Being Used

[soflabbwlvr]

Some years ago I had a brief relationship with a woman who liked to be used. The operative term here is "used" -- not "abused." She liked when I was in total control in bed--I fucked her mouth, ass or pussy, in whatever position I felt at the moment. She enjoyed surrendering herself to my desires and pleasing me any way I asked. I did not push her boundaries--I'm not into pain or humiliation--and I did take time to give her plenty of pleasure as well. But "no" was definitely not in her vocabulary.

 

[Kenziexoxo]

Being used and humiliated is such a turn on. It’s rare to meet men naturally willing to do that though.

 

[areolaman1]

I hope my fantasy of being used by a woman one day comes true. Her making me pleasure her in the nastiest ways. Or her making me a Cuckquean while she fucks my man as they degrade and use me

have you ever read this?

Is This Really What She Wants?​

 

[Utmale48]

Being used and humiliated is such a turn on. It’s rare to meet men naturally willing to do that though.

I have a question because maybe I do t understand this being used kink. What do you mean by being used? To me that says that a guy just fucks you and then just is done after he cums. Is that about right?

 

[Kenziexoxo]

I have a question because maybe I do t understand this being used kink. What do you mean by being used? To me that says that a guy just fucks you and then just is done after he cums. Is that about right?

It’s more about him taking control mentally and physically. Ordering me around, making me do things even if I don’t want to, calling me names, it’s not about sex and him just leaving after.

 

[Utmale48]

It’s more about him taking control mentally and physically. Ordering me around, making me do things even if I don’t want to, calling me names, it’s not about sex and him just leaving after.

Thank you. I appreciate that explanation. And now I think I get it a little better.

 

[urbangentleman]

I like it. But the sexual objectification needs to have a mental/emotional component of being desired and valued. I don’t just want to be a fuck toy - I want to be your favourite toy that you just want keep your hands off.

Yes - This is exactly my wiring - sweet on dates an then treat you like the sexiest plaything ever.

 

[urbangentleman]

Being used and humiliated is such a turn on. It’s rare to meet men naturally willing to do that though.

After a life of being mr nice, this is the number one request I get.

 

[Kenziexoxo]

After a life of being mr nice, this is the number one request I get.

It’s very hot when a guy unexpectedly flips the switch from being nice to taking control

 

[devakama469]

Some years ago I had a brief relationship with a woman who liked to be used. The operative term here is "used" -- not "abused." She liked when I was in total control in bed--I fucked her mouth, ass or pussy, in whatever position I felt at the moment. She enjoyed surrendering herself to my desires and pleasing me any way I asked. I did not push her boundaries--I'm not into pain or humiliation--and I did take time to give her plenty of pleasure as well. But "no" was definitely not in her vocabulary.

Though I very enjoy women who take action, that rapport you had, with a fuck-ton of trusting and respect for each other, and unlimited sexual pleasuring, with her sounds incredibly hot and erotic! Kudos!

 

[musher1]

Get on your knees and I’ll use your mouth for a while.

I'll use your butt while it's free

 

[SluttyTheresa]

I find something so erotic about women who enjoy being used.

I want to pause right there and say that her pleasure of always at the top of my list. The harder she cums, the harder I cum.

But women who submit themselves to be used for the pleasure of a man, or multiple men, turn me on so much. I know it's porn and not real but I know IRL some women do actually love cum, and to be the target of the lust of so many men wanted to give her his seed, on her face, in her body, and she's turned on at the idea of her body being used that way.

That's a GODDESS in my book. And I submit my cum to her as an offering.

That's would be me without a doubt.

 

[UtilityCurve]

That's would be me without a doubt.

It's not something I would easily admit to, even in a moderately-LTR, but dammit, yes, sometimes it's about me and what I want as a man. Not as a regular diet, but if more women would make the effort to say things like this, that sometimes, being an irresistible sex object for a horny male is just what they want too, it would cross-encourage both sexes to be candid, which by my reckoning, would mean more of these "the word 'no' has been temporarily suspended from use" sessions.

 

[GabbyTheSlut]

I love being used

 

[liqueur]

I find something so erotic about women who enjoy being used.... women who submit themselves to be used for the pleasure of a man, or multiple men, turn me on so much....

Women being used this way is as old as civilization. Honestly, it kind of bums me out. Being used by a woman (or a man, but that's beside the point) is what turns me on.

Edit:(After reading some of the responses, I realize I should add that if a woman gets off on being used, then I completely empathize with that and have no problem with it)

 

[Sienna62]

I want to be used so bad!

 

[jodiesfuntoo]

Used, not abused. Very key. I enjoy being directed, being told what to do, not have to worry about how I look or what's next, just being used for his satisfaction, knowing I am doing what he wants and will get him off helps me to feel sexy.

 

[Escierto]

Used, not abused.

Yes.

 

[KSBerry]

My wife got used at university. Got passed around among the lacrosse bros.

 

[wouldloveto]

I once had a very submissive gf, she was a painslut. I did my best to please her, and enjoyed many aspects of our relationship, but I could not bring myself to be as brutal as she wanted.

 

[Sweetestgirlem]

Me exactly and sometimes I feel weird when talking about kinks, that making a man cum is hotter for me to fantasize about than him making me cum by a longshot. I find it way more stimulating and sexier to give head than recieve it... Prefer it in practice too...

Safe to say I will take your offering of cum happily.

 

[LusciousLili]

i sometimes think being told what to do by a hot guy in a suit would be fun. two hot guys in suits, even better.

 

[paulapossiter]

Interesting thread. I have definitely used men for sex. Mostly through frustration in not getting my way with the man I wanted. When he had told me he is not coming over to see me and I have told him I am going out anyway as I needed a good fucking. Have told him how good it was afterwards too. (not a good look, I have made my life too complicated sometimes).
But, more on subject I really love it when I am being fucked missionary and he pulls out, grabs my ankles and twists them to turn me over, pulls me back into a doggy position and then rams his dick back in. It gets me every time. It always feels like he goes from being “Mr Nice Guy” to just some “John” whose only interest is the two holes to fill at the business end of my body.
Of course, the secret is in getting him in the state to do that. Paula

 

[Sienna62]

Me exactly and sometimes I feel weird when talking about kinks, that making a man cum is hotter for me to fantasize about than him making me cum by a longshot. I find it way more stimulating and sexier to give head than recieve it... Prefer it in practice too...

Safe to say I will take your offering of cum happily.

 

[Uncut1969]

Would be hot to be used by a couple!