My New Years Pleasure Resolutions

[IsabellaEmily]

Sorry for the delay in responding. Out of pocket for a few days. Paraphrasing "Eastbound and Down" (Smokey and the Bandit), "You're gonna do what they say can't be done. You've got a long way to go and a short time to get there...". Your extensive and specific list is an impressive undertaking given the time frame of only a year. That was my point.

Great....now I've got Jerry Reed crooning away in my head. But I won't complain too much, there are worse songs lol.

Yeah it's a lot, but I'm at peace with not finishing them all. (Gotta have something to work on in 2026 right?)

And lots of them are interconnected so accomplishing one or two will put me in position to easily check off a few more in rapid succession.

At least I hope.

But as they say, it's not the destination...it's the journey.

Even if I spend the next 46 and a half weeks working on half the list it will be an interesting and pleasurable way to pass the time.

Hope you being out of pocket was okay! Glad you're back...either way!
IsabellaEmily

 

[Diann_Mom]

As we look forward to 2025, I want to make a list of some personal goals for myself as a pleasure addicted pervert.

It’s my hope to be able to revisit this during the year to chart my progress, encourage myself, and see what I’ve learned about myself, my husband, and our circle of kinky friends.

I’ve grouped the goals into a few loose categories, but there’s a lot of overlap and they’re in no particular order.

Some things aren’t on the list because I’ve already tried them and loved them and do them often, or because I’ve tried them and didn’t care for them, or because I’m just not interested in trying them.

Hopefully this goes without saying, but I’ll include it anyway: this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.

My husband and I have a circle of friends we play with, there are no secrets between us, and with a few exceptions we already have people in mind to help us with these goals. I’m not trolling for one time hook ups, or interested in cheating on him, or interested in meeting random partners.

In 2025 as a wife, I want to:

Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic.

Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible.

Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum.

Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires.

Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress.

Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls.

Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025.

Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc.

Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt.

Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean

In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:

Attend more events.

Bring at least one new couple into our circle.

Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married.

Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them.

Visit/set up a handjob glory hole.

Edge two or more men at once.

Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them.

Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time.

Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me.

Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play.

Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends.

Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session.

Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women.

Engage in more outdoor play/exploration.

Explore more discreet public play.

Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF).

Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF).

In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:

Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!)

Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!)

Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner.

Engage in more outdoor masturbation.

Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner.

Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play.

Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors.

Just a few personal goals for 2025:

Get a tattoo
Another piercing
Biking
Hiking
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe.

That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.

My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!

I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).

I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Love, IsabellaEmily

It's going to be a busy but pleasurable year for you @IsabellaEmily . Of your list I have checked off very few but there is a lot of time left in the year. Good luck!

 

[SmokingFap]

Great....now I've got Jerry Reed crooning away in my head. But I won't complain too much, there are worse songs lol.

Yeah it's a lot, but I'm at peace with not finishing them all. (Gotta have something to work on in 2026 right?)

And lots of them are interconnected so accomplishing one or two will put me in position to easily check off a few more in rapid succession.

At least I hope.

But as they say, it's not the destination...it's the journey.

Even if I spend the next 46 and a half weeks working on half the list it will be an interesting and pleasurable way to pass the time.

Hope you being out of pocket was okay! Glad you're back...either way!
IsabellaEmily

Your goals sound so much more interesting and fun than building a log cabin by hand for learning how to grout your own bathroom, so just enjoy trying to accomplish them.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Nice.

I want to be tied up more often too, kept in chastity, spanked, kept nude, and wear my new sissy outfits in front of everyone else like I am at home.

 

[screwher]

This year I would like my wife and I to expand our hotwife horizons. Starting with her taking a couple more regular lovers. And maybe a couple one night stands as well.

She also confessed to still having the hots for her former GM. And she wants a BBC experience.

I would also like for us to experiment more. Have a boyfriend;
Spend a weekend with us.
Join us on a holiday out of town.
My wife and him spend a weekend alone in a hotel room.

 

[Exhibit7inches]

As we look forward to 2025, I want to make a list of some personal goals for myself as a pleasure addicted pervert.

It’s my hope to be able to revisit this during the year to chart my progress, encourage myself, and see what I’ve learned about myself, my husband, and our circle of kinky friends.

I’ve grouped the goals into a few loose categories, but there’s a lot of overlap and they’re in no particular order.

Some things aren’t on the list because I’ve already tried them and loved them and do them often, or because I’ve tried them and didn’t care for them, or because I’m just not interested in trying them.

Hopefully this goes without saying, but I’ll include it anyway: this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.

My husband and I have a circle of friends we play with, there are no secrets between us, and with a few exceptions we already have people in mind to help us with these goals. I’m not trolling for one time hook ups, or interested in cheating on him, or interested in meeting random partners.

In 2025 as a wife, I want to:

Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic.

Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible.

Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum.

Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires.

Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress.

Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls.

Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025.

Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc.

Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt.

Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean

In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:

Attend more events.

Bring at least one new couple into our circle.

Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married.

Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them.

Visit/set up a handjob glory hole.

Edge two or more men at once.

Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them.

Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time.

Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me.

Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play.

Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends.

Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session.

Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women.

Engage in more outdoor play/exploration.

Explore more discreet public play.

Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF).

Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF).

In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:

Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!)

Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!)

Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner.

Engage in more outdoor masturbation.

Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner.

Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play.

Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors.

Just a few personal goals for 2025:

Get a tattoo
Another piercing
Biking
Hiking
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe.

That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.

My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!

I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).

I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Love, IsabellaEmily

I'd like to volunteer at a regular cam partner

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Great....now I've got Jerry Reed crooning away in my head. But I won't complain too much, there are worse songs lol.

Yeah it's a lot, but I'm at peace with not finishing them all. (Gotta have something to work on in 2026 right?)

And lots of them are interconnected so accomplishing one or two will put me in position to easily check off a few more in rapid succession.

At least I hope.

But as they say, it's not the destination...it's the journey.

Even if I spend the next 46 and a half weeks working on half the list it will be an interesting and pleasurable way to pass the time.

Hope you being out of pocket was okay! Glad you're back...either way!
IsabellaEmily

At least Burt Reynolds took his hat off to get some head!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'm slowly getting to do at least some of those things and I'm so happy.

 

[Mrman69]

As we look forward to 2025, I want to make a list of some personal goals for myself as a pleasure addicted pervert.

It’s my hope to be able to revisit this during the year to chart my progress, encourage myself, and see what I’ve learned about myself, my husband, and our circle of kinky friends.

I’ve grouped the goals into a few loose categories, but there’s a lot of overlap and they’re in no particular order.

Some things aren’t on the list because I’ve already tried them and loved them and do them often, or because I’ve tried them and didn’t care for them, or because I’m just not interested in trying them.

Hopefully this goes without saying, but I’ll include it anyway: this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.

My husband and I have a circle of friends we play with, there are no secrets between us, and with a few exceptions we already have people in mind to help us with these goals. I’m not trolling for one time hook ups, or interested in cheating on him, or interested in meeting random partners.

In 2025 as a wife, I want to:

Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic.

Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible.

Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum.

Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires.

Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress.

Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls.

Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025.

Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc.

Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt.

Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean

In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:

Attend more events.

Bring at least one new couple into our circle.

Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married.

Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them.

Visit/set up a handjob glory hole.

Edge two or more men at once.

Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them.

Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time.

Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me.

Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play.

Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends.

Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session.

Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women.

Engage in more outdoor play/exploration.

Explore more discreet public play.

Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF).

Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF).

In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:

Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!)

Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!)

Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner.

Engage in more outdoor masturbation.

Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner.

Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play.

Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors.

Just a few personal goals for 2025:

Get a tattoo
Another piercing
Biking
Hiking
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe.

That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.

My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!

I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).

I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Love, IsabellaEmily

I would like to see your peeing
Pics

 

[desire30]

The year has started badly, Husband very ill. but his mind is working over time on ideas for me...A corporate President that want to talk about a Management Partnership with us. I was told to get the contract at any cost! My Husband agreed!!

My sister in law has a growing teenager that hormones are going wild...He has picture of me on his wall.

Within our country club community is a sexual active group.. we know them all and even though David is sick he want a pool and cook out party !!!!

And the list goes on ,,,

 

[desire30]

The year has started badly, Husband very ill. but his mind is working over time on ideas for me...A corporate President that want to talk about a Management Partnership with us. I was told to get the contract at any cost! My Husband agreed!!

My sister in law has a growing teenager that hormones are going wild...He has picture of me on his wall.

Within our country club community is a sexual active group.. we know them all and even though David is sick he want a pool and cook out party !!!!

And the list goes on ,,,

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Sorry to hear that David is ill. The rest of your 'problems' sound more like potential opportunities, that most of us here would love to have. Lucky you.

P.S. Best wishes to David and hope he gets well soon.

 

[ArabianNights]

Ia there any update on how the list is going?

 

[IsabellaEmily]

Ia there any update on how the list is going?

There needs to be because I am very past due.

I'm working on it, and I'll share it right here in this thread so those following can find it easily.

 

[ArabianNights]

There needs to be because I am very past due.

I'm working on it, and I'll share it right here in this thread so those following can find it easily.

Look forward hearing what you have crossed off and what you enjoyed, what surprised you and what you didn't like.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

We are more than one third of the way through 2025, so I wanted to do a long overdue check in on my progress here.

I’m going to summarize first, but below I’ve copied my original list and have added progress commentary in bold to make it easier for those who have been following along to skim to the progress without having to reread each item.

It's been a good year so far, with the biggest disappointment being one of my oldest and dearest friends having to cancel her trip to Florida. Not only was I looking forward to some kinky play time with her, but even if that wasn’t an option I still adore her and love spending time with her.

I’ve loved having this list, because it’s helped me be intentional about doing the things I wrote down on it. It’s a reminder to not just settle for an ordinary night but to meet my husband at the door with a kinky plan, or to go on a hike with a definite goal of some outdoor play or nudity.

It's also served as a sad reminder of how easy it is to let time just slip by, and how one lazy evening can become two or three and then suddenly you’re just paying bills and doing chores and getting through the day without savoring the things that are important (I’m not just talking about kink of course…but kink is definitely on that list!)

I appreciate all of your comments and private messages encouraging me and checking in on how things are coming along.

And just like my initial post I should clarify that this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.

Between my husband and our circle of friends I have all the help I need.

Onto the actual list and some updates.

In 2025 as a wife, I want to:

Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic. So far so great with this. Lots of this was already a part of our play time, so it’s not like we had to start new habits to accomplish any of this. But being intentional about it has been fun.

Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible. Also going well.

Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum. This is mostly successful. I’ve met him naked at the door more often than I’ve been on all fours, so I can definitely work on bringing my average up.

Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires. We did so good at this during the week leading up to Valentine’s Day that I think it’s safe to say this one has been accomplished.

Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress. Haven’t worn a diaper out in public yet, but we’ve done the rest a lot.

Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls. Gone for a car ride like this (he drove), but haven’t actually been in a public place like a restaurant or store.

Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025. We’ve done more than three hours so far, which means we aren’t really on pace for this goal. We need to pick up the pace.

Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc. We attended a nude house party with some dancing and heavy making out/foreplay. But we still have a long way to go to accomplish most on this list, including the biggest part of being on vacation/getaway.

Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt. We have an old friend coming to the area in mid-June, and she is very into this idea.

Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean
He found me an younger man to play with (someone we’ve both known a while) and it was amazing. Long way to go to count this as completed though.

In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:

Attend more events. We need to work on this.

Bring at least one new couple into our circle. Haven’t done this yet either.

Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married. Hopefully before summer ends. We have a couple in mind and they’re open to this.

Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them. Her visit was cancelled/postponed, so this fell apart. We’ll definitely see her at Christmas but we won’t have time to indulge in most of the things on this list. Hopeful that she makes it this way for a work trip this fall.

Visit/set up a handjob glory hole. Not yet.

Edge two or more men at once. Not yet.

Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them. It was brief, but we all enjoyed it so much that we’re going to do it again. It was absolutely delicious.

Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time. Not yet.

Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me. Not yet.

Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play. I’ve done well at this. If I make another list like this for 2026 I think ropes/restraints will factor much more heavily into it.

Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends. Yes. Absolutely divine.

Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session. I need this badly, but it hasn’t happened yet.

Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women. I need this too. Women are so fun to cuddle with.

Engage in more outdoor play/exploration. Oh my yes.

Explore more discreet public play. We have, but what we’ve done is so tame it hardly counts. If I were giving myself grades on this I’d barely be earning a D- on this one.

Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF). Sadly not yet.

Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF). Not yet either.

In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:

Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!) I’m getting better. Practice makes perfect.

Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!) Not yet, I’m still dreaming of this one.

Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner. Not yet.

Engage in more outdoor masturbation. Not enough to count as ‘more’.

Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner. We started strong, but his schedule has gotten complicated so we’re struggling.

Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play. I am pretty good at prioritizing my own pleasure.

Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors. I need to step up my pace on this.

Just a few personal goals for 2025:

Get a tattoo Not yet
Another piercing Not yet
Biking Some but not much
Hiking Lots, this is definitely happening a lot this year
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe. This has been a very dry year so far.

That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.

My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!

I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).

I hope your 2025 is going well!
Love, IsabellaEmily