Kinks - how open are you about them?

[kinkyyjulia]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

 

[LMWM321]

I support the right to pursue whatever sexual pleasure one desires, without shame or ridicule, so long as it is totally consensual - ie., all participants are of adult age, of clear mind and there is no coercion, or deceit.

That said, I don't weird people out by discussing my kinks openly, other than here at Lit, of course.

Am I ashamed of my kinks? No, not one iota. There's zero non-consent, misogyny or violence in any of my kinks. But would I be embarrassed if they were common knowledge? Yes.. And I think that's normal. ..That's pretty much why we don't reveal our identities here on Lit.

 

[Dearelliot]

It wasn't that I was reluctant to explore the kinky behavior. Most of my extreme kinks have evolved over the years, so when I think of the opportunities I had as a younger man to enjoy them, they weren't what I wanted back then. An example is ladies pee, I did sample it as a young man but I didn't develop a love of a woman's golden wine until I was around 65.

 

[kinkyyjulia]

It wasn't that I was reluctant to explore the kinky behavior. Most of my extreme kinks have evolved over the years, so when I think of the opportunities I had as a younger man to enjoy them, they weren't what I wanted back then. An example is ladies pee, I did sample it as a young man but I didn't develop a love of a woman's golden wine until I was around 65.

Yes kinks can develop at any particular age or I should say rather than develop come to the forefront. Kinks may already be there in our head but probably some particular event just brings them out.

 

[9to5]

kinks is something I have always enjoyed.
since I was very young loved to do mild cbt to myself. being into bondage and teasing. over the last few years its been chastity.
have many fantasy about group sex incest and almost any kind of bondage with male and female.
since I first tied my cock with a shoe lace its been on going
only the wife knows of a couple of my kinks. but its still just me that enjoys it

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Pretty much keep to myself or chatting with people online.
Wife knows but just isn't much of a talker sexually so it's like talking to the wall or to her it's just noise like Charlie Browns teacher

 

[Dearelliot]

Seems like when I was younger, say even until maybe age 40ish or older I wanted to cum, to ejaculate...I was kinky, yes, and enjoyed it, but not the way I do today. Back then the main thought in my mind was orgasm...as of late I'm not so much concerned with cumming, I just like to play.

 

[Dearelliot]

Pretty much keep to myself or chatting with people online.
Wife knows but just isn't much of a talker sexually so it's like talking to the wall or to her it's just noise like Charlie Browns teacher

Long ago gave up talking to my wife about sex...it's usually been a one way conversation...

 

[9to5]

Long ago gave up talking to my wife about sex...it's usually been a one way conversation...

I agree anytime I bring up kink it gets shot down.
It nice to hear about what others enjoy. being naked in a group cfnm is it much of a kink or like a swingers thing

 

[AsianFusion]

Hub is not only supportive, he's worse than me. Same with my friends. Who wouldn't be amused is my mum-in-law.

 

[kinkyyjulia]

Hub is not only supportive, he's worse than me. Same with my friends. Who wouldn't be amused is my mum-in-law.

I get that

 

[wildp]

This site is best place to express kinks and talk about them and also learn about others kinks that may help or interest you also

 

[ChuckWolf]

Outside of this site and the right woman, I don't talk about my kinks, which are pretty vanilla anyway.

I have had situations where my girlfriends have shared my kinks with other women as casual "girl talk".

 

[PantyMon]

Kinks are a curious thing. It’s a part of who we are and sometimes it’s challenging to not only discuss them, but to understand them.

For example, I fall in line with many men here that I’ve read about as well as on subreddits. I’ve got a huge panty kink. Of the sub kinks within this kink I fall into the ‘wearer’ category.

Besides myself there are two people who know I have this kink. An old college female friend who has always been encouraging and my wife, who I think has put up with it but has also drunkenly shared with me that it’s “creepy & weird”. Gawd I wish she would be playful and encouraging.

This kink, seems very common and even pretty vanilla in the realm of kink and yet many women are not ok with this kink. Sure they say things like you do you, be happy, etc but then always come around with well not my man.

I present to the real world as a masculine man and I’m not sure one would even know that I’ve got a cute sexy pair of panties on.

I wish more women were truly accepting and playful of this kink.

 

[hoozierbond]

Some things are out in the open. If someone asks questions we are not shy about discussing, as long as it is done from a place of curiosity or respect and not judgment.

There are certain things that are more closely guarded, but nothing is completely secret.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Completely open in private, but in public spaces they have to be undertaken after midnight if they involve anything overtly messy or likely to attract negative reactions from onlookers.

 

[MamaBitte]

(...) so it's like talking to the wall or to her it's just noise like Charlie Browns teacher

I guess we're in the same boat. I gave up a long time ago ...

 

[AriesAngyl]

kinks are fun yet funny...not everyone likes all of them. i know for me, when i am with someone, i will slowly reveal as we go. can't just blurt everything out on a 1st date.

As i get to know someone i will slowly reveal what i am into, probably mild to wild. no sense in scaring people off on the 1st date!

 

[9to5]

its not to scare them off its sometimes what they will tell their friends and others you might know

 

[SmokingFap]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

I'm open to any and all kinks and fetishes and fantasies, even if I don't actually share some of them. I have indulged as many of them as I can, and I'm always looking to explore the ones I haven't yet.

 

[Dearelliot]

And some are a little too kinky to admit.

 

[MamaBitte]

And some are a little too kinky to admit.

Which?

 

[Live4themoments]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

This is the golden ticket statement. I realize the older I get my kinks surface and I get bolder. In 30+ years I don't want to be sitting in a nursing home wishing I did things when I was able to. Has my bucket list been achieved...NO, but getting there. It always helps when I add a kink here and there to be completed another time.
Nobody knows my kinks, I keep my personal life separate from my alter life. I refrain from saying fantasy life because I've experienced/tried many of my kinks, some I still do, a few I tried it but not for me.

 

[Dearelliot]

Which?

Too iffy for me to admit

 

[MamaBitte]

Too iffy for me to admit

Even on Lit.?