Litiquette

[Canbe4fun]

LMAO That is awesome. Last time I went to vegas, I wore MissMe jeans... they are the cute, fancy butt, jeans. I set off the machine. Awesome. So they swab my hands. Guess what, the bath and body sparkle body lotion gives a positive reaction to those hand swabs. Me, and all of my stuff got searched and I got to go in a closet and get felt up by two ladies. It was AWESOME . I vowed to travel home naked if I had to, to avoid that mess again. On the way home. I wore a cotton tank top with a built in bra, cotton panties, yoga pants and flip flops. I did not want the TSA loving on me any more. eeek!

Body lotion! Who knew, i had to tip my agent to get the closet...but it was messed up, i tipped a lady agent and got bubba instead, he had nice hands, but i think if you tip, they should take requests...

 

[Little_Sister]

Body lotion! Who knew, i had to tip my agent to get the closet...but it was messed up, i tipped a lady agent and got bubba instead, he had nice hands, but i think if you tip, they should take requests...

That's what they told me... they said it tests for nitrates and lots of cosmetics and lotions have it in them. I had no idea. It was all because of the MissMe jeans tho.

 

[ChainedUp]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

 

[Astaylith]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

I'm not gonna lie, I do love to be chased. I'm not saying I dislike booty calls, I've responded to them and most likely will continue to do so, but still, toss a little woo at me!

 

[BreezySnow]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

Definitely the courtship... the romance and making the person feel so wanted and needed... that ritual should never end even when in a relationship, should always make the person feel special and have romance in your life!

 

[stickygirl]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

Courtship - or at least some straws of personality to grasp onto. The best part of cyber ( hope this is what we're talking about ) are the human touches that make the connection personal: that he remembers an old shared joke, or that he knows what colour my hair is. Without it I'd much rather masturbate.

 

[dutchrain]

I'm not gonna lie, I do love to be chased. I'm not saying I dislike booty calls, I've responded to them and most likely will continue to do so, but still, toss a little woo at me!

Definitely the courtship... the romance and making the person feel so wanted and needed... that ritual should never end even when in a relationship, should always make the person feel special and have romance in your life!

Courtship - or at least some straws of personality to grasp onto. The best part of cyber ( hope this is what we're talking about ) are the human touches that make the connection personal: that he remembers an old shared joke, or that he knows what colour my hair is. Without it I'd much rather masturbate.

It seems these ladies had a peek or two in my mind.

 

[may_I_please]

I'm not gonna lie, I do love to be chased. I'm not saying I dislike booty calls, I've responded to them and most likely will continue to do so, but still, toss a little woo at me!

Definitely the courtship... the romance and making the person feel so wanted and needed... that ritual should never end even when in a relationship, should always make the person feel special and have romance in your life!

Courtship - or at least some straws of personality to grasp onto. The best part of cyber ( hope this is what we're talking about ) are the human touches that make the connection personal: that he remembers an old shared joke, or that he knows what colour my hair is. Without it I'd much rather masturbate.

It seems these ladies had a peek or two in my mind.

And they stay girls are hard to understand

 

[Thandi]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

Nah...you gotta woo me, and in a very smart funny way.
I love romance.

 

[NotHisLady]

It's Friday , it's Friday, it's Friday.........

Booty Calls. We've all been part of one, and sometimes they are fantastic and sometimes you can be left feeling a bit used. We all believe the random "wanna fuck" PMs have a really low success rate. But doesn't Lit lends itself more to Booty Calls than RL? So are we for Booty Calls or do we still want/enjoy the courtship ritual?

I don't like that arrangement at all. Anyone who doesn't want to take the time to know me doesn't need to know my body.
There should be some attachment even if it's a very deep friendship--an intimate friendship that is based on more than just physical gratification.

Also there are people who will let a person believe there is an attachment where there isn't any in order to get those sorts of encounters. I myself feel for that in my rather naive youth--he began treating me like 'girlfriend' material and ended up only wanting me for sex. That realization was hugely hurtful. I'd say be leery of that arrangement at best. I myself avoid it.

 

[ChainedUp]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

 

[NotHisLady]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

Then it's a moment of pure passion, brief and intense.
Bring it on.

 

[Canbe4fun]

Romance is such work though, i cared enough to single you out, i had flowers but left them on my table...

 

[dutchrain]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

In a relationship with each other? Well, then there will be other times for woo and admiration and washing the dishes won't there?

 

[Canbe4fun]

Romance is such work though, i cared enough to single you out, i had flowers but left them on my table...

That being said, i think even a booty call is a long process, that was nurtured over time, with understanding and care, trust and compassion, and there must have been romance, or you cant even stand at the plate to ask... If this is your only form of quickie communication, then likely something was lost along the way... , sometimes one just needs relief, but the foundation of the relationship still needs to be strong...

 

[may_I_please]

I agree with this

That being said, i think even a booty call is a long process, that was nurtured over time, with understanding and care, trust and compassion, and there must have been romance, or you cant even stand at the plate to ask... If this is your only form of quickie communication, then likely something was lost along the way... , sometimes one just needs relief, but the foundation of the relationship still needs to be strong...

For booty calls you both must be in the same mindspace at the same time

They can be hot in their simple lack of regard for anything but release. Until one of you thinks a little deeper about it, or personal situations change.

 

[Astaylith]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

Nah....doesn't matter if it's a booty call or a relationship, I want and need foreplay and some intimacy. With my former fuck buddy, we did some foreplay but not enough. And it kind of bothered me that he didn't want to cuddle. Just because our relationship was a 50/50 mixture of friendship and fucking didn't mean I just wanted to hit it and quit it.

I think what I like most about FWB is there's intimacy, but there's boundaries that won't let it get serious, which is something I'm not sure I'm ready for right now. I think that's why I'm ok with booty calls; I like the woo and the chase and the random fucking.

 

[Thandi]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

If you are both of the same mindset and there are no hurt feelings, then absofuckenlutely!

 

[stickygirl]

For booty calls you both must be in the same mindspace at the same time

They can be hot in their simple lack of regard for anything but release. Until one of you thinks a little deeper about it, or personal situations change.

mmmyeah... I think for every booty call in a long term relationship there have to be flower calls, I'll wash up calls, lets go out calls, and Downton Abbey calls. Only saying

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

*shrugs* Never been a part of a booty call. I wonder if more men should answer this one. I would be interested to live vicariously.

 

[ChainedUp]

I've not ever been part of a pure booty call. Mine have always been as part of a relationship and when one of the two can look over and say to the other " I think you should fuck me" it's hot as shit!

 

[cowslinger64]

Some people here take themselves way too seriously IMO. If you're gonna meet someone, then really getting to know them is super important. If it's just playing around with someone on pm or phone on occasion, enjoy it for what it is. While I don't see giving it up to just anyone, especially someone you've never talked to, or to everyone... this "i pump gold bars out my vergina" attitude is ridiculous. Lighten up a little, unfurl yer knickers and enjoy the ride.




BTW.. I'm going with the assumption we are talking about on/off the board activities...not real life.

 

[BreezySnow]

I get the woo component, I really do. But what if you are in a relationship , and it's a pure booty call, I have time enough to fuck you, let's do this. No pretense of foreplay or post sex cuddle. Fuck and then their gone, relationship fully intact.

That is totally different because you are invested in each other and sometimes just a good fuck is all you need!

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Clarification

Fuck buddy ≠ Friend with Benefits


Just my own way of categorization, although in reality, the two terms are probably pretty interchangeable.

I finally got around to trying the whole "sex for sex's sake" and it's just not fulfilling. ( woot..go me...)There has got to be some kind of foundation greater than two people who need to get it on. So, unlike the child who says they don't like broccoli, yet they've never tried it....
I can now say. ..yeah....I tried it. Doesn't work.

However, everyone is different.

 

[Paul_Chance]

I'll take a run at this one. Sort of a booty call on booty calls! I was a little confused by the answers until I realized I have a fundamentally different definition of what a booty call is.

Hit it and quit it, zipperless sex, random hookups with strangers, none of those qualify for me as a booty call. A booty call is when someone you know and are in a relationship, or have been in a relationship with, calls you out of the blue for sex. Traditionally, the booty call happens in the middle of the night after one or both of the partners have struck out. Friends with benefits definitely involve booty calls.

That said, with that definition in mind, personally I love booty calls. Whether it involves a phone call, a text, or knock on the door it can be a great routine breaker! Within the booty call, you can have any kind of sex you want. You can go buck wild, are you can be all tender and passionate, or you can even have mediocre missionary sex while watching Jimmy Kimmel. (Letterman calls for reverse cowgirl, and Craig Ferguson is definitely doggy style, with some ass slapping throwing in.)

I'm also fond of random hotel hookups with tourists, but I think that comes more under a kink, then a booty call. That is the category I call the fantastic vacation fuck find them and forget about them.