lc69hunter
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I am in my 70's, and started playing in my teens. My first FMF was at age 16, and my first MFM was shortly after turning 18, so I have decades of history.
My supposition is as follows: The above labels which are tossed about loosely should apply to one's relationship preference, and not necessarily one's sexual activity. Is there a high correlation? Yes. Is it anywhere near 100%? No where near.
Next supposition: Sex, at the end of the day, is nothing more than body parts, bodily fluids, and pleasure, which covers a broad spectrum of activities.
After those many decades of participating in, observing, discussing with individuals, couple and small groups of every sexual persuasion in threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes and all variations thereof, including cuckolding, sharing, swapping, swinging and orgies (my wife and I actually chaperoned a gangbang once to make sure nothing got out of hand, but that's another story), here are my thoughts:
Whatever happens, and whomever does whom, in a multiple (three or more) situation, does not deserve labels, and can do harm to someone's opinion of themselves. The cuck who cleans up her lover's creampie, or even cleans her lover's cock at her request, is not gay or bi, it is just part of the relationship dynamic between the three. Swapping: my wife and I were swapping with this couple on a regular basis on weekends. One Friday night after the meal, the women sat down on the couch with grins, and told us we were cut off until they saw some guy/guy action. Well, neither of us were there to sit around and watch TV all weekend, so we gave them what they asked for. Did it make us gay or bi? No, it was just part of the dynamic. Group situations: Women tend to be freer in these situations than their husbands/boyfriends, as we guys get inundated with that macho/anti-gay bullshit growing up, so quite often it was the wife encouraging the husband to let go. Labeling him as gay or bi would actually be detrimental to his ego and his growth. I fucked several husbands over the years, received a number of blowjobs, and have given a few. It turned none of us gay or bi.
One of the conversations that really highlighted the difference between relationship preference and sexual activity was one with my wife at the time. She loved the scent, the taste, the touch, and the kisses of a woman, and in a group situation would be one of the first women down between the thighs of another woman. Her orgasms and her eagerness worried me a bit, so one day I asked her if I should be worried at her falling in love and leaving me for a woman. She looked at me and without hesitation replied, "You know I love women sexually, but if I were to set up house with a another female, in six months I would be in jail for domestic violence or murder. Does that answer your question?" It did.
What are your thoughts and/or experiences?
My supposition is as follows: The above labels which are tossed about loosely should apply to one's relationship preference, and not necessarily one's sexual activity. Is there a high correlation? Yes. Is it anywhere near 100%? No where near.
Next supposition: Sex, at the end of the day, is nothing more than body parts, bodily fluids, and pleasure, which covers a broad spectrum of activities.
After those many decades of participating in, observing, discussing with individuals, couple and small groups of every sexual persuasion in threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes and all variations thereof, including cuckolding, sharing, swapping, swinging and orgies (my wife and I actually chaperoned a gangbang once to make sure nothing got out of hand, but that's another story), here are my thoughts:
Whatever happens, and whomever does whom, in a multiple (three or more) situation, does not deserve labels, and can do harm to someone's opinion of themselves. The cuck who cleans up her lover's creampie, or even cleans her lover's cock at her request, is not gay or bi, it is just part of the relationship dynamic between the three. Swapping: my wife and I were swapping with this couple on a regular basis on weekends. One Friday night after the meal, the women sat down on the couch with grins, and told us we were cut off until they saw some guy/guy action. Well, neither of us were there to sit around and watch TV all weekend, so we gave them what they asked for. Did it make us gay or bi? No, it was just part of the dynamic. Group situations: Women tend to be freer in these situations than their husbands/boyfriends, as we guys get inundated with that macho/anti-gay bullshit growing up, so quite often it was the wife encouraging the husband to let go. Labeling him as gay or bi would actually be detrimental to his ego and his growth. I fucked several husbands over the years, received a number of blowjobs, and have given a few. It turned none of us gay or bi.
One of the conversations that really highlighted the difference between relationship preference and sexual activity was one with my wife at the time. She loved the scent, the taste, the touch, and the kisses of a woman, and in a group situation would be one of the first women down between the thighs of another woman. Her orgasms and her eagerness worried me a bit, so one day I asked her if I should be worried at her falling in love and leaving me for a woman. She looked at me and without hesitation replied, "You know I love women sexually, but if I were to set up house with a another female, in six months I would be in jail for domestic violence or murder. Does that answer your question?" It did.
What are your thoughts and/or experiences?
