Being Used

[LusciousLili]

Huh. It seems that for quite a few women, a suit on a man (and oftentimes dress uniforms) have the same effect as stockings and heels for men.

Could be. For me if the guy is guapo and in a sharp suit, mm, I'll be thinking about him a lot later. Maybe about hims "using" me.

 

[StrongMaster7]

For years I've had a fantasy of being used by a group of women. The appeal is that they don't want to know me, they just need a man's cock and body.

The reverse fantasy also applies. I imagine being with a woman I know or a porn star and just using their body. It would be fine of they enjoy and come. I'd love that, but I just want to use her pussy, tits, and mouth.

I used to be fucking the one old college gf that I used. She'd say she loved me and I'd tell her I love fucking her. She say she loved me and I'd tell her I love her big tits.

 

[UtilityCurve]

The last man I was with made me cum so hard I damn near levitate hlf off the bed without falling, it was quite lovely I told him hungrily use me to make yourself cum and he did!!!!!

One of the hottest things to hear: "Fill her up."

There's something electric about a woman dissociating herself from her vagina, even if it's just (actually, I hope it's "just"--I want my partners to love their bodies) to enhance her (male) partner's pleasure by intimating that her pussy exists for his enjoyment.

 

[Cultivateddesires]

My wife frequently uses me for sex. After the barest of foreplay she lies back on the bed, looking at the ceiling, and awaits my fingers on her clit.

She half heartedly reciprocates but her mind is elsewhere. I am frequently a flesh and blood vibrator.

 

[cowboyup6977]

i sometimes think being told what to do by a hot guy in a suit would be fun. two hot guys in suits, even better.

Or a woman of authority

 

[Submissivepat]

I think that one of my most memorable feelings of being used was at a BDSM club. I was put in the stocks and two implements, a flexible soft leather paddle and a riding crop were available to use on my ass or pussy. It would have been difficult to reach my tits in that position but once I understood I was being used, I slipped so easily into subspace. My hubby was monitoring the strokes and told me later that it was well over a hundred. Yes, I was also fucked while in the stocks.

 

[Bobm269]

I think a lot of women won't admit to it because they're afraid of boundaries being overstepped. Things can turn scary if everyone hasn't agreed to certain rules. But many women do enjoy being used for pleasure, especially if you have a need to please and serve.

Yes, this! For me this is the feeling I have about it. If I have a trust and safety then I am more free.

 

[Bobm269]

Thank you. I appreciate that explanation. And now I think I get it a little better.

Like most things, there is a spectrum of “used”, from what was described as him being in charge, moving me around, “man handling” me in bed, and controlling what is happening to being a “hole” or “cock sleeve” used for what I was created for. For me that range can also correspond to a spectrum of safety and trust.

 

[liqueur]

Being used and humiliated is such a turn on. It’s rare to meet men naturally willing to do that though.

I'm rare?! And here, I thought i was well-done.

(Edit): I may have misread this the first time. I thought you were saying that it's rare to find men willing to be used and humiliated.

 

[liqueur]

maybe I don't understand this being used kink. What do you mean by being used?

It’s more about him taking control mentally and physically. Ordering me around, making me do things even if I don’t want to, calling me names,

For me, it's all the above, but above all the central point: that I'm there for the other person's pleasure, and their pleasure alone. Whether I experience pleasure or not is irrelevant to them. If I’m explicitly denied orgasm to emphasize that point, so much the better.

The secret we both know, of course (or at least I do. Some guys are clueless about the dynamic; they're just selfish), is that that's exactly what I enjoy. Their pleasure is my pleasure.

 

[Uncut1969]

Would love to be used by a black couple turn me out

 

[FamilyFunMom]

Huge fantasy and turn-on for me! I love to imagine the whole "free-use" and imagine my role, my purpose, is to provide pleasure. It's a happy coincidence that I like to make people happy, like to please

 

[Submissivepat]

Huge fantasy and turn-on for me! I love to imagine the whole "free-use" and imagine my role, my purpose, is to provide pleasure. It's a happy coincidence that I like to make people happy, like to please

Totally felt the same way as you!

 

[desire30]

there is a special feeling when I am used. it go back a long time ago when I was in a bikini and two males wanted me to stand and let them look at me and masturbate..I was too scared to not do it because they both were in a position of authority and control..But seeing and hearing them turned me on so much! I have not had that same feeling since.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

there is a special feeling when I am used. it go back a long time ago when I was in a bikini and two males wanted me to stand and let them look at me and masturbate..I was too scared to not do it because they both were in a position of authority and control..But seeing and hearing them turned me on so much! I have not had that same feeling since.

That give me so many deliciously naughty thoughts…

 

[taboo_sarah]

One of my biggest fantasies is being in a hotel room and having an open door policy to be used by whoever walks in

 

[ycym]

One of my biggest fantasies is being in a hotel room and having an open door policy to be used by whoever walks in

Sadly this doesn't work for the rest of the doors.
But since it is a fantasy I don't ask for the room number.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

One of my biggest fantasies is being in a hotel room and having an open door policy to be used by whoever walks in

What hotel are you staying in???

 

[Feminine_elegance]

I like making myself a sex object for my partner, doll up, wear slutty maid lingerie, high heels, nails stockings just make it so he wants to use me, makes me feel incredibly hot and feminine when I'm pinned down and talked dirty to. Told I'm a good girl as I'm crying mid orgasm

 

[devakama469]

there is a special feeling when I am used. it go back a long time ago when I was in a bikini and two males wanted me to stand and let them look at me and masturbate..I was too scared to not do it because they both were in a position of authority and control..But seeing and hearing them turned me on so much! I have not had that same feeling since.

How does an MFM spitroast fantasy sound like to you?

 

[apom]

I haven't really felt physical pleasure from sex since I was 16, but I get immense satisfaction from people using me to make themselves feel good. I'm no masochist, but the more people take from me without considering the damage they may be doing or caring what their fun is costing me, the hotter I get.

 

[SunBuns]

I like making myself a sex object for my partner, doll up, wear slutty maid lingerie, high heels, nails stockings just make it so he wants to use me, makes me feel incredibly hot and feminine when I'm pinned down and talked dirty to. Told I'm a good girl as I'm crying mid orgasm

I find it such a turn on when a women get done up sexy; nails, lingerie…juicy red lips kissing on my dick. I want to play in that space for a while, driving you wild, feeling bliss and finishing in a hot sweaty mess.

 

[UtilityCurve]

But seeing and hearing them turned me on so much! I have not had that same feeling since.

Absolutely the most natural reaction! Let's be honest: Women want to be desired and thought sexually attractive. A pair of guys breaking the rules so badly is compelling, if not conclusive evidence that you in that bikini were.

Maybe not every woman's thrill, but a lot more than feel that they can admit it!

 

[Crownvic]

I haven't really felt physical pleasure from sex since I was 16, but I get immense satisfaction from people using me to make themselves feel good. I'm no masochist, but the more people take from me without considering the damage they may be doing or caring what their fun is costing me, the hotter I get.

Turning up the heat..

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife has always enjoyed sex, but the only time she was really used was in college by a professor. She was no longer in his class, so it had nothing to do with getting a grade. He approached her about having sex, and she refused but agreed to give him a blow job. After that, he would occasionally call her into his office to suck his cock. She did as he demanded for several months before ending it. It was voluntary, no force at all.