Guys who love to regularly film facials with their girls- a discussion thread

Shanes_OralOrations

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My favorite sexual activity is filming a hot blowjob from my wife, and finishing with a big load on her face. See the post in my signature for more details and how we got there in our relationship. My favorite porn past-time is re-watching, editing and mashing up those videos. I'd like to start a thread specifically where guys who are able to regularly enjoy the same activity with their women can share notes, ideas and discuss. Ladies who regularly participate are of course welcome to chime in! I'm fully hetero, so that's what I'm looking to hear about, but advice is advice from those who know.

Share what you'd like, but I have a few specific topics and questions to suggest for discussion.

1- If your partner is not as excited by it as you are, how do you get her to participate more often?

For us, the answer is long, and the subject of a previous post, but it comes down to having a great relationship, being clear about what I enjoy most, and being sure I reciprocate to often do the things she enjoys most (both in and out of the bedroom). While I'd love to spray her weekly, she's not into doing it that much. But we've managed to be semi-regular with it, and racked up hundreds of facials for her over the years, and I've managed to film many of them.

2- How do you prep to maximize your cumshot if you know a BJ is coming up?

I avoid cumming for at least 3 days, while intensely edging several times a day. Lots of water helps the volume, fruit juice for taste, and eating a bunch of celery I swear makes it a more creamy white.

3- How do you keep the experience fresh and exciting after many times?

Not that I'd ever tire of it, but we're in the habit of mixing something up with each blowjob. One is location. We ALWAYS film one if we're on vacation or in a hotel, we film in different rooms of the house, and even a bit outdoors if we can manage it. The other is dress-up. My wife usually wears a sexy outfit and does something fun and sexy with her hair and makeup. Filming a BJ is of course a heavily visual experience, so dressing it up is one of the funnest parts. Costumes, various lingerie, half on/half off street clothes, sexy shoes- we've done all sorts of things.

4- How do you film it?

Again for me, variety is key. We don't have any blowjobs that are filmed in one position with one fixed camera angle. I have a tripod for the video camera, so will often set it up for a side view, sometimes picking it up for a POV view. We pause often to take photos of her doing different things to my cock with her lips, mouth, tongue, hands and tits. Recently I'll use the tripod and a handheld phone to film most things from 2 angles at the same time. We vary positions in the room and BJ positions as well. Most of our BJs have 5 or 6 position changes (with camera changes of course) as we progress through. Played with the go-pro a bit too as a second wider angle camera.

5- What are your go to BJ positions?

I mean we've tried every position we can hold ourselves up in at this point, but most BJs for us have the same handful of positions we cycle through. I stand, she kneels on the floor or bed in classic porn fashion - and you just can't beat the visual appeal of that one IMO. I sit in a chair, she kneels in front of me. I lay on the bed and she lays beside or in front of me. I absolutely love it when she's laying on her stomach between my legs, working my cock and then kicks her feet up in air- swells my cock every time. I find I often need to hold the camera up high over my head and back to capture the full visual effect of that one- getting cock, face and feet all in one shot. We 69 sometimes, but usually with me on top, and I find that position more awkward to film well. Other go to is me standing by the bed, while she's on the bed on her hands (or elbows) and knees. She really gets aggressive in that position, slamming her head into my stomach as she bobs. It looks great filming from the side, and the POV inevitably pans up to film her ass swaying up in the air.

Every BJ also includes some tit fucking, with her looking up hotly at me as she bounces up and down, squeezing her tits around my shaft. Again a good camera lift here catches a great view. Other positions include her on her back. I'll stand by the bed and she turns her head so I can fuck her mouth. Great cheek stretching views with that one! We do her head lying off the back while I pump into her mouth from above too. She can't hold this one for too long, and I find it the most challenging position to film without a cameraman. Hard to get a great view of her face (which is the focus of all my filming). Sometimes she holds the camera for that one. I'll also straddle her chest at times and pump in her mouth, but we don't do this one as often. I think I enjoy the "active woman" positions a bit more.

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6- What are your facial goals? How do you film it? In what position?

It's all about the visual for me, both in the moment, and watching it later. My key goals (in priority order) are to 1- Make sure the cameras catch the best possible view of her face the entire time, 2- Get as much cum as possible directly on her face (or in her mouth), covering as much area as possible. 3- Make sure any drips that miss her face will get on her somewhere (breasts preferably), 4- try to avoid her eyes and hair (as long as it doesn't break an earlier rule- I'm successful about 40% of the time). I'll film them either POV or side view. I love both angles, and if possible will film both simultaneously (but it's hard to keep everything looking just right on 2 cameras when you're about to blow your load on a pretty face).

I'll usually have the finish position in mind before we start, and an idea where I want the camera. I almost always stand to cum on her, with her kneeling or sitting in front of me. When she kneels she tends to instinctively pop her head up a little too high just before the cum flies, so usually now I'll have her sit with her head leaning back against the bed, chair or couch. That keeps her low enough to cover and gives me the best angle to control where I spray. It also keeps her looking up at me, which is the whole reason facials are hot! We do a few other positions. Sometimes she sits in a big chair (like a hotel room one), and I'll stand on it to get her from above. Sometimes she lies on her back and I'll straddle her. Filmed some great loads that way, but I still prefer standing in front of her. I think it's easier to include her tits in the facial shot that way, and every money shot with tits in it is better than one without.

I let her suck me as long as possible up till just before I cum. I do a lot of checking of the tripod view in the build up, to make sure when she repositions slightly to receive, she'll still be fully in frame. I want to see more of her face, hair and body than I do of my hips and stomach! When it's time, I control the shaft. Her job is to look up at me (she does this with a big smile naturally), and keep her mouth and eyes open as much as she reasonably can. It's always hard to know how far the first few sprays are going to spurt, so unless I feel pretty confident I have a rocket about to launch, I'll have my tip over her chin, pointing either straight up her face, or to one cheek or the other. A big spurt usually gets mostly her hair, and a weaker splooge drops into her mouth or onto her lips, with most somewhere in between.

I usually have about 12 spurts when I cum (I've watched myself a lot in slo-mo) with the biggest ones in the first 5, and then an occasional big spurter or 3 towards the middle/end of the orgasm. When I do hit her eyes, it's usually either the first big spurt, or one of these late surprise ones. I try move my cock around to spray at different angles as I cum, sometimes moving over her further to let the later cum (which usually comes out in big drops that don't shoot far) cover areas I've missed. There's almost always one cheek that gets more than the other, and if I'm filming side view, I'll make sure that's the side that gets the most cum.

7- What's your after cum play?

The first thig we do it take lots of pictures from different angles, while she sits pretty still, often blinking cum out of her eyes and smiling and laughing. Facials are hot, but they're funny too! And so is my orgasm face I've been told.
It depends a bit on her mood, but sometimes she up for some after facial sucking, and pushing around of the cum on her face with my dick. My cum is pretty thick and stringy, and we've managed to work up some big long strings from my cock to her mouth or chin that make for some great after photos! Usually she's ready to clean up pretty quick after this, and take a break before I take my turn sucking her to orgasm. I'd like to play with my cum together more, but my sex drive plummets pretty quick after I cum.

8- What do you do with your videos after?

I have mine all very carefully organized into folders, usually named for some combination of the year, location, and outfit she wore for the BJ. That works well since we do such a variety of costumes and it makes them memorable. I actually made a spreadsheet eventually to track what positions, camera angles and facial ending are in each video so I can find them later for editing and compilations.

I always splice together the footage to make a full video of the encounter, then make a few shorter highlight versions to enjoy (the full are usually around 45min). I regularly make homemade porn music video style compilations of our blowjobs and facials. I think I have one that is over 20 minutes of me cumming on her continuously. I also enjoy mashing our vids up with porn stars, or other amateurs I find online. I watch our porn often when I masturbate. She watches with me sometimes, but is not as into it as me, so mostly they are for my enjoyment. I like the idea of sharing how hot she is, and we've very selectively shared a few things with people online, including a few couples with similar hobbies where I have made mash-up BJ vids of our girls for our own private enjoyment.

Well, that was more than I meant to write! Looking forward to hearing how other couples/guys do this, and see if there are any tips I can use!
 
Wow, for one thing, you have given this matter some serious thought! Kudos!

I will limit my response to human physiology.

We are mostly water, so eating water soluble substance, fresh fruits and vegetables will impact the taste and smell of semen (and other functions), same is true for women.

Asparagus, however delicious will negatively affect the smell. Eating sweet fruits will help. As far as semen production, I have not kept up with recent studies, but, when I looked into this a few years ago a product called semenex existed that swore would make your semen taste good and increase the production of it. You may want to read up on this, perhaps it will help you in your quest to filming the ultimate facial!

Hope this helps, enjoy your kink responsibly.

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I know I'm a lucky man, but there must be other guys out there with this hobby who have something to say.
I absolutely love how thoughtful you are about this. I also love to film facials with my wife. There is something very powerfully sexual about the act itself -- she is pleasuring me in a non-reciprocal way -- and the submissive aspect of her allowing me to finish on her face is very intoxicating to me for whatever reason. My wife isn't like wild about it, but she indulges me every now and then, much like yours.

I haven't given much thought to the filmography of it all. So far, we have mostly filmed impulsively, and so the quality is what one would expect from a horny pre-orgasmic man fumbling with a camera phone. But I've been wanting to get more elaborate lately. We've talked about getting better lights and sheets. Next time we film I am going to get out either the gopro or the DSLR and take higher-quality, better-posed images. I've been thinking of the outfit I want her to be (partially) wearing and the general postures I want it to be in.

I'd love to chat more! Would you mind if I DM you?
 
I absolutely love how thoughtful you are about this. I also love to film facials with my wife. There is something very powerfully sexual about the act itself -- she is pleasuring me in a non-reciprocal way -- and the submissive aspect of her allowing me to finish on her face is very intoxicating to me for whatever reason. My wife isn't like wild about it, but she indulges me every now and then, much like yours.

I haven't given much thought to the filmography of it all. So far, we have mostly filmed impulsively, and so the quality is what one would expect from a horny pre-orgasmic man fumbling with a camera phone. But I've been wanting to get more elaborate lately. We've talked about getting better lights and sheets. Next time we film I am going to get out either the gopro or the DSLR and take higher-quality, better-posed images. I've been thinking of the outfit I want her to be (partially) wearing and the general postures I want it to be in.

I'd love to chat more! Would you mind if I DM you?

Yeah for sure, love to chat about it more. The prep and planning is once of my favorite parts- the anticipation. Spontaneous is fun, but when it's planned you can think about outfit, positions, camera angles, etc. Not to mention do a little edging prep to get the optimal results. I've tolerated a lot of blue balls to get a bigger facial on camera! Unfortunately we don't get the preplanning ones as much as we used to given the busy stage of our lives (having to cancel last minute is a bummer), but sneak them in once in a while still.
 
I absolutely love how thoughtful you are about this. I also love to film facials with my wife. There is something very powerfully sexual about the act itself -- she is pleasuring me in a non-reciprocal way -- and the submissive aspect of her allowing me to finish on her face is very intoxicating to me for whatever reason. My wife isn't like wild about it, but she indulges me every now and then, much like yours.

I haven't given much thought to the filmography of it all. So far, we have mostly filmed impulsively, and so the quality is what one would expect from a horny pre-orgasmic man fumbling with a camera phone. But I've been wanting to get more elaborate lately. We've talked about getting better lights and sheets. Next time we film I am going to get out either the gopro or the DSLR and take higher-quality, better-posed images. I've been thinking of the outfit I want her to be (partially) wearing and the general postures I want it to be in.

I'd love to chat more! Would you mind if I DM you?

Ever consider having a friend do the video work for you ? It might make the whole experience more enjoyable for you and those that get to see the vid's .
 
Ever consider having a friend do the video work for you ? It might make the whole experience more enjoyable for you and those that get to see the vid's .
That would be fun, but I don't think we have any friends of that sort. Defiantly this is a private hobby and an unexpected one to anyone who knowns us!
 
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6- What are your facial goals? How do you film it? In what position?

It's all about the visual for me, both in the moment, and watching it later. My key goals (in priority order) are to 1- Make sure the cameras catch the best possible view of her face the entire time, 2- Get as much cum as possible directly on her face (or in her mouth), covering as much area as possible. 3- Make sure any drips that miss her face will get on her somewhere (breasts preferably), 4- try to avoid her eyes and hair (as long as it doesn't break an earlier rule- I'm successful about 40% of the time). I'll film them either POV or side view. I love both angles, and if possible will film both simultaneously (but it's hard to keep everything looking just right on 2 cameras when you're about to blow your load on a pretty face).

I'll usually have the finish position in mind before we start, and an idea where I want the camera. I almost always stand to cum on her, with her kneeling or sitting in front of me. When she kneels she tends to instinctively pop her head up a little too high just before the cum flies, so usually now I'll have her sit with her head leaning back against the bed, chair or couch. That keeps her low enough to cover and gives me the best angle to control where I spray. It also keeps her looking up at me, which is the whole reason facials are hot! We do a few other positions. Sometimes she sits in a big chair (like a hotel room one), and I'll stand on it to get her from above. Sometimes she lies on her back and I'll straddle her. Filmed some great loads that way, but I still prefer standing in front of her. I think it's easier to include her tits in the facial shot that way, and every money shot with tits in it is better than one without.

I let her suck me as long as possible up till just before I cum. I do a lot of checking of the tripod view in the build up, to make sure when she repositions slightly to receive, she'll still be fully in frame. I want to see more of her face, hair and body than I do of my hips and stomach! When it's time, I control the shaft. Her job is to look up at me (she does this with a big smile naturally), and keep her mouth and eyes open as much as she reasonably can. It's always hard to know how far the first few sprays are going to spurt, so unless I feel pretty confident I have a rocket about to launch, I'll have my tip over her chin, pointing either straight up her face, or to one cheek or the other. A big spurt usually gets mostly her hair, and a weaker splooge drops into her mouth or onto her lips, with most somewhere in between.

I usually have about 12 spurts when I cum (I've watched myself a lot in slo-mo) with the biggest ones in the first 5, and then an occasional big spurter or 3 towards the middle/end of the orgasm. When I do hit her eyes, it's usually either the first big spurt, or one of these late surprise ones. I try move my cock around to spray at different angles as I cum, sometimes moving over her further to let the later cum (which usually comes out in big drops that don't shoot far) cover areas I've missed. There's almost always one cheek that gets more than the other, and if I'm filming side view, I'll make sure that's the side that gets the most cum.

7- What's your after cum play?

The first thig we do it take lots of pictures from different angles, while she sits pretty still, often blinking cum out of her eyes and smiling and laughing. Facials are hot, but they're funny too! And so is my orgasm face I've been told.
It depends a bit on her mood, but sometimes she up for some after facial sucking, and pushing around of the cum on her face with my dick. My cum is pretty thick and stringy, and we've managed to work up some big long strings from my cock to her mouth or chin that make for some great after photos! Usually she's ready to clean up pretty quick after this, and take a break before I take my turn sucking her to orgasm. I'd like to play with my cum together more, but my sex drive plummets pretty quick after I cum.

8- What do you do with your videos after?

I have mine all very carefully organized into folders, usually named for some combination of the year, location, and outfit she wore for the BJ. That works well since we do such a variety of costumes and it makes them memorable. I actually made a spreadsheet eventually to track what positions, camera angles and facial ending are in each video so I can find them later for editing and compilations.

I always splice together the footage to make a full video of the encounter, then make a few shorter highlight versions to enjoy (the full are usually around 45min). I regularly make homemade porn music video style compilations of our blowjobs and facials. I think I have one that is over 20 minutes of me cumming on her continuously. I also enjoy mashing our vids up with porn stars, or other amateurs I find online. I watch our porn often when I masturbate. She watches with me sometimes, but is not as into it as me, so mostly they are for my enjoyment. I like the idea of sharing how hot she is, and we've very selectively shared a few things with people online, including a few couples with similar hobbies where I have made mash-up BJ vids of our girls for our own private enjoyment.

Well, that was more than I meant to write! Looking forward to hearing how other couples/guys do this, and see if there are any tips I can use!
Would love to see the spliced together videos in your collection!!!!
 
Ever consider having a friend do the video work for you ? It might make the whole experience more enjoyable for you and those that get to see the vid's .
I have a friend who has a very large cock that I have know since High School. He likes to wipe it out and show it to to girls and older women some say oh gross go away and a lot of them like what they see. My girl friend said your friend just showed me his cock and I told her that he does that all the time. I asked her while we where having sex if she wanted to suck his cock while I videos tape her sucking his cock. She said if that turns you on I will do it. Over 20 years now I have video or phone sexed him wiping out his cock and and have women giving him a blow job.
 

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I can't answer all the questions in detail though it really depends on my wife's mood that evening. She does enjoy giving head and she knows she's very good at it which helps ofc.

Those evenings when she's feeling extra naughty she'd hint that maybe she'll give me a show and say " fine go grab your cell and film whatever " hmmmm!!

It's not easy at all keeping my hands still so I'd often film whatever I could bur as I near my orgasm that's when I'm very careful to get that money shot so to speak. She's often very proud of what she's accomplished which is often a large load of cum either down her throat or on her pretty face 😜
 
I have a friend who has a very large cock that I have know since High School. He likes to wipe it out and show it to to girls and older women some say oh gross go away and a lot of them like what they see. My girl friend said your friend just showed me his cock and I told her that he does that all the time. I asked her while we where having sex if she wanted to suck his cock while I videos tape her sucking his cock. She said if that turns you on I will do it. Over 20 years now I have video or phone sexed him wiping out his cock and and have women giving him a blow job.
love it!
 
My favorite sexual activity is filming a hot blowjob from my wife, and finishing with a big load on her face. See the post in my signature for more details and how we got there in our relationship. My favorite porn past-time is re-watching, editing and mashing up those videos. I'd like to start a thread specifically where guys who are able to regularly enjoy the same activity with their women can share notes, ideas and discuss. Ladies who regularly participate are of course welcome to chime in! I'm fully hetero, so that's what I'm looking to hear about, but advice is advice from those who know.
Share what you'd like, but I have a few specific topics and questions to suggest for discussion.
1- If your partner is not as excited by it as you are, how do you get her to participate more often?
For us, the answer is long, and the subject of a previous post, but it comes down to having a great relationship, being clear about what I enjoy most, and being sure I reciprocate to often do the things she enjoys most (both in and out of the bedroom). While I'd love to spray her weekly, she's not into doing it that much. But we've managed to be semi-regular with it, and racked up hundreds of facials for her over the years, and I've managed to film many of them.
2- How do you prep to maximize your cumshot if you know a BJ is coming up?
I avoid cumming for at least 3 days, while intensely edging several times a day. Lots of water helps the volume, fruit juice for taste, and eating a bunch of celery I swear makes it a more creamy white.
3- How do you keep the experience fresh and exciting after many times?
Not that I'd ever tire of it, but we're in the habit of mixing something up with each blowjob. One is location. We ALWAYS film one if we're on vacation or in a hotel, we film in different rooms of the house, and even a bit outdoors if we can manage it. The other is dress-up. My wife usually wears a sexy outfit and does something fun and sexy with her hair and makeup. Filming a BJ is of course a heavily visual experience, so dressing it up is one of the funnest parts. Costumes, various lingerie, half on/half off street clothes, sexy shoes- we've done all sorts of things.
4- How do you film it?
Again for me, variety is key. We don't have any blowjobs that are filmed in one position with one fixed camera angle. I have a tripod for the video camera, so will often set it up for a side view, sometimes picking it up for a POV view. We pause often to take photos of her doing different things to my cock with her lips, mouth, tongue, hands and tits. Recently I'll use the tripod and a handheld phone to film most things from 2 angles at the same time. We vary positions in the room and BJ positions as well. Most of our BJs have 5 or 6 position changes (with camera changes of course) as we progress through. Played with the go-pro a bit too as a second wider angle camera.
5- What are your go to BJ positions?
I mean we've tried every position we can hold ourselves up in at this point, but most BJs for us have the same handful of positions we cycle through. I stand, she kneels on the floor or bed in classic porn fashion - and you just can't beat the visual appeal of that one IMO. I sit in a chair, she kneels in front of me. I lay on the bed and she lays beside or in front of me. I absolutely love it when she's laying on her stomach between my legs, working my cock and then kicks her feet up in air- swells my cock every time. I find I often need to hold the camera up high over my head and back to capture the full visual effect of that one- getting cock, face and feet all in one shot. We 69 sometimes, but usually with me on top, and I find that position more awkward to film well. Other go to is me standing by the bed, while she's on the bed on her hands (or elbows) and knees. She really gets aggressive in that position, slamming her head into my stomach as she bobs. It looks great filming from the side, and the POV inevitably pans up to film her ass swaying up in the air.
Every BJ also includes some tit fucking, with her looking up hotly at me as she bounces up and down, squeezing her tits around my shaft. Again a good camera lift here catches a great view. Other positions include her on her back. I'll stand by the bed and she turns her head so I can fuck her mouth. Great cheek stretching views with that one! We do her head lying off the back while I pump into her mouth from above too. She can't hold this one for too long, and I find it the most challenging position to film without a cameraman. Hard to get a great view of her face (which is the focus of all my filming). Sometimes she holds the camera for that one. I'll also straddle her chest at times and pump in her mouth, but we don't do this one as often. I think I enjoy the "active woman" positions a bit more.
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Giving a facial to a partner is my favourite way to cum. I’ve taken photos of the outcome a few times but haven’t filmed it yet. I’ve been meaning to but tend to get caught up in the moment. Guess I should try to get as organised as Shane clearly is.
 
Giving a facial to a partner is my favourite way to cum. I’ve taken photos of the outcome a few times but haven’t filmed it yet. I’ve been meaning to but tend to get caught up in the moment. Guess I should try to get as organised as Shane clearly is.
It’s all about planning ahead!
(Double meaning intended)
 
2- How do you prep to maximize your cumshot if you know a BJ is coming up?

I avoid cumming for at least 3 days, while intensely edging several times a day. Lots of water helps the volume, fruit juice for taste, and eating a bunch of celery I swear makes it a more creamy white.
I agree in order to maximise my cumshot I also avoid cumming and partake in edging for several days beforehand. Being hydrated certainly helps but too much water helps the volume but can thin the consistency. I use fruit smoothies, pineapple and mango, to help with taste and volume. Unfortunately I don't like celery, or I'd be eating loads now in preparation for tomorrow, and often don't have the creamy white look mentioned. Does anyone have any other recommendations for this I can try?
 
I have a friend who has a very large cock that I have know since High School. He likes to wipe it out and show it to to girls and older women some say oh gross go away and a lot of them like what they see. My girl friend said your friend just showed me his cock and I told her that he does that all the time. I asked her while we where having sex if she wanted to suck his cock while I videos tape her sucking his cock. She said if that turns you on I will do it. Over 20 years now I have video or phone sexed him wiping out his cock and and have women giving him a blow job.
Holy cow! Do you have any pics without his hand there?
 
My wife used to let me cum on her face. Hasn’t in a long time. She said it makes her feel like she can’t breathe.
I need to request this again soon and work something out with her.
Mine never has, so if you do manage to convince her, please share it here so we can all benefit from the successful "outcums" of your negotiations.
 
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