast and I oblige.
My lady FWB prefers it medium.
I love it any way possible...
...any way possible...

I'm translating that as, "I want it all any way I can get it", and that's something I can definitely get behind. Or rather in front of, actually, positionally speaking:)
 
Am I the only one that likes both during one enjoyable playtime.. Start slow and complete orgasms from fucking and oral . relaxing and freshening up then I want him to be aggressive and free to uses me as he wishes as long as he wants. Then recover in the hot tub!!!!!!!
Sounds great! Oh, to be used. Isn't that one of the best things about being a woman?
 
It really depends on the mood and situation. Sometimes a nice slow session is desired but I can quite enjoy a quickie when there are time constraints. Especially outdoors like on a hiking trail or the parking area. Someone mentioned being taken or used which is almost ideal for a quickie. Perhaps in the kitchen bent over the table, lets spread wide and available for his use.
 
Male here - I like a slow, extended session with lots of sucking tits, licking pussy and 69 with my wife. She's generally the same and I've been successful often timing our orgasms in 69. I can't last long when I enter a warm wet cunt, so in those cases, I make sure she cums first before we fuck.

We've only had a 2-fer on rare occasion since her clit is very sensitive after she cums and she pushes me away when I try to keep licking her, so basically she's one and done. Me? I obviously need a refractory period, but I'd love to keep a session going for at least a double.
 
Being older now, i think theres a time and place for everything. But if have the time, hummm lets explore every inch of our bodies together. Deep kissing.. dam i need some good loving
 
Male here - I like a slow, extended session with lots of sucking tits, licking pussy and 69 with my wife. She's generally the same and I've been successful often timing our orgasms in 69. I can't last long when I enter a warm wet cunt, so in those cases, I make sure she cums first before we fuck.

We've only had a 2-fer on rare occasion since her clit is very sensitive after she cums and she pushes me away when I try to keep licking her, so basically she's one and done. Me? I obviously need a refractory period, but I'd love to keep a session going for at least a double.
You've got me curious. Do you give her a bit of a breather right after she cums? Move away from the clit for a few minutes or even longer and just let it desensitize for a while and focus on something else whether it's nibbling the neck, frenching, or maybe just running your hand along her thighs, belly, and chest? Maybe you already tried that. I can cum multiple times but my body needs to come down off the high a little usually. For whatever reason some sessions require a longer recovery period. I'm just thinking for her and your satisfaction there may be a way to extend sessions and bring her to orgasm more than once. Then again I could be completely off the mark, lol!
 
You've got me curious. Do you give her a bit of a breather right after she cums? Move away from the clit for a few minutes or even longer and just let it desensitize for a while and focus on something else whether it's nibbling the neck, frenching, or maybe just running your hand along her thighs, belly, and chest? Maybe you already tried that. I can cum multiple times but my body needs to come down off the high a little usually. For whatever reason some sessions require a longer recovery period. I'm just thinking for her and your satisfaction there may be a way to extend sessions and bring her to orgasm more than once. Then again I could be completely off the mark, lol!
Important for a lover to know !!
 
Online I can go for hours
Happy to help her again and again and again
Remotes help ensure I can really help
Like the Energizer bunny! Imagine how great those ads would have been if they'd advertised the batteries being used in vibrators! They could have used narration that said, "keeps going and going and going...just like she does! If only your batteries lasted that long, guys, she wouldn't need help from us"!
 
I love it for long and fast. I enjoy hard fucking. Can go on fucking for hours. With small breaks in between. I love gangbangs and dps. I am fast cummer. I cum about 5-6 times in 10 minutes.
 
Looong and sloooow....titty, pussy and ass slapping.....spanking ......calling dirty names........interspersed with tender caresses and nuzzling...kissing....mmmmoaning sweet nothings...
 
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