Kinks, quirks and fetishes

[SusanneS]

Hi!
I'm obviously still a newbie here, as I made the mistake of posting something I actually wanted discussed on the General Forum. It got spammed to death.
Then looking around I saw that all sorts of topics are allowed here as well, so I decided to give it another go here. Here goes:

Are you kinky?
Do you have a sexual quirk or a fetish?
It seems sometimes that everybody is turned on by something "unusual", but is it so?
Please use your own definition when voting, that's what I'm interested in, your perception.

If you really don't know and need a definition, I'll give you mine.
Do you like sexually doing something (not just fantasising) that you consider unsual in such a way that you would be nervious about telling it to a prospective partner OR is such an important sexual activity for you that a prospective partner would have to agree with it before coming an actual partener?
Please feel free to ignore my definition if you have a differnt one.

Liking oral sex or anal sex don't count in my opinion.

Does having a kink make you more accepting of other people's kinks?
Please vote and discuss.

 

[Verbiwhore]

I have a couple of kinks, but I havn't had the nerve to experience them for real.
Perhaps it's the men I've been involved with or perhaps I am not ready, but it was in exploring these fetishes that bought me to lit..... so a big hurrah for that.

 

[Lurnk]

I have some kinks, a few out of the ordinary things which turn me on, but I don't think I have any fetishes--unusual things necessary to get turned on.

It seems lots love to claim they have fetishes when they actually don't. Apparently, merely being aroused by something means you have a fetish. Some dude told me he had a fetish for sex

Nobody likes being ordinary, I reckon.

I imagine having a fetish opens your eyes to other people's kinks and predilections and makes you more accepting. However, I don't think you have to turn off your judge-o-meter just because you have a toenail clipping kink. You're still allowed to be grossed-out if something sickens you.



Lurnk.