Instruction Young Men How To Make Love Versus Just Having Sex

No one wants to comfort their daughter after her two-pump-chump of a boyfriend ruined what should have been a special time. So why is society so critical of older women who give younger guys much needed guidance and experience?
I don't see that anywhere in this thread.I think the only thing society "eye roll" is critical about a younger gal/guy with an older guy/gal is there only reasoning is. "they must be in it for the money.
You must admit though when the older person in the relationship starts getting "Old" I would think they start regretting being with them a bit. I'm sure this has to do with how big the age gap is, (attention: Bill Belichek)
 
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I consider myself extremely lucky. When I was 18 years old there was an extremely hot divorced woman who lived around the corner from me. I figured that there was no way and that she would only be a fantasy for me. One day as I walked by she started talking to me and hit on me. I thought I was imagining it. This led to a 14 month affair that wasn't just about her getting laid. I was taught over this time, how to please and satisfy a woman in many different ways. I was crushed when she told me that she was moving away but was very thankful for what she had taught me as have the partners I have had since her been thankful
 
I consider myself extremely lucky. When I was 18 years old there was an extremely hot divorced woman who lived around the corner from me. I figured that there was no way and that she would only be a fantasy for me. One day as I walked by she started talking to me and hit on me. I thought I was imagining it. This led to a 14 month affair that wasn't just about her getting laid. I was taught over this time, how to please and satisfy a woman in many different ways. I was crushed when she told me that she was moving away but was very thankful for what she had taught me as have the partners I have had since her been thankful
This should be compulsory for every 18 year old male. Or 16 here of course.
 
I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.

Being a sexual mentor can be a good thing!
 
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