Jacking-Off Log

[Hester]

In a lot of the writings there is an emphasis on men as morally inferior, brutal, simplistic, easy to "housetrain" or manipulate, interested in only one or two things, beasts, etc. whereas women are whole humans, wide-spectrum, more subtle, more intuitive, more emotionally aware, sophisticated (aka more intelligent), etc. If that doesn't sound familar, I can dig up some links to writings, probably.

some of the more militant, extreme stuff---yes you are right.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I jacked this day, but I did not o, but I almost did!

I was thinking about the feeling of lips and throat and soft palate clamped firmly upon my shaft, suckling me as if the seed gave life. There is a "nursing" aspect to oral servitude, you know. A mother-child connection where the man experiences some of the intimacy felt by the new mother, with the penis standing in for the breast, the balls for the milk glands, seed for nourishing mother's milk, and the penis sucker for babe in arms. I have now fully exhausted the simile. *makes "5x5" box gesture in air with hands*

I was so into it that I had to use my chinese taoist methods to keep from losing it.

 

[Hester]

do you not O at all or just don't ejac?

 

[Recidiva]

I jacked this day, but I did not o, but I almost did!

I was thinking about the feeling of lips and throat and soft palate clamped firmly upon my shaft, suckling me as if the seed gave life. There is a "nursing" aspect to oral servitude, you know. A mother-child connection where the man experiences some of the intimacy felt by the new mother, with the penis standing in for the breast, the balls for the milk glands, seed for nourishing mother's milk, and the penis sucker for babe in arms. I have now fully exhausted the simile. *makes "5x5" box gesture in air with hands*

I was so into it that I had to use my chinese taoist methods to keep from losing it.

What Chinese Taoist method?

Is that like thinking about baseball? I know that kills my buzz.

Or is this a Dirk Gently "Suffusion of yellow" thing?

 

[Hester]

What Chinese Taoist method?

Is that like thinking about baseball? I know that kills my buzz.

Or is this a Dirk Gently "Suffusion of yellow" thing?

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/00...ref=sr_1_1/002-8399916-1495204?_encoding=UTF8

about 4-5 yrs ago i bought a half dozen copies and handed them out to my friends

 

[rosco rathbone]

Well, there's not a really a sharp line between the O and the ejaculation. The whole game is to see how close you can get without losing it. Pull back and begin again.

My chinese methods are partly physical, involving breathing and control of the spermatic ducts and seminal vesicles; and partly mental/spiritual--involving visualizations and awareness of flows and tingles and colorful lights.

 

[rosco rathbone]

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/00...ref=sr_1_1/002-8399916-1495204?_encoding=UTF8

about 4-5 yrs ago i bought a half dozen copies and handed them out to my friends

I first got into the whole thing thru Mantak Chia, then learned more from tai chi and chigung masters.

 

[Hester]

Well, there's not a really a sharp line between the O and the ejaculation. The whole game is to see how close you can get without losing it. Pull back and begin again.

My chinese methods are partly physical, involving breathing and control of the spermatic ducts and seminal vesicles; and partly mental/spiritual--involving visualizations and awareness of flows and tingles and colorful lights.

do you find any release or satisfaction from it?

or is it the build up you relish?

 

[Hester]

i've been in a terrible funk all day. didn't even wake up horny, still no itching.

 

[Recidiva]

i've been in a terrible funk all day. didn't even wake up horny, still no itching.

This I don't get. First you're frustrated you're jacking so much, now you're frustrated you're not.

Women!

 

[Hester]

This I don't get. First you're frustrated you're jacking so much, now you're frustrated you're not.

Women!

lol.

i'm not frustrated, just worried. it's not normal for me!

 

[Recidiva]

lol.

i'm not frustrated, just worried. it's not normal for me!

Okay. *awkward pat* There, there.

I'm sorry, I have no idea how to counsel anyone on normalcy.

 

[Hester]

Okay. *awkward pat* There, there.

I'm sorry, I have no idea how to counsel anyone on normalcy.

lol.

i'll get over it. i'm allowed a down day once in a while.

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

. I totally know what you mean olivia, I think that is how I am, too, only I've not yet learned to cum from penetration. I prefer to hump something, and it's that humping motion that gets me off.

That 'on top' orgasm includes penetration, which stimulates my g-spot, and is nice for him, but it isn't the penetration that makes me cum. It is the feeling, basically, that I'm humping him with my clit. (or, if you want the grit of it, that I'm fucking him with my clit, and that thought makes me cum). It's a different motion - you stay close, and don't let him push up to meet you. It's the aggression of pushing that makes it work.

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

i dreamt about you jacking feckers last night, especially olivia.

everyone was walking around with their siglines exposed.

*glowing* Did I do something really dirty? Did I? Did I?

 

[spacekowboy]

Twice this morning after being entirely too drunk lastnight to even attempt it. Both were fantastic. There wasn't much build up with either on , I just felt the urge and took advantage of some much needed privacy and quiet time.

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

Fuck Fuck Fuck. There. Ok, better. Not to thread hijack, so I'll say it short and sweet: feminism has many voices, and the active discourse regarding sexuality has moved on from the seventies. I'm a feminist. When I'm angry, it is towards patriarchy, not men. I never equated my feminism with a feeling of superiority to men. Ok. Breathe.

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

I jacked this day, but I did not o, but I almost did!

I was thinking about the feeling of lips and throat and soft palate clamped firmly upon my shaft, suckling me as if the seed gave life. There is a "nursing" aspect to oral servitude, you know. A mother-child connection where the man experiences some of the intimacy felt by the new mother, with the penis standing in for the breast, the balls for the milk glands, seed for nourishing mother's milk, and the penis sucker for babe in arms. I have now fully exhausted the simile. *makes "5x5" box gesture in air with hands*

I was so into it that I had to use my chinese taoist methods to keep from losing it.

I love this, rosco. I think you're radical in your explicitness about the undergound feelings of sex.

 

[Olivia_Yearns]

i've been in a terrible funk all day. didn't even wake up horny, still no itching.

Hey love, if you can crash for a day, it might give you something. Let yourself.

 

[rosco rathbone]

do you find any release or satisfaction from it?

or is it the build up you relish?

There's something of a bell curve. At the apex is "ejakulation after long build-up", tapering off to one side is frequent expenditure of vitality (what we call in the language of the jol "jacking willy nilly") and on the other side, the anxiety, tension and sexual rage caused by overcontrol without release. I am perpetually juggling and fiddling with the ratios in search of the sweet spot.

I love this, rosco. I think you're radical in your explicitness about the undergound feelings of sex.

I'm glad that you appreciate my humble logging efforts.

You "sig" made me smile just now.

www.iblamethepatriarchy.com<<<they blame the patriarchy too!

 

[Recidiva]

Body shaking still trembling, cried, have a story idea great jack territory.

 

[Hester]

*glowing* Did I do something really dirty? Did I? Did I?

i don't remember dirtiness. you were just prominently featured.

thanks for the explanation, wrathbone.

still no jack or desire today, not even a twinge. very interesting.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

That 'on top' orgasm includes penetration, which stimulates my g-spot, and is nice for him, but it isn't the penetration that makes me cum. It is the feeling, basically, that I'm humping him with my clit. (or, if you want the grit of it, that I'm fucking him with my clit, and that thought makes me cum). It's a different motion - you stay close, and don't let him push up to meet you. It's the aggression of pushing that makes it work.

ooh, I'm so going to try this next time I fuck. I HAVE gotten off, if I'm on top but he's not inside, I'm just humping against his cock as it slides bewteen my labia and the head bumps against my clit.

btw, no jacking for me, I fell asleep last night with the vibe between my thighs....I'm going to go vibeless for a while...so i probably won't O for about 2 weeks 2 days

 

[naughtygirl69s]

But if you could only have mental masturbation without physical intercourse or physical masturbation without mental intercourse, which would you choose?

give me a good "mind fuck" any day!

 

[alice_underneath]

Interesting. Can female masturbation be ignominious? We are on the tail end of a public relations campaign begun by the feminists in the 1970s to convince us that women, their masturbations and orgams are all rainbows, unicorns, and good normal clean healthy fun with no one getting hurt.

When I lived in Manhattan, I had many fantasies with a setting that was, for me, realistic. A conference room with a mahogany table..... leather chairs.... a dozen men wearing Brooks Brothers..... a lone woman (me) in a tasteful Ann Taylor suit.

Though the setting was authentic, the action was not. In reality, I was an assiduous and successful employee. In my fantasies, I kept screwing up.

The resulting punishment would be something like -

Me across my boss's lap, tasteful skirt around my waist, panties down by my pumps, etc.

or -

Me kneeling on the table, clothes in the same condition, on display for the duration of the meeting.

You get the idea.

I don't know if that counts as ignominious by your standards, Mr. Rathbone. But I'm fairly certain that most feminists would be aghast.