Long edging sessions, orgasm control, orgasm denial and huge cumshots

My wife loves controlling my orgasm over an extended period of time. We have sex a few times a week and it’s all for her orgasms and pleasure. (I enjoy it too but just don’t cum.) I can naturally last a long time w/o cumming so we fuck for a long time - sometimes 45 minutes or more.

Whenever I’m close I stop or edge inside her. I love making her cum. And I also like the feeling of intense horniness from going a long time w/o cumming.

She says she loves keeping me horny, attentive to her and needy. We’ve been together a long time and I know her spots and how to make her cum.

When she’s not in the mood for sex she will watch me masturbate and edge (“but don’t cum” she tells me). Being observed heightens the horniness. She also give really good, slow, long edging handjobs and abt once every 3-4 weeks will let me cum. Like on a weekend morning after a very long session. The orgasms are huge in volume and intensity… sometimes up to 10+ heavy ropes.

Right now I am on 3 weeks w/o orgasming and am ridiculously horny!! She sez she’s gonna let me cum on my birthday in a few weeks.
 
Edging is a great practice. Ive never gone that long but have edged for a day or so. It has helped my stamina and I agree with this statement: the orgasms are intense and I end up shooting several ropes. Often times ive shot cum up to my face. Ive also shot hot intense loads deep in my buddies ass from us sexting each other awhike. Masturbating as we texted our dirty thoughts but holding back our orgasms until we could meet in person.
 
Many years ago, I read in a porn magazine how now retired porn star Tracy Adams would have her co-stars edge themselves but refrain from cumming for at least a week before shooting scenes with them, desiring for them to produce large amounts of cum. I credit her with giving me this idea that I have done to my husband many times.
 
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I will edge for long periods of time before cumming. Sometimes I’ll go a whole week, then I’ll let my wife have the pleasure of finishing me.
I don’t do this all the time, sometimes I just need a quick 5 minute release.
 
There were 2 circumstances when I used to edge a lot.

The 1st was preparing to have sex with my wife. It wasn't to "build back better", i.e., produce bigger loads, but it was to build the anticipation so that when the time came I'd be really very horny to cum.

The 2nd was/is when I'm online viewing porn or chatting. I like to edge for a long time, tasting my precum and, again, building the anticipation before cumming.
 
My wife edged me for a shorter time than normal yesterday. We had company and so it was shorter and much quieter.

She edged me for a little bit but then had me play with myself and edge while she watched me. For some of the session, she caressed my balls, pressed down on my prostate (externally) and then put her hand firmly around my throat as I edged. It was hot, knowing our company was just upstairs.

And last nite, I woke up in the middle of the nite and couldn’t sleep so I watched some porn and edged. I did not cum either time. My wife sez she’s gonna release me on my birthday, which is the end of NEXT week… it’s been almost three weeks since I’ve cum.

Once our company leaves today, so we’ll be able to also resume our sex life and fucking much more openly.
 
Definitely love doing this, and always impressed with anyone who can hold off for such extended lengths of time. Most I could ever handle, that would be overly long for me, is a day or two. But to edge for a few hours, certainly.
 
I love it, but haven’t done it for weeks at a time. It definitely helps when schedules don’t align, and we can’t meet up as often
 
I love to stroke for hours before finally cumming. Not always in one session but just getting myself close through out the day and then later or the next day edging until I finally cum. It feels so good to just pulse and throb but still hold back. I love feeling how strong my erections are and the feeling of my cock twitching at the edge of cumming. Then to finally release that built up load!!!! making a huge sticky mess blasting cum up to my chest.
 
I love it. My wife edges me most nights. We have our bedtime music playlist during which we kiss and cuddle which usually progresses to her edging me. However, the rule is when the last song starts playing time's up and everything stops. Most nights it's 'close but no cigar'. She is quite expert at it. Then eventually after several days I get so horny that even the smallest amount of stimulation sends me over the edge.

Oh... And the last song on that playlist... 'Cry me a river'. I hate that song now 🤣
 
She is quite expert at it.
I love that! My wife knows me so well… she too is excellent At either getting me so ridiculously close I can’t stand it (without tipping me over) or she gives me the slowest handjobs without me ever having hope of getting me near the edge.

I wish she’d turn pro, honestly! I’d love to see make other men squirm and be frustrated.
 
I love that! My wife knows me so well… she too is excellent At either getting me so ridiculously close I can’t stand it (without tipping me over) or she gives me the slowest handjobs without me ever having hope of getting me near the edge.

I wish she’d turn pro, honestly! I’d love to see make other men squirm and be frustrated.
I'd volunteer to be her first client. I LOVE edging and often do it for days.
 
On sunday we had another long edging session. First we had sex. She loves it in spoons position. She’s multiorgasmic and just loves it when I do all the work, and she gets to simply sit back and receive the orgasms.

It takes me a long time to cum, so we went at it a while. I varied my speed, and know how to hit her g spot. When I got close, I would back off or let it get flaccid a bit till the pending orgasm passed. Then went back at it.

We did that for abt 45 minutes.

Then she had me masturbate for her.

Unfortunately I went a TINY bit too long past the edge. It was feeling so good. Even tho over the edge, I clenched down and also breathed really deeply. I couldn’t save it , but did turn it into a ruined orgasm. Only a tiny bit of cum came out and my wife was OK w that.

She did push back my release date by a week tho as punishment. So probably the 27/28th or so…
 
This morning she did something she never did before. She had me masturbate a bit before work and sit in a chair bedside so she could observe me.

Then she got out of bed and took control. She grabbed my cock on the upper side w her right hand and with her left she rubbed and tapped/spanked the underside of my penis. I got closer and closer to the edge and she was really in control. She backed off when I told her I was close and when thw feeling passed away, she’d resume.

This went on for about 45 minutes. I was very close to the edge but she was controlling me masterfully.

She sent me off to work with blue balls again….

EDIT: I just read this out loud to my wife and she added more context. “I told you you have to stop because you were late for work.”! 😂😂😂😂

(Don’t tell my boss!!) “bad traffic”
 
Today is my birthday and my wife wanted to make it memorable.

That she did: she gave me the most fantastic edging hand job and blow job this morning. She had me sit on the bedside chair and put my legs up on the bed while she got in between my legs and sucked me and handjobbed me for a good 45 minutes without letting me cum.

I was fully nude and she was in gorgeous skimpy little nighty. God it was hot! I was desperate and having little quaking mini body orgasms.

She is amazingly good and intuitive and how close she can get me without cumming. Naturally, I need to tell her, but she also can pick up on it and knows when to go really really slow or stop when I’m close.

My right ball still hurts.

I have no other way to describe what she did this morning other than “exquisite.”
 
Did a 6 hr edge the other morning. Let loose a torrent of cum in long shots when I finally came.
Edging now.
Just relaxing with long slow strokes.

It’s been so long since I’ve cum, I can just edge and have these great body orgasms.

Woke up in the middle of the night and couldn’t get back to sleep. My remedy: edging session for about 45 minutes (no cumming) and my body just relaxed and contracted and felt good and I was able to fall asleep!
 
I have a slave. An amazing slave.
Our relationship lives in the virtual world. We live close enough to each other that we are both concerned about where the relationship would go if we crossed the line between virtual and reality.

He let's me know when he has alone time to stroke. Often, we text while in our respective beds masturbating.

If he is alone, that text turns to video and we watch each other. About how he should be servicing me. And how he will be awarded.

It is too often our play time is interrupted by someone on his side. When that happens, we stop, and he is now edged, with a very aroused cock, and trying to hide both facts.

There have been times when we have done this throughout a 3-week span.

When he cums, and I see the swollen, stretching cock and his balls tighten, I know he is ready to explode.

The first shot usually solicits my moan and orgasm as he continues to shoot 5 or 6 or 7 more ropes of cum.

All that edging and frustration completed in an eruption of cum and moaning.
 
I have a slave. An amazing slave.
Our relationship lives in the virtual world. We live close enough to each other that we are both concerned about where the relationship would go if we crossed the line between virtual and reality.

He let's me know when he has alone time to stroke. Often, we text while in our respective beds masturbating.

If he is alone, that text turns to video and we watch each other. About how he should be servicing me. And how he will be awarded.

It is too often our play time is interrupted by someone on his side. When that happens, we stop, and he is now edged, with a very aroused cock, and trying to hide both facts.

There have been times when we have done this throughout a 3-week span.

When he cums, and I see the swollen, stretching cock and his balls tighten, I know he is ready to explode.

The first shot usually solicits my moan and orgasm as he continues to shoot 5 or 6 or 7 more ropes of cum.

All that edging and frustration completed in an eruption of cum and moaning.
Lucky man!
 
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