NickCarraway12
Really Really Experienced
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- Oct 24, 2015
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Surmising here, but I think the SPH fetish takes away a man's pressure to be powerful. The woman teasing them is their lover, so they're are sexualizing one of their greatest fears-sexual inadequacy.
When I was 22, I thought I was "all that." My size is great but I was with a girl who was giving me a handjob and I wanted her to tell me how big it was compared to her previous lovers. Little did I know that she had been with a guy who was of the porn-star size and didn't hold back the truth when I asked. She used her hand to measure how much bigger he was than me. Oddly, it turned me on at the time. I remember her whispering in my ear, asking, "Do you like it when I stroke your little cock?" Strangely, we had fun that night.
When I was 22, I thought I was "all that." My size is great but I was with a girl who was giving me a handjob and I wanted her to tell me how big it was compared to her previous lovers. Little did I know that she had been with a guy who was of the porn-star size and didn't hold back the truth when I asked. She used her hand to measure how much bigger he was than me. Oddly, it turned me on at the time. I remember her whispering in my ear, asking, "Do you like it when I stroke your little cock?" Strangely, we had fun that night.
Sort of. Don't you think?
Oh you HAVE to try it. It's so much fun (and it always makes whatever you were both angry about seem so silly afterwards!)
Let's hope so - but, unfortunately, more than one has admitted to being shamed and humiliated by other guys on here which is so NOT what they're looking for.
Any attention is good attention - that's so true and it's something I think we can all relate to, right? Plus, when you're with the same person for more than a few years, it's fun to spice things up every now and then right?
Hmm, I'm not sure we travel in the same circles Honey. lol - Or at least I've never heard any of my gf's ever mention those "certain circles" lol
You're right.
In a way, catering or focusing on our insecurities makes us a little less insecure about them. At least it does for me. When my husband "complains" about my smallish boobs I know there's some truth it in. But I also know that he loves me (and them!) regardless because he proves it a thousand different ways before, during and after we make love.