It's a cuckold's world

[policywank]

What a lucky man your husband is! Sounds perfect from all angles.

Thank you.

 

[Timetotryagain]

Well our relationship is now full-time FLR and he is caged full-time. He is bi-sexual so he was keen to embrace cream pie eating and giving blowjobs to my lovers if they let him. I also peg him regularly. And he is frequently naked while he does his chores around the house (except for his cage) and that includes when some of my friends are over. He also likes to be leashed and tied up. I would say that we have tried most of the things that are associated with cuckolding, although we aren't into feminization or harsh humiliation.

This would be perfect, I'd love to do everything you mentioned, but wouldn't want feminization or humiliation eaither. I'm all for creampies, giving blowjobs, and pegging though.

 

[betabrad]

Well our relationship is now full-time FLR and he is caged full-time. He is bi-sexual so he was keen to embrace cream pie eating and giving blowjobs to my lovers if they let him. I also peg him regularly. And he is frequently naked while he does his chores around the house (except for his cage) and that includes when some of my friends are over. He also likes to be leashed and tied up. I would say that we have tried most of the things that are associated with cuckolding, although we aren't into feminization or harsh humiliation.

I would like to find a woman like you.

 

[policywank]

I would like to find a woman like you.

That is nice of you to say. I hope you do.

 

[bondandmoneypenny]

Not in the slightest.

Do you think that the scene will change, now with the abortion new laws in America?

 

[JDredd711]

In my estimation (and experience) a cuckold's desires are typically rooted in one of two nearly completely opposing ideas. Indulge me in my theory:

1.) Some cuckolds have a deep desire to feel emotionally submissive... It can manifest itself as the need to feel humiliated, embarrassed, jealous, panicked, etc. There's an innate response in all of us when faced with a feeling of helplessness. The weight of that experience varies in all of us, but something is learned once the situation passes. We are rewarded by learning experiences.

Or...

2.) (My perspective) Some cuckolds have a deep desire to be emotionally empowered by witnessing something (or in this case someone) they cherish providing others with, and experiencing some level of joy. Think about the last time you had a delicious meal with friends... "Oh my God, you HAVE to try mine, it's so good!" Doesn't it feel good when they try it and are suddenly experiencing the same excitement as you? The analogy obviously carries lower stakes than watching someone fuck your partner, but the reward pathway is the same.

Obviously none of the two of us are wired to perceive cuckoldry the same way. It varies from being an absolute need to an absolute hard no for both men and women.

Maybe #3 is a husband who just wants to give his wife ultimate pleasure and knows he can't do that alone. Wife "stepping out" adds that extra mental component to it, making the sex special, especially when it involves a hung "bull" or stable of boyfriends/sex toys. There's a lot to unpack, and every couple is different. All I know is I enjoy hearing about all the different arrangements. Today I watched a very hot cuckold video where the woman was giving a bbc inspired head. The bull observed that "he" probably doesn't get head like that. She asked "who"? They both laughed, then she mentioned that "he (hubby) has to pay for blowjobs. The bull laughed and asked if she was serious. She replied yes, that's how she could afford her nice iPhone. So hawt!!!!

 

[JDredd711]

Maybe #3 is a husband who just wants to give his wife ultimate pleasure and knows he can't do that alone. Wife "stepping out" adds that extra mental component to it, making the sex special, especially when it involves a hung "bull" or stable of boyfriends/sex toys. There's a lot to unpack, and every couple is different. All I know is I enjoy hearing about all the different arrangements. Today I watched a very hot cuckold video where the woman was giving a bbc inspired head. The bull observed that "he" probably doesn't get head like that. She asked "who"? They both laughed, then she mentioned that "he (hubby) has to pay for blowjobs. The bull laughed and asked if she was serious. She replied yes, that's how she could afford her nice iPhone. So hawt!!!!

And I found the link to the video. Enjoy.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph61a65d8ae7e4d

It's around the 4:35 mark but the rest of the video is worth it.

 

[Yourcuck]

My husband is a good lover, but he is also a confirmed cuckold and I am very happy to indulge him in his needs.

I have always been a bit of a cheater but as I get older the urge seems to increase and I do my best to make sure that Dave catches me at it. I am past 40 but I am still slim an trim and it's not hard for me to find lovers -- in fact he expects it of me now. And when he watches it turns us both on even more. We were fantasizing last night what a wonderful world it would be if all girls were like me, screwing around and making sure their hubbies know all about it!

What do other's think -- actual and prospective cuckolds. How much do wives want to cuckold their hubbies?

Jenny

Wish my wife did

 

[Jseven82B]

I think the world would be alot better if people were comfortable exploring and sharing their sexuality. we hurt each other as much from unfulfilled needs as we do from betrayal when we finally act out from our unmet needs. Far better to have a way to see that everyone can get what they want

 

[cuckoldbill]

Love this thread

 

[policywank]

I think the world would be alot better if people were comfortable exploring and sharing their sexuality. we hurt each other as much from unfulfilled needs as we do from betrayal when we finally act out from our unmet needs. Far better to have a way to see that everyone can get what they want

I find that at times it is especially disheartening to hear how some spouses don't even want hear about their partners unfulfilled needs. Everything is a give and take so we shouldn't expect that we are obliged to do everything our spouse desires. But not even being willing to hear it is a betrayal.

 

[cuckoldbill]

I find that at times it is especially disheartening to hear how some spouses don't even want hear about their partners unfulfilled needs. Everything is a give and take so we shouldn't expect that we are obliged to do everything our spouse desires. But not even being willing to hear it is a betrayal.

I agree completely.

 

[LeeKee]

I can agree with this. When I first started dating my now wife she was adamant about monogamy and loyalty. But she had limited experiences before me. So it was about four years in our relationship when she found herself in a hotelroom getting fucked by another man! Fortunately we’ve both embraced the idea of her having sex with other men!

Apart from the hubby getting on board, I honestly don’t think our story is that unique. I’m sure most married women would like nothing more than to be able to step out on occasion. But don’t want to risk harming their marriage.

The only indicating comment my wife has ever said was, "well, ive only been with one man since weve met and that you." But it was the way she said it. The tone was as if she was hinting she wants variety.

 

[peter49parker]

For me cuckolding is the ideal sexual lifestyle situation.

We have tried swinging or swapping and still do now and then. But it always seemed to me to be a bit of an enforced equalizer. The husband who has limited sexual opportunities is provided access to sexual opportunities that would otherwise not be available to him whereas the wife who has abundant sexual opportunities is being constrained to certain groups, events and settings. Even within that setting I would sometimes feel a bit guilty because my husband had exhausted his sexual capacity and I was not even close to done.

Perhaps that sounds selfish, but female sexual options are just different than male options. If a couple wants to open up their marriage I think that the "fair" approach is to allow each partner latitude to pursue their sexual pleasure however they see fit, not creating an artificial environment to encourage or compel equal outcomes unless that is what both partners want. When we tried an open marriage it did lead to clearly different outcomes and almost any couple who has pursued this approach will tell you that if the wife really wants to embrace the possibilities she will almost always end up having far more sexual partners and experiences than her husband. That is fine if the husband is sanguine about it all. But if he feels at all competitive or can't reconcile himself to this outcome that will create relationship challenges.

Cuckolding is very much like an open relationship except that my husband has openly accepted that we will have asymmetrical outcomes and he doesn't try to fight it. Once he accepted that premise he basically concluded that he really didn't have any interest in pursuing the sexual opportunities that were available to him with other women. So cuckolding wasn't something imposed on him - it was his rationale choice. Only after that was established did we start to explore the other more kinky aspects of the lifestyle.

Your post is spot on about the options available to females, as opposed to the male population. Most wives, who let it be known that they were open to having sex with other men, would likely have a line forming at the bedroom door. Not that opportunity isn't there for the husband to get some extra on the side sex, but it is so much easier for the wives.

I am surely not complaining. I have told my wife that she is free to engage with any man in sexual activities, that she wishes. My issue is that she was initially interested in taking up my offer, then balked, giving me two reasons. The first, she thought I didn't find her sexually attractive anymore. That is absolutely NOT the case. She is still a sexy, sexy lady.

The second reason was, she was afraid that I would use her extra curricular activities as an excuse to fuck other women. It is not even in my thoughts, but I could not convince her otherwise.

Cuckolding is definitely the choice for me. I just wish my wife would take up the offer.

 

[Bbl87]

I find that at times it is especially disheartening to hear how some spouses don't even want hear about their partners unfulfilled needs. Everything is a give and take so we shouldn't expect that we are obliged to do everything our spouse desires. But not even being willing to hear it is a betrayal.

That is honestly the most frustrating thing about my relationship. I try to express my unfulfilled needs, but that gets shut down because she gets upset and says I'm just saying she's a terrible person and what she gives me isn't good enough. In my mind I'm like, no... I want you to understand what I want and need, so we can meet somewhere. And I'm not talking about anything extreme, just a little more frequency and maybe trying a few new things. I feel like if she would just not catastrophize it off the bat and listen to me, we might actually make some progress.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Your post is spot on about the options available to females, as opposed to the male population. Most wives, who let it be known that they were open to having sex with other men, would likely have a line forming at the bedroom door. Not that opportunity isn't there for the husband to get some extra on the side sex, but it is so much easier for the wives.

I am surely not complaining. I have told my wife that she is free to engage with any man in sexual activities, that she wishes. My issue is that she was initially interested in taking up my offer, then balked, giving me two reasons. The first, she thought I didn't find her sexually attractive anymore. That is absolutely NOT the case. She is still a sexy, sexy lady.

The second reason was, she was afraid that I would use her extra curricular activities as an excuse to fuck other women. It is not even in my thoughts, but I could not convince her otherwise.

Cuckolding is definitely the choice for me. I just wish my wife would take up the offer.

This is probably a factor in us moving forward as well. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Every time we learn new things, and that is what make our relationship so healthy. We may not always be getting closer to cuckolding, but we are getting closer to each other.

 

[policywank]

Your post is spot on about the options available to females, as opposed to the male population. Most wives, who let it be known that they were open to having sex with other men, would likely have a line forming at the bedroom door. Not that opportunity isn't there for the husband to get some extra on the side sex, but it is so much easier for the wives.

I am surely not complaining. I have told my wife that she is free to engage with any man in sexual activities, that she wishes. My issue is that she was initially interested in taking up my offer, then balked, giving me two reasons. The first, she thought I didn't find her sexually attractive anymore. That is absolutely NOT the case. She is still a sexy, sexy lady.

The second reason was, she was afraid that I would use her extra curricular activities as an excuse to fuck other women. It is not even in my thoughts, but I could not convince her otherwise.

Cuckolding is definitely the choice for me. I just wish my wife would take up the offer.

I think that it is also the case that a woman is more likely to need to go outside the marriage for sexual satisfaction. Obviously there instances of either gender not being inclined to attend to their partners sexual needs. But men are substantially more likely to be unable to fulfill their partner's sexual needs. That is primarily a function of the different physiology of the male and female bodies. If a wife wants to, she can consistently bring her husband to orgasm with few exceptions and assuming the man is able to orgasm. But the opposite is not true. Our orgasms are more complex, and less predictable and our sexual capacity is greater. Especially as we age it is quite common for a man to not be able to get it up or to prematurely ejaculate. But even if we need some lube a woman can virtually always be penetrated (with exceptions for health issues) enough to bring a man to orgasm.

 

[KinkyMisfit]

Well our relationship is now full-time FLR and he is caged full-time. He is bi-sexual so he was keen to embrace cream pie eating and giving blowjobs to my lovers if they let him. I also peg him regularly. And he is frequently naked while he does his chores around the house (except for his cage) and that includes when some of my friends are over. He also likes to be leashed and tied up. I would say that we have tried most of the things that are associated with cuckolding, although we aren't into feminization or harsh humiliation.

And that is how recruiting is done.
Are you accepting applications?

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

This may sound a little strange to some, but after 11 years of whatever you all want to call this swinging or cuckolding. I choose not to seek out other women, I was given the opportunity and given the permission to do so, but I traded that for the kinky sex I desire and need from my wife. I get the things I want and need by letting her get what she wants and needs outside of our marriage. It is a dynamic that we have adopted. A lot of times when she and I engage in sex, I don't even really want to have an orgasm or cum at all, as I prefer to remain in a heightened state of arousal for much longer than I would normally last. So at times we engage in other sexual activities that are more geared towards pleasuring her, more than me. However I do get a different type of orgasm through anal play, and yes I have a release that does not necessarily kill my sexual excitement. Being in chastity helps maintain that.

I like to do activities that pleasure her while I am in chasity and receiving some sort of anal stimulation. Eating her and pleasuring her with toys while I remain locked and have a vibrating anal plug in my ass if one way if achieving this, me fucking her with a strap on is another, we also bought a dildo that gets strapped to my head, I find that to be a total turn on.

Although there are times that I just want to get off , and there are times that I want to get off and continue pleasuring my wife. I have no real explanation for what I like, and I stopped trying to figure it out.

 

[pixie07]

I have been a cuckold husband for most of my marriage and couldn’t be happier, initially my wife wasn’t that interested but then the right man came along and the rest is history. I love the humiliation and “forced being “ feminized , and my wife and her boyfriends and bulls more then happy to humiliate me . We have been in this type of relationship so long that almost all of our friends and family know I’m a cuckold to the point where my mother invites my wife’s main bull to family dinners. I am kept in a chastity device and I have a whole closet of women’s clothes and lingerie that they dress me up in . I’ve been this type on marriage for so long now that I couldn’t be in a normal relationship anymore .

 

[rockynook]

Fantastic post. We have been in a Femdom marriage 35+years.I am sub-sissy cuckold,and could never,everfunction in a vanilla relationship.

 

[policywank]

And that is how recruiting is done.
Are you accepting applications?

Lol. Not at the moment. It is worth noting that I continue to be surprised by just how many guys crave a FLR.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

Lol. Not at the moment. It is worth noting that I continue to be surprised by just how many guys crave a FLR.

For me at least, an FLR has taken a lot of guessing or assuming out of our relationship. It has given her the confidence to tell me what she wants. It has given her the confidence to tell me what she expects from me at certain times. The confidence in her is sexy as fuck, although she keeps a level head.

 

[policywank]

This may sound a little strange to some, but after 11 years of whatever you all want to call this swinging or cuckolding. I choose not to seek out other women, I was given the opportunity and given the permission to do so, but I traded that for the kinky sex I desire and need from my wife. I get the things I want and need by letting her get what she wants and needs outside of our marriage. It is a dynamic that we have adopted. A lot of times when she and I engage in sex, I don't even really want to have an orgasm or cum at all, as I prefer to remain in a heightened state of arousal for much longer than I would normally last. So at times we engage in other sexual activities that are more geared towards pleasuring her, more than me. However I do get a different type of orgasm through anal play, and yes I have a release that does not necessarily kill my sexual excitement. Being in chastity helps maintain that.

I like to do activities that pleasure her while I am in chasity and receiving some sort of anal stimulation. Eating her and pleasuring her with toys while I remain locked and have a vibrating anal plug in my ass if one way if achieving this, me fucking her with a strap on is another, we also bought a dildo that gets strapped to my head, I find that to be a total turn on.

Although there are times that I just want to get off , and there are times that I want to get off and continue pleasuring my wife. I have no real explanation for what I like, and I stopped trying to figure it out.

I have been a cuckold husband for most of my marriage and couldn’t be happier, initially my wife wasn’t that interested but then the right man came along and the rest is history. I love the humiliation and “forced being “ feminized , and my wife and her boyfriends and bulls more then happy to humiliate me . We have been in this type of relationship so long that almost all of our friends and family know I’m a cuckold to the point where my mother invites my wife’s main bull to family dinners. I am kept in a chastity device and I have a whole closet of women’s clothes and lingerie that they dress me up in . I’ve been this type on marriage for so long now that I couldn’t be in a normal relationship anymore .

Fantastic post. We have been in a Femdom marriage 35+years.I am sub-sissy cuckold,and could never,everfunction in a vanilla relationship.

These are such interesting posts to read. One of the consistent themes I hear (including in my PMs) are that cuckolds genuinely want to live this lifestyle and prefer it to a traditional monogamous relationship. Furthermore, the men who have left the cuckold lifestyle (either because their wife stopped having sex with other men or that relationship ended) frequently want to return to it.

 

[omyg008]

This is such an interesting thread. I'm a married man myself, and although I have never introduced the idea of cuckolding to our relationship, it is definitely one of the themes I read/watch most and fantasize about.

Being a CEO, maybe there's a part of me that wants to be out of control rather than always in control. Then again, I admit being just as attracted to being the cuckold as I am to fucking other husbands' wives. I wonder how common that duality is.