Kinks - how open are you about them?

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.
I have only shared my cross dressing kink with one ex-partner and it didn’t go down too well. Since then my kinks have remained firmly locked away except on lit.
 
So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.
some kinks are best left unsaid even on lit i've commented how i like some and there is always someone that will say we are sick or worse.
 
very vanilla friends and family. thinking I am weird. I have only one family member who might not think its weird but not comfortable to talk about with.
I think some of us still think about what others think of us
I'm always conscious of what others think and that's extends far beyond kinks.

You can always share with us, we are no position to judge. Nore would we.
 
So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.
I whole heartedly agree on life bring too short and enjoying life to the fullest but only if no one gets hurt, a nuance perhaps.
Lit had helped me understand myself a bit better and I find myself being more open to things than i originally thought! I would say they are relatively tame compared to what I have read here.
There is only one person in opened myself to, a fellow Litster. She was amazingly cool and even turned on by some of them. It's so freeing to be able to express them and be openly accepted. Another reason to keep coming here, I suppose.
 
For me I am not that open with my kinks other than on-line for the most part. I have share a few with a female friend who come to find out had a lot of kinks as well. My ex-wife only knew of just a few and they where nothing really out of the ordinary. I have indulged in a few of them and looking to try/do more of them. And my kinks of grown with age, the older I have gotten, the more open I became.
 
Mine are pretty tame for Literotica. Primarily a MFM with my wife, which we sometimes discuss during the heat of passion. Watch her with another guy getting fucked or sucking cock. She says she would put on a good show for me.

Love doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and licking pussy to orgasm. Love to lick pussy after I cum in it.

Other fantasies would include:
BBC seducing my wife
Sucking a cock (never done it) especially with my wife’s cum on it
Wife swap
Eating ass (wife has a nice ass but won’t let me near it)
Being cucked, licking another guy’s cum out of my wife (when we were dating, I did that many times, she was popular)
 
I have some kinks (cnc, double penetration, etc) that I have less irl experience with but am curious about/ have indulged over chat. I’m into sex outside/in public, light restraint, choking, breeding. I’m open with my partners about my kinks, but wouldn’t bring up casually with friends
 
If sex is beginning to be on the cards I start discussing what turns me on, and what turns her on. I am not particularly kinky, but I do like mild bondage, almost always as the dominant partner, I like a 69 after sex, and I like to lick arse. Light spanking, rope, nipple clamps, etc., are all on the menu too, but nothing that will leave a lasting mark, as it were.
 
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My intro to kinky sex occurred with my grandI ma"s husband.. We all made wine and she went to bed , Late into the morning hours Bob started telling me about his first wife and their social life, HE show me picture of her and how I reminded him of her....I handed him another drink and he held my arm and asked me to kiss him.. I did.. I let him feel my tits ,, then stood and removed my top.. I was hooked letting him see me and talk about her.
 
My intro to kinky sex occurred with my grandI ma"s husband.. We all made wine and she went to bed , Late into the morning hours Bob started telling me about his first wife and their social life, HE show me picture of her and how I reminded him of her....I handed him another drink and he held my arm and asked me to kiss him.. I did.. I let him feel my tits ,, then stood and removed my top.. I was hooked letting him see me and talk about her.
Love to hear more about it. Pm if you dont want to post
 
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