Kinks We Don't Understand: Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)

[Wild_Honey_66]

Men are pervs. They like some weird shit.
One of the weird things some men like is small penis humiliation. I know, WTF, right?

That's what i thought for a long time, until a conversation I had with a gentleman from another board finally made sense. It must make sense to a lot of guys, because it's a very popular kink, seemingly even more so lately.

Where does this kink come from? What's the appeal? Why does it seem to be more in demand than in the past, or was it just not as visible? What about the women who dish out these insults, what's their story? What are they getting out of it?

Here's what i know:
**This kink is primarily about humiliation, the small penis aspect is just the vehicle.
**You don't have to have a small penis to enjoy SPH.
**There is a lot of crossover with other kinks such as male submission, hotwifing, forced bi, cock and ball torture (CBT), cuckolding, chastity and more. We can talk about those related kinks, but I'd like to keep the focus on SPH for the first few pages at least.
**At least some of the men participating in this kink have a healthy self image, extending to and including their dicks - regardless of size.

The conclusion I've come to is that it's just another weird thing that makes their dick hard. (Or not, if they're in a cage. ) Some guys have a handle on the 'why,' some are unconcerned with the motivation and would rather focus on the practice. Understanding it a little better has allowed me to see this as just another way to please a partner. If i were to engage in this sort of play, i wouldn't be damaging their psyche, i wouldn't be scarring them for life. I would be getting their motor going!

So what do you all think? Got questions? Got experience? Share them with us, and let's get this freaky party started!



~~~> Here's a short thread that might be worth a read. I may post links to other threads that help to shine a light on the subject if i come across anything that shows potential.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=21988511#post21988511

 

[Trekka]

Hiya Honey

So the main thing I’m curious about is why have I been seeing this kink featured frequently on TV shows lately? Most recently, HBOs Succession and Euphoria come to mind but I know I’ve seen others.

Did TV just discover this and now they’re running with it?
Is it the cool thing to do in the face of the #metoo movement?
Is the more traditional, male-as-dominant thing too 50 Shades-ish and everyone’s over it?
Is featuring the converse, a subby female being humiliated, too risky at the moment?

Also, *bump*

 

[Suz_anne]

And is this the official theme song for this kink?

 

[Shi_One81]

And is this the official theme song for this kink?

Before I clicked the link, I was like “please let it be this song!” It’s PERFECT! Lol

 

[Shi_One81]

Moved to the correct thread

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I don’t understand the D word and by D word I mean “daddy”. That word is like nails on a chalkboard or moist. It’s never a word that’s been in my vocabulary and it never will be.

Try here!

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1507658

 

[Shi_One81]

Try here!

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1507658

Gotcha, didn’t notice the kink in the title. I took my glasses off too soon.

 

[Trekka]

Maybe we need diagrams. Seems those are a big hit.

 

[Trekka]

Brief sidebar: I actually encountered a real-deal micropenis once, in college. It was fascinating.

 

[Shi_One81]

Brief sidebar: I actually encountered a real-deal micropenis once, in college. It was fascinating.

I saw one at a swingers party - he had just a head and no shaft.

 

[Dribble]

I prefer this song

https://youtu.be/byDiILrNbM4

But what do I know?

 

[Suz_anne]

Brief sidebar: I actually encountered a real-deal micropenis once, in college. It was fascinating.

I saw one at a swingers party - he had just a head and no shaft.

A friend dated a guy with a micropenis in college. We didn't believe it was as small as she described so she took pictures and showed us. It was wild. They only dated for about a month and then she ended things because of his penis size.

Maybe he started going to swinger parties.

 

[Shi_One81]

A friend dated a guy with a micropenis in college. We didn't believe it was as small as she described so she took pictures and showed us. It was wild. They only dated for about a month and then she ended things because of his penis size.

Maybe he started going to swinger parties.

Does he live in Minnesota?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Brief sidebar: I actually encountered a real-deal micropenis once, in college. It was fascinating.

I saw one at a swingers party - he had just a head and no shaft.

Someone posted in one of my cock threads and his was like a sweet little button. The rest of him was h** a* f*** , and he seemed to be very grounded and confident. I woulda tapped that.

On the other hand, the one guy i know who is really into SPH actually has a good-sized man tool.

 

[Shi_One81]

Someone posted in one of my cock threads and his was like a sweet little button. The rest of him was h** a* f*** , and he seemed to be very grounded and confident. I woulda tapped that.

On the other hand, the one guy i know who is really into SPH actually has a good-sized man tool.

There was a photo I saw on Fet once and the dude’s penis looked like another belly button. Have you ever seen hallow strapons? I wonder if the micropenis guys use those... ?

 

[LizVegas79]

Men are pervs. They like some weird shit.
One of the weird things some men like is small penis humiliation. I know, WTF, right?

That's what i thought for a long time, until a conversation I had with a gentleman from another board finally made sense. It must make sense to a lot of guys, because it's a very popular kink, seemingly even more so lately.

Where does this kink come from? What's the appeal? Why does it seem to be more in demand than in the past, or was it just not as visible? What about the women who dish out these insults, what's their story? What are they getting out of it?

Here's what i know:
**This kink is primarily about humiliation, the small penis aspect is just the vehicle.
**You don't have to have a small penis to enjoy SPH.
**There is a lot of crossover with other kinks such as male submission, hotwifing, forced bi, cock and ball torture (CBT), cuckolding, chastity and more. We can talk about those related kinks, but I'd like to keep the focus on SPH for the first few pages at least.
**At least some of the men participating in this kink have a healthy self image, extending to and including their dicks - regardless of size.

The conclusion I've come to is that it's just another weird thing that makes their dick hard. (Or not, if they're in a cage. ) Some guys have a handle on the 'why,' some are unconcerned with the motivation and would rather focus on the practice. Understanding it a little better has allowed me to see this as just another way to please a partner. If i were to engage in this sort of play, i wouldn't be damaging their psyche, i wouldn't be scarring them for life. I would be getting their motor going!

So what do you all think? Got questions? Got experience? Share them with us, and let's get this freaky party started!



~~~> Here's a short thread that might be worth a read. I may post links to other threads that help to shine a light on the subject if i come across anything that shows potential.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=21988511#post21988511

Hi Honey!

Great idea for a thread! We DO need to shed some light on this subject!

A microscope might not hurt either!

For the record: I'm sure you're probably aware that there are a TON of guys on Lit into SPH. I get PM's all the time asking me to be mean to them. They all say they love that I'm tall. Guess that's a thing for them. Do you get PM's from them too Honey? You must because you started this thread. Hopefully some of them will voluntarily out themselves on this thread so that we can have some fun with them?

You're totally right though that it's not just for guys who come up a little short in the penis department. Even my husband, who has a very, VERY healthy penis (it's one of the reasons I married him lol) enjoys it when I question his masculinity or egg him on by saying I can't feel it or something like that. So weird, right? I guess maybe it's similar to how mad/turned on I get when he "complains" about my small boobs while we're having sex. Maybe we're all sort of broken when it comes to body image doubts

Hiya Honey

So the main thing I’m curious about is why have I been seeing this kink featured frequently on TV shows lately? Most recently, HBOs Succession and Euphoria come to mind but I know I’ve seen others.

Did TV just discover this and now they’re running with it?
Is it the cool thing to do in the face of the #metoo movement?
Is the more traditional, male-as-dominant thing too 50 Shades-ish and everyone’s over it?
Is featuring the converse, a subby female being humiliated, too risky at the moment?

Also, *bump*

I clearly have not been watching enough TV lately.

And is this the official theme song for this kink?

Love it!

Brief sidebar: I actually encountered a real-deal micropenis once, in college. It was fascinating.

I saw one at a swingers party - he had just a head and no shaft.

I've run across a few of those too over the years. Each time I think I've literally laughed out loud and they didn't mind at all.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

There was a photo I saw on Fet once and the dude’s penis looked like another belly button. Have you ever seen hallow strapons? I wonder if the micropenis guys use those... ?

I've not seen one, but i was talking just this morning to someone who uses one.

 

[UgliestSon]

Pretty much all of em. I just like good pussy.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Pretty much all of em. I just like good pussy.

You don't need a dick to enjoy good pussy.

 

[Trekka]

You're totally right though that it's not just for guys who come up a little short in the penis department. Even my husband, who has a very, VERY healthy penis (it's one of the reasons I married him lol) enjoys it when I question his masculinity or egg him on by saying I can't feel it or something like that. So weird, right? I guess maybe it's similar to how mad/turned on I get when he "complains" about my small boobs while we're having sex. Maybe we're all sort of broken when it comes to body image doubts

So it’s a distant cousin of “angry sex?”

You don't need a dick to enjoy good pussy.

Amen.

 

[UgliestSon]

You don't need a dick to enjoy good pussy.

I wouldn’t know.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

So it’s a distant cousin of “angry sex?”



Amen.

I have never had angry sex, but it sounds like a good time. *bucket list*

I wouldn’t know.

You got a mouth, don'tcha?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Hi Honey!

Great idea for a thread! We DO need to shed some light on this subject!

A microscope might not hurt either!

For the record: I'm sure you're probably aware that there are a TON of guys on Lit into SPH. I get PM's all the time asking me to be mean to them. They all say they love that I'm tall. Guess that's a thing for them. Do you get PM's from them too Honey? You must because you started this thread. Hopefully some of them will voluntarily out themselves on this thread so that we can have some fun with them?

You're totally right though that it's not just for guys who come up a little short in the penis department. Even my husband, who has a very, VERY healthy penis (it's one of the reasons I married him lol) enjoys it when I question his masculinity or egg him on by saying I can't feel it or something like that. So weird, right? I guess maybe it's similar to how mad/turned on I get when he "complains" about my small boobs while we're having sex. Maybe we're all sort of broken when it comes to body image doubts


I've run across a few of those too over the years. Each time I think I've literally laughed out loud and they didn't mind at all.

Hi Liz!

I don't get many random PMs anymore, but I've done enough reading around to know you're right about the popularity of this kink. Hopefully some of your admirers are lurking and will come out of the shadows to chime in.

I talked to a guy with a good sized dick who said he enjoyed humiliation because it was sort of like (I'm paraphrasing here) going through a hazing. An opportunity to prove how tough he was, how much he could take. It was clearly a fun thing for him and his girlfriend, and not something they took seriously outside of the bedroom.

I also read a post by a man with a small penis who said that he liked the attention. He didn't say negative attention, just attention. I've never done a poll to see how many fans of SPH actually have a negative opinion of their dicks, I'm thinking now that the number is probably a lot lower than i would have originally guessed.

In a weird way, within certain circles, having a tiny dick is actually a chick magnet.

 

[LeinadVirgo]

I think a lot of sph is about acceptance. Acknowledging a flaw (perceived or not) and accepting it. The "is it in" means you are doing something just for him, because it doesn't do anything for you. When you add some of the more submissive play, being humiliated or denied is catering to that desire. Again, doing it for them.but if you enjoy doing it,win for everybody, lol.

I think another part of it is trivializing the sex organ can make everything else seems more important. Kiss a little deeper, focus on moving my hands right, be in the moment. When you take his cock out of the equation, it's just two people together.

Those are some of my thoughts on it.

 

[LizVegas79]

So it’s a distant cousin of “angry sex?”

Sort of. Don't you think?

I have never had angry sex, but it sounds like a good time. *bucket list*

Oh you HAVE to try it. It's so much fun (and it always makes whatever you were both angry about seem so silly afterwards! )

Hi Liz!

I don't get many random PMs anymore, but I've done enough reading around to know you're right about the popularity of this kink. Hopefully some of your admirers are lurking and will come out of the shadows to chime in.

I talked to a guy with a good sized dick who said he enjoyed humiliation because it was sort of like (I'm paraphrasing here) going through a hazing. An opportunity to prove how tough he was, how much he could take. It was clearly a fun thing for him and his girlfriend, and not something they took seriously outside of the bedroom.

I also read a post by a man with a small penis who said that he liked the attention. He didn't say negative attention, just attention. I've never done a poll to see how many fans of SPH actually have a negative opinion of their dicks, I'm thinking now that the number is probably a lot lower than i would have originally guessed.

In a weird way, within certain circles, having a tiny dick is actually a chick magnet.

Let's hope so - but, unfortunately, more than one has admitted to being shamed and humiliated by other guys on here which is so NOT what they're looking for.

Any attention is good attention - that's so true and it's something I think we can all relate to, right? Plus, when you're with the same person for more than a few years, it's fun to spice things up every now and then right?

Hmm, I'm not sure we travel in the same circles Honey. lol - Or at least I've never heard any of my gf's ever mention those "certain circles" lol

I think a lot of sph is about acceptance. Acknowledging a flaw (perceived or not) and accepting it. The "is it in" means you are doing something just for him, because it doesn't do anything for you. When you add some of the more submissive play, being humiliated or denied is catering to that desire. Again, doing it for them.but if you enjoy doing it,win for everybody, lol.

I think another part of it is trivializing the sex organ can make everything else seems more important. Kiss a little deeper, focus on moving my hands right, be in the moment. When you take his cock out of the equation, it's just two people together.

Those are some of my thoughts on it.

You're right.

In a way, catering or focusing on our insecurities makes us a little less insecure about them. At least it does for me. When my husband "complains" about my smallish boobs I know there's some truth it in. But I also know that he loves me (and them!) regardless because he proves it a thousand different ways before, during and after we make love.