Kinks - how open are you about them?

[bisissyhusband1]

Sex with my wife had become nonexistent. I couldn’t satisfy her with my small often limp dick. We ended up sleeping in separate rooms. got turned on to pegging porn, but was too embarrassed to discuss it with my wife.
I bought a dildo and started using it on my ass while watching the porn. I found it such a turn on it often made me cum.
Several weeks later, I was having an intense session, with earbuds in, watching a hot pegging video, ramming my dildo in my ass. The door opened and my wife was standing watching me just as I climaxed. She said “I think we need to talk” and closed the door. The next morning she asked me about my kink. I opened up how turned on I was with pegging porn. We discussed all sorts of details, and eventually she asked me to show her some of my favourite videos. She was clearly turned on after a few videos. Cut to several weeks later, and my wife pegs me nearly every night. Our sex life has been resurrected! My only regret, not being open about my kink much sooner!

 

[LFM90]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

 

[LFM90]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

My kinks include girls peeing/squirting breastfeeding. I’m pretty open about them. The kink that makes me most horny only a select few people know about and that is incest I’ve fantasized about having sexual relations with all my aunts and cousins and there a lot of them

 

[xLilithx]

My kinks are fairly vanilla anyway. They’re a part of me but not so much that I feel like i absolutely have to share them with everyone or like people don’t know me if I don’t tell them about it.

Also while I get the urge to make people “get it”, I also understand that most people aren’t comfortable knowing about these things and it’s just respectful not to push them onto them. However, if someone really wants to know and asks me about my kinks or wants to talk about kink in general I never have any problem with that.

 

[STRC]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

Rather than "How" kinky ......I'll just say there are 3 things you can't do with me or I'll let you do..........1. Can't cut me! 2. Can't burn me!(was once burned in a fire) 3. You can't shit on me physically or mentally!...........so there!

 

[ChuckWolf]

Sex with my wife had become nonexistent. I couldn’t satisfy her with my small often limp dick. We ended up sleeping in separate rooms. got turned on to pegging porn, but was too embarrassed to discuss it with my wife.
I bought a dildo and started using it on my ass while watching the porn. I found it such a turn on it often made me cum.
Several weeks later, I was having an intense session, with earbuds in, watching a hot pegging video, ramming my dildo in my ass. The door opened and my wife was standing watching me just as I climaxed. She said “I think we need to talk” and closed the door. The next morning she asked me about my kink. I opened up how turned on I was with pegging porn. We discussed all sorts of details, and eventually she asked me to show her some of my favourite videos. She was clearly turned on after a few videos. Cut to several weeks later, and my wife pegs me nearly every night. Our sex life has been resurrected! My only regret, not being open about my kink much sooner!

I was uneasy with where that story was going; I'm glad it all worked out.

 

[Idpthrtonmykneesinpanties]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

Only a few people that I have known most of my life know about my fetishes. One of them enjoys one of my fetishes when I am in his town but we both live with girlfriends. I do pursue my particular fetish of sucking a guys cock to completion I am discreet but I wish I could be more forward aabout it but I like women also and I think part of my fetish is its secrecy.

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

I’m open with some friends

 

[cowboyup6977]

Most of my friends know I’m bi and a select few know we share

 

[tommyt125]

Ehh some I’m open about and some I keep to like minded partners

 

[razor33a]

Most are known by my wife but it never comes up outside of us. If asked by friends I'd tell them.

 

[BenHoping]

I've enjoyed turning asses pink with bare hand, OTK almost forever. My wife quickly let me know that spankings turned her on, and it was always part of foreplay.

I pegged myself later in our marriage, but didn't admit it. She found my dildo once and asked if I used it--I admitted "sometimes" but didn't elaborate. I so wish I'd explored that with her. She'd finger my ass sometimes--she'd probably have been OK with it. Since we lost her, I've been very, very tentative exploring spanking with other lovers, and almost completely silent about pegging.

I had the fabulous good luck to hook up with a smart, kinky, switchy, completely open FWB on another site and life is grand! Neither of us would have admitted our kinks if we'd met in vanilla life, but there they were out in the anonymity of a kink site, so that was all out of the way before we met IRL. She loves impact play and bondage, and lives to suck cock! She smacks my dick and balls around when I'm in the mood for it, twists my nipples and pegs my ass with enthusiasm when we switch. Fuck me, what a treat.

Between the two of us, all of this is absolutely normal--and delightful. But admit that outside our duple--nah. Never gonna happen.

 

[KyleR215]

In person, yeah I am a little shy to admit to my kinks and things that get me off. But anonymously it is easier to be open and not have the judgement and weighing on me

 

[Cabeza]

Depends on the kink and who I’m talking to. I’ll readily tell people I’ve been to the Folsom Street Festival but I don’t go around telling everyone I want my wife to rail my ass with a strap-on. I only share that with my wife and you all.

 

[MerWilh]

The thing about having a kinky side is, if you dont tell your lover about it, he, or she cant do it for you, can they. And yeah, I guess that includes husbands and wives, but to be honest, if I was a guy I would be very cautious about telling my wife some of the things men have mentioned here to me, lol. I mean, WOW doesnt even get close to covering some of the things!

It goes both ways. I've known some wild and crazy woman in my life. Most men would have run away, I got hard.

 

[hulmule]

I think they change as we age, marriage etc. But i still love to be deep throated. She knows( not into sex anymore) but i m ready to step to next level and work and outside person to service me being momma don't

 

[Britva415]

Ehh some I’m open about and some I keep to like minded partners

How do you find out they're like minded?

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I'm open to any and all kinks and fetishes and fantasies, even if I don't actually share some of them. I have indulged as many of them as I can, and I'm always looking to explore the ones I haven't yet.

Me too brother

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I don't even like telling my coworkers about what I did over the weekend, I'm sure as hell not telling them about my kinks.
My sexual pleasure is for me, my partner, and select others to know about.

 

[SDyumcum72]

Yes kinks can develop at any particular age or I should say rather than develop come to the forefront. Kinks may already be there in our head but probably some particular event just brings them out.

Hi Julia, I totally agree with your comment. In fact, I find I am way more kinky now than I was 20 years ago. Perhaps porn and meeting people in person from online helped build the kink fun...

 

[EliseElise]

On lit I’m pretty open, but in person I think most people would be very surprised that I’m kinky at all. So I’m not open at all with anyone that I’m not super close to. But I have learned that in relationships I need to be open early on to avoid ending up in something long term that just doesn’t work!

 

[Ash999]

On lit I’m pretty open, but in person I think most people would be very surprised that I’m kinky at all. So I’m not open at all with anyone that I’m not super close to. But I have learned that in relationships I need to be open early on to avoid ending up in something long term that just doesn’t work!

Same here: vanilla in public, kinky in closet/ on Lit!!!?

 

[99Freedom]

I don't even like telling my coworkers about what I did over the weekend, I'm sure as hell not telling them about my kinks.
My sexual pleasure is for me, my partner, and select others to know about.

I definitely don’t want coworkers in my business

 

[Mike130]

I can be more open here than anywhere IRL

 

[Norfolkguy49]

My coworkers wouldn't believe my kinks lol